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OZzz
What is your philosophy for dating multiple people at the same time? Do you make sure and let all of the people involved know what the situation is...? Do you only tell them the truth if they ask...? Do you lie to them if they ask...?
Sunsnail
don't send teh lettar!!1
_Nut_
Things at UWW are always easier. Break it to them over a bonfire.
Nrg2Nfinit
if they ask just tell them, "im seeing you right now"


and tomorrow is another day
washout
im sleeping with two chicks at the moment.
i win.
epdarks
NEVER tell them about each other. both until one finds out. other until she finds out. Then go crying back to both. One will likely accept. In the meantime you should have aleady found a 3rd party to .
lex400sc
just remember to strap up
wizniz
let them know from the beginning that youre interested in being in multiple relationships. this is kind of what i told my ex when she wanted to get back together:



I want us to hangout too rather than just BUT people jump into relationships too quickly and this creates all sorts of problems and expectations down the line.

I don’t know about you but I am not looking for a serious committed relationship which is based on monogamy, in other words people that trap themselves into old fashioned relationships where one person is expected to be with another forever. I am sure you don’t want to get bogged down in a relationship like that, do you?

We are both young, and I'm sure you want to explore what else is out there before you even start to think of a serious relationship. True?

So if you would like to continue what we have now, see each other, have great sex, hang out then its cool with me, as long as I get to do whatever else I like to, maybe meeting more people sometimes, you can do exactly the same which is cool with me too.

I want to be honest with so we have nothing to hide, when you have nothing to hide there’s no lies, no deceit, no jealousy and id like to have that kind of a relationship with you, if you are cool with it then we can continue, if not then you may leave to look for something that you may think you want.



yes i saved it because i thought it was worded well and quite honest.
Orbax
quote:
Originally posted by wizniz
where one person is expected to be with another forever. I am sure you don’t want to get bogged down in a relationship like that, do you?

We are both young , and I'm sure you want to explore what else is out there before you even start to think of a serious relationship. True?

So if you would like to continue what we have now, see each other, have great sex, hang out then its cool with me, as long as I get to yes i saved it because i thought it was worded well and quite honest.


I bolded the part youll look back on in 10 years and itll answer the question "Wtf was I thinking when I wrote that"
Fundamental
quote:
Originally posted by washout
im sleeping with two chicks at the moment.


...and posting on TA?! Effort!

Spyder
make sure you can multi task.. and if your lucky enough to date two diffrent ppl with the same name..
OZzz
i like your thoughts wizniz. honesty is probably the most important thing. im young and want to have all the fun i can while i can but at the same time would hate to see anyone get hurt.
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