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How to pick up a girl ? ! (pg. 9)
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| Mr. Pink |
ok i read the whole damn thread and will have to agree with jason on this one!
he nailed the issues right on the head :)
im just going to add that everything with women is and should be judged on a case by case approach.
Not every girl likes the same things. The art of the chase starts way before you've said your first word. So, pay attention to details!
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| deprivation |
You can have routines to pickup women, but one thing I've learned is that if a woman is strongly physically attracted to you then its hard to mess up. Initially, they'll go along with a lot of what you say regardless if they agree or not. It's okay to be yourself with women who really like you. Just don't go saying something too stupid or arrogant to mess things up.
As for physical attraction -- women will generally let you know through body language whether she's attracted to you or not. These are the women you should approach. They're letting you know that they want to be approached and expect you to do so. You shouldn't feel uncomfortable approaching a female that wants you to. The conversation most likely will go well. |
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| kadomony |
| if you know what you're doing, looks have nothing to do with it ;) |
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| DaveSZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
not a tease either. just simply put...i will not give a cocky guy the satisfaction. nice guys ALWAYS win with me. and i may be one of the many few that believes that nice guys finish first. |
I take it by "nice guy" you don't mean "doormat?"
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| trewqy |
Be cocky AND funny.
Theres a fine line between arrogrance and cockiness.
DOnt listen to the girls. Trust me on this cause; this is a tried and tested formula. I swear to god, it works for some odd reason.
U need to find the balance between them and remember to always be joking around...if ur not a funny guy to begin with, i suggest hanging around more with funny friends and learn how to be a comedian by watching them or reading a book. |
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| DaveSZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Caela
ok this is my reasoning.
douchebag girls get douchebag guys.
douchebag people are *often* attractive...so they're douchebaggy because they expect special treatment since they're hot.
people want to date hot people.
nice guys therefor want hot (most often douchebaggy) girls.
douchebaggy girls are shallow and ONLY pay attention to looks, and won't connect on the same level that nice guys are on.
so...ifso = facto and 3 - 4 + 234 x 39 = there you have it.
nice guys sometimes finish last with girls.
but they shouldn't! it's not fair. the way i see it, is the nicer, more charasmatic you are, the hotter you are.
nice guys that are hot = :gsmile: |
This to me is evidence that women's perception of "nice guy" and men's perceptions of "nice guy," (and the way many men act on those perceptions) are completely different.
| quote: | Originally posted by Caela
jerks can be friendly and outgoing...but i think it takes NICE guys to be charasmatic gentlemen.
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Bingo.
By "nice" you mean "chivalrous and charismatic" (or something along those lines). I assume all the other women who say they like "nice guys" mean something similar.
And most guys think "nice" means "doormat" where you go along with all the woman's demands instead of leading and then before you know it you're in the "friend zone" and she's telling you about how awful her jerk boyfriend who smokes crack, and drives a motorcycle is but she just can't give him up.
Hence the reason why "nice guys finish last."
It must have been a guy who coined that one.
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| insecurity |
| quote: | Originally posted by RapidFire
well the whole 'nice guys finish last' thing. most nice guys do end up with just normal girls. and society dictates that unless your girlfriend looks like Pam Anderson youre not a winner.
if youre happy with the girl that youre with, no matter her looks thats all that matters. so in the end unless nice guys end up alone then they arent really the losers here. because hell the sex is probably just as good if not better and at least theres something deeper there once its all over... |
+1
as far the topic of this goes, understand the "ladder theory" & show them which side of the ladder you want to be on
& overall, be confident in yourself
girls like nice guys pfffft:nervous: |
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| Echo of Silence |
One thing's kind of funny.
I have a group of girlfriends here at school and in my opinion, most of them, probably all of them, are way hotter than I am (definitely none are less hot) but because I am not available and will tell any guy here that I'm not available, up front, the guys just totally waste all of their time trying to get me and ignore my girlfriends who are available.
My advice?
If someone says they're not available, don't waste your time on them. It doesn't matter why they aren't available. Not available means just that. I mean it's okay to be friends and stuff but that's it.
And yes, Jason, good post.
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| arcadia190 |
school???
how old r u??? |
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| Sunsnail |
| quote: | Originally posted by arcadia190
school???
how old r u??? |
it's not that hard to look at her profile |
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| Echo of Silence |
| quote: | Originally posted by arcadia190
school???
how old r u??? |
You are annoying.
You post too much.
Your posts are stupid.
You make dumb threads all over the place and usually they are in the wrong forums.
You tell other people what to do as if you know.
If you want to know how old someone is, click the profile button. If you can't figure it out, pm them.
And don't pm me. |
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| arcadia190 |
:nervous: :( :nervous: :( :( :( :(
:confused: :( :nervous:
u r mean :( |
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