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how do you feel about your g/f "grinding" with another guy? (pg. 9)
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquadyne
So you're a slut. You could have just said it. Didn't have to type out 3 long paragraphs. |
how is she a slut shes not sleeping with anyone she is happy with her man. Free drink Hooochie maybe but no slut. |
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| Slylee |
by the way, in all honesty, i incorporated the "buys me a drink" because i don't really think there's anything THAT bad about that and i was just trying to make a point...but i don't let guys buy me drinks. single or not.
oh and i'm not saying that i wouldn't be upset if i knew my bf was dancing and having a nice, fun convo with some other female without me there...i would totally be pissed, but i think i know it's my issue and it's kinda silly to get mad over that, so that's why i say i'd rather not know. |
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by sakabatou
Meaning its no respect.
You say it is respect.
Also, I don't need the different words defining.
The fact you've totally forgot what you said proves to me that you have no idea how you feel about this, and are just posting posts. |
ok lets make it simple.. it can be seen both ways depending on which way you look at it. I personaly do not see it as a trust issue at all. If she goes out and grinds comes home to me no skin off my back. If she grinds and im like hell no you better stop and she still does it, then for me its a respect thing. As in she isnt respecting my wishes to stop. Even if she still does it im not going to trust her any less but i will be hurt as she isnt respecting me.
I was only trying to states that it can be seen from both a trust and a respect point of view. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
ok lets make it simple.. it can be seen both ways depending on which way you look at it. I personaly do not see it as a trust issue at all. If she goes out and grinds comes home to me no skin off my back. If she grinds and im like hell no you better stop and she still does it, then for me its a respect thing. As in she isnt respecting my wishes to stop. Even if she still does it im not going to trust her any less but i will be hurt as she isnt respecting me.
I was only trying to states that it can be seen from both a trust and a respect point of view. |
yea i pretty much agree with that. it's a matter of respect when they do something u asked them not to. |
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea i pretty much agree with that. it's a matter of respect when they do something u asked them not to. |
thank you |
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| Aquadyne |
| what if i nail her best friend in her car while she's inside the club and never tell her about it? is that a trust issue or a respect issue? |
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| sakabatou |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquadyne
what if i nail her best friend in her car while she's inside the club and never tell her about it? is that a trust issue or a respect issue? |
Its a good job :) |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
thank you |
so if my boyfriend was like, "look baby, go out, have fun, but i dont like it when guys buy you drinks" and i was like, "ok baby!" and then i go out and let every guy buy me a drink cuz i dont want to spend my money. that's disrespect....
although, that also shows that i'm able to lie to him, which could then bring in a trust issue. so i dunno... lol but that's only if he found out. |
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquadyne
what if i nail her best friend in her car while she's inside the club and never tell her about it? is that a trust issue or a respect issue? |
:conf: |
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| take5 |
| so salsa is having sex with cloth on? |
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| D-res |
| quote: | Originally posted by metalgearsolid
You two broke up? I am sorry to hear that man. But you actually could do a lot better. So don't worry, next gf don't settle for a girl without looks, ok? |
im sorry what? |
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| metalgearsolid |
| quote: | Originally posted by D-res
im sorry what? |
I don't know I felt like ranting, I didn't even know you or any girl of yours. |
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