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how do you feel about your g/f "grinding" with another guy? (pg. 15)
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| bananas |
| a short version, anyone? |
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| grooviebeats |
| ok ok ok ... new question... guys if your girl goes to the club and she grinds with another girl is that ok? If so why... |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
ok ok ok ... new question... guys if your girl goes to the club and she grinds with another girl is that ok? If so why... |
there's no universal answer to that question... i think it's something that should be discussed between you and your partner so that you're both aware of what is considered right or wrong. i think the reasons behind why the girl is grinding with another girl are pretty important though when you're deciding whether it's appropriate or not... i mean if that's just how she likes to dance and get down with her good friends i don't see it as a big problem, but if she's genuinely interested in girls and the dancing could lead to something else, well then that might be an issue.
personally i think any sort of grinding is just in' tacky and it's not even an attractive form of dancing! if you're doing it with your partner you're being that couple who just needs to chill out and get a room, if you're doing it with someone other than you're partner you're being trashy and disrespectful, if you're a chick and you're grinding on another chick you're just giving people the idea that you're trashy and looking for attention. why is grinding even cool? save that for the bedroom. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
save that for the bedroom. |
I'LL GRIND YOU IN THE BEDROOM!!!!!!!!
inappropriate :p |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
I'LL GRIND YOU IN THE BEDROOM!!!!!!!!
inappropriate :p |
that's what i use when guys try to grind on me out at a club. |
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| Swamper |
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
that's what i use when guys try to grind on me out at a club. |
ouch!:o |
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
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| Slylee |
yea now that i think of it, the answer to this question is obviously going to vary greatly in each person and/or couple. it's all about preference and what each person/couple is comfortable with.
there are some women out there who don't really care if their man gets wasted with the boys and does a little dirty dancing with some random chick...as long as he comes home to her, and no numbers were exchanged or fondling (like someone said earlier) she's cool with it, and she trusts him.
it's the same as letting your man go to a strip club.
i think some people in here are being a little unrealistic, but hey, that's you and your beliefs and as long as you and your partner are on the same page with everything, then that's your business. |
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| Spacey Orange |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
so basically, as long as you and your partner are compatible and have good communication, there shouldn't be any excuse for going elsewhere for excitement or sexual satisfaction. the only ones responsible for keeping your relationship new/exciting/satisfying/etc are YOU and your partner.
being a man isn't an excuse for being a ty boyfriend or husband. |
Are you aware of the extent to which your views are cultural, or culture-induced?
America is a very egalitarian and idealistic country, with politically correct and gender-neutral attitudes to sex and love. But America is not the whole world. In Southern Italian villages, for example, the vast majority of husbands have affairs with other women, which is silently accepted by everyone although never discussed in public. And I remember reading a survey that in Germany, a significant number of Germans (perhaps even the majority) don't have negative views of extramarital sex. |
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| diffusion |
My girlfriend wants to be able to flirt around and
"grind" on the dancefloor. She wants me to accept it, and
she says I can do the same.
The thing is, and I won't tell her this, but if I were to
flirt around with other girls, I'd end up ing them. That
kinda ruins the whole idea of a relationship :)
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The girls i go for, my mates always say i can get better looking ones. They cant see past looks.
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