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controlling your orgasm.. (pg. 3)
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| Noree |
Here is a little trick to help some guys last longer ;)
How it’s done is this. Next time you have an erection and you are preferably alone...try this little exercise. Trust me....you will thank me later! Get a wet towel about the size of a dinner napkin. Put it on your erect penis. Now use that muscle in the penis (guys you know which one I’m talking about) that makes your penis jump like you had some switches on your Cadillac. Now with the wet towel applying some weight on the penis....hold your penis in that erect position for about 2 seconds and release. Flex......hold for 2 seconds........and release! Not hard at all.....well maybe a little....haha I made a joke. Anyway back on topic....do this about 30 times in one "session" as often as you like and the next time you "make love", just when you feel the urge to bust a nut.....flex that same muscle....and you will see your urge to give in, slowly disappear! |
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| Sand Leaper |
| quote: | Originally posted by Noree
Here is a little trick to help some guys last longer ;)
How it’s done is this. Next time you have an erection and you are preferably alone...try this little exercise. Trust me....you will thank me later! Get a wet towel about the size of a dinner napkin. Put it on your erect penis. Now use that muscle in the penis (guys you know which one I’m talking about) that makes your penis jump like you had some switches on your Cadillac. Now with the wet towel applying some weight on the penis....hold your penis in that erect position for about 2 seconds and release. Flex......hold for 2 seconds........and release! Not hard at all.....well maybe a little....haha I made a joke. Anyway back on topic....do this about 30 times in one "session" as often as you like and the next time you "make love", just when you feel the urge to bust a nut.....flex that same muscle....and you will see your urge to give in, slowly disappear! |
That's what they call a kegel exercise.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise |
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| Noree |
| I forgot what it was called. Thanks |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh and of course i can control my orgasm...it sucks when it doesn't come back though after u manage to make it go away a little bit. lol |
+1
I can control it, (however, usually I don't need to,) but sometimes, it wont come back after putting it under control for a little.
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Kegel excercises are really good for women too. It makes the vaginal canal stronger, and can help tighten the muscles, (for those of you who are loosey goosies). |
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| Protege |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
+1
I can control it, (however, usually I don't need to,) but sometimes, it wont come back after putting it under control for a little.
EDIT:
Kegel excercises are really good for women too. It makes the vaginal canal stronger, and can help tighten the muscles, (for those of you who are loosey goosies). |
whoa, why do women need to control it? especially if you risk not getting off at all. just let go.
and exactly how do girls do the kegel exercise? |
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| all-nite-freak |
your ten step system < my one step slow down for s sake technique.
:p |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Protege
whoa, why do women need to control it? especially if you risk not getting off at all. just let go.
and exactly how do girls do the kegel exercise? |
The same but without the pen0r. :p |
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| Noree |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
your ten step system < my one step slow down for s sake technique.
:p |
That’s what you think! What if she's on top taking control....sometimes it’s hard to make them stop just so you won’t bust. That method will help you keep going without ing up the rhythm....because lord knows....its all about the rhythm! |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Protege
whoa, why do women need to control it? especially if you risk not getting off at all. just let go.
and exactly how do girls do the kegel exercise? |
Well assuming you have had sex with a woman, you will notice that when she orgasms, the inside of her vagina contracts a lot. Those contractions are caused by the PC muscle (which is the muscle that is used for kegel excercises,) so all she needs to do is clench that muscle as tightly as she can, and release it as often as she likes to work it out.
Another way to help women figure out which muscle I am talking about is to think of how you squeeze the muscle down there to prevent yourself from peeing. Same muscle.
Its cool because you can work that muscle out anytime, anywhere, and no one would know.
As for controlling orgasm, some women cannot have multiple orgasms, so she may want to prolong the enjoyment by putting the orgasm off for a little while. |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Noree
That’s what you think! What if she's on top taking control....sometimes it’s hard to make them stop just so you won’t bust. That method will help you keep going without ing up the rhythm....because lord knows....its all about the rhythm! |
not really, the guy isnt asnt stimulated as much in that position so it should be able to control himself unless his pecker is on full auto. |
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| Protege |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Well assuming you have had sex with a woman, you will notice that when she orgasms, the inside of her vagina contracts a lot. Those contractions are caused by the PC muscle (which is the muscle that is used for kegel excercises,) so all she needs to do is clench that muscle as tightly as she can, and release it as often as she likes to work it out.
Another way to help women figure out which muscle I am talking about is to think of how you squeeze the muscle down there to prevent yourself from peeing. Same muscle.
Its cool because you can work that muscle out anytime, anywhere, and no one would know.
As for controlling orgasm, some women cannot have multiple orgasms, so she may want to prolong the enjoyment by putting the orgasm off for a little while. |
what I meant was the towel part. I was curious where you would put the wet towel. |
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| Noree |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
not really, the guy isnt asnt stimulated as much in that position so it should be able to control himself unless his pecker is on full auto. |
I dont know about you....but when she's on top.....she can go pretty fast! |
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