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Here we go...DRAMA! jk but this should take up my afternoon...and yours too!
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| Slylee |
ok so how do you guys feel about your best bud being flirty with your significant other? where do you draw the line? are you big on respect? do you flirt with your best friend's bf or gf?
i personally never flirt with my friend's boyfriends. i dunno why, i just don't go there...ever. i dont really think it's necessary. there's so many other people to flirt with, i just wouldn't feel the need to do it to my friend's bf. i wouldn't want her to ever have any doubt in me as a friend you know? that's just me. what about you? |
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| philliez |
really it aint cool, but im kinda guilty of it
and ive had my friends' gf's come onto me plenty of times |
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| jonSun |
| I guess my freinds & i have an understanding, cause over the years no one has ever flirted with thier friends significant others. We just dont go there. My best friends fiancee is also one of my best friends & even worked for me, but there was never any flirting at all, we just make fun of each other. :p |
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| Slylee |
oh just to add a little entertaining story and some food for thought....
over the weekend, i was at a friend's bbq with my boyfriend and i invited my good friend along who is a lesbian. she brought her gf and a friend.
now my friend is that typical, loud, goofy, funny, "life of the party" drunk. everyone loves her...however, she DOES reach a point every now and then where you're just like, "ok, enough"
she was hanging all over her girlfriend and making out with her the whole day and demanding that my boyfriend take pictures of it all. i'm sure it's cuz we were the only ones who had a camera, but this bothered me. i think it would have bothered me too if it had been a straight couple sucking face...it's like get a ing room.
anyway, that whole thing annoyed me and i told her how i felt. i know she is a lesbian, but i'm starting to realize the more i hang out with her...that even though she strictly is into girls, she doesn't discriminate when it comes to getting attention. meaning, she can be a big dicktease to straight guys and just eats up the attention. that makes me sort of not trust her. am i overreacting? |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
ok so how do you guys feel about your best bud being flirty with your significant other? where do you draw the line? are you big on respect? do you flirt with your best friend's bf or gf?
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As long as my friend lets me do his wife.... I'm cool with it! |
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| Theresa |
It's in my natural demeanor to flirt with everyone.... like... EVERYONE. Girls, guys, peoples parents, teachers; it doesn't matter.
It isn't the blatent "hey baby" flirting, but it's that overly nice, touch on the shoulders and smile sweetly kind of flirt. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
It's in my natural demeanor to flirt with everyone.... like... EVERYONE. Girls, guys, peoples parents, teachers; it doesn't matter.
It isn't the blatent "hey baby" flirting, but it's that overly nice, touch on the shoulders and smile sweetly kind of flirt. |
i'm pretty much the same way too, but for some reason, it's like a natural thing for me to turn it off around my friends' boyfriends. |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh just to add a little entertaining story and some food for thought....
over the weekend, i was at a friend's bbq with my boyfriend and i invited my good friend along who is a lesbian. she brought her gf and a friend.
now my friend is that typical, loud, goofy, funny, "life of the party" drunk. everyone loves her...however, she DOES reach a point every now and then where you're just like, "ok, enough"
she was hanging all over her girlfriend and making out with her the whole day and demanding that my boyfriend take pictures of it all. i'm sure it's cuz we were the only ones who had a camera, but this bothered me. i think it would have bothered me too if it had been a straight couple sucking face...it's like get a ing room.
anyway, that whole thing annoyed me and i told her how i felt. i know she is a lesbian, but i'm starting to realize the more i hang out with her...that even though she strictly is into girls, she doesn't discriminate when it comes to getting attention. meaning, she can be a big dicktease to straight guys and just eats up the attention. that makes me sort of not trust her. am i overreacting? |
That is a sign of insecurity. She seeks positive attention to reassure herself, most likly due to her social status amongst society. If she is a lesbian, and you know she doesn't wanna sleep with your man, I wouldn't worry about it.
Yea, it can get a little annoying when your boy is showering her with attention, but that isn't her fault. You should talk to your man about it, and tell him how much it bothers you. |
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| weymouth |
| Ive never flirted with a friend's woman, it's just a line I would never cross. |
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| kid nyce |
didn't read the thread title or any post in it
but my contribution
slylee: go ing post in my thread |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
It's in my natural demeanor to flirt with everyone.... like... EVERYONE. Girls, guys, peoples parents, teachers; it doesn't matter.
It isn't the blatent "hey baby" flirting, but it's that overly nice, touch on the shoulders and smile sweetly kind of flirt. |
i'm kind of the same way around people i know and that i'm comfortable around, but i think there's a big difference between being just a nice sweet girl, and being an attention whore who is obviously crossing lines by being all flirty.
to answer the question, i think it's pretty disrespectful. |
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| Zoso |
I don't really have time to hang out with the friends I made when I was single. And I can only think of one right off hand that is even dating at the moment. I don't flirt with his girlfriend, as I would expect him to not flirt with my wife.
Now, give each other hell and give each other's significant other hell...sure! Some people might over reach and think of that as flirting, but to me it's merely giving some much deserved hell.
As a rule of thumb it's clearly in bad taste to seriously flirt with someone's girlfriend or boyfriend, especially if you KNOW they are dating. That calls for a punch. |
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