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I need advice on this girl (pg. 3)
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| Subey |
All girls secretly want a literary story arc to their relationships!
Find out what kinda books she's been reading |
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| metalgearsolid |
| Um, shes a bit of a wierdo she reads books on artists life like Charles Bukowski or something. Oh and she reads books on the military. |
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| Aquarian |
| quote: | Originally posted by StanVoid
you're infatuated with her, that's about it i'd say. Her quiteness and seeming anti-socialism has created an attractive mysteriousness in your eyes, and you've created countless scenarios in your head of what she could possibly really be like - behind all the mystery. As a result, you've developped a mild obsession with the emo specimen, which you must look at realistically and realize - she's just another chick and really requires no extraordinary amount of balls to talk to. Hope that helps. |
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We've all gone through there during our emo teenage phases. One day you'll grow up and realize how foolish it was. Maybe one day when you know love for real, you'll look back at this moment and laugh at yourself. If you do grow the balls to ask her out and all works out, it'll just accelerate this process. |
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| metalgearsolid |
| Im 20. I have been involved in 9 relationships and none were ever serious. I m desperate for a serious relationship and I don't know how to make one work. I feel like I can learn from her she is the oldest sister of 6sisters and her dad is in a mental institution. So, she is helping raise her sisters with her mother. I think she can be the one. And no I don't believe I am infatuated. |
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| StanVoid |
| quote: | Originally posted by metalgearsolid
Im 20. I have been involved in 9 relationships and none were ever serious. I m desperate for a serious relationship and I don't know how to make one work. I feel like I can learn from her she is the oldest sister of 6sisters and her dad is in a mental institution. So, she is helping raise her sisters with her mother. I think she can be the one. And no I don't believe I am infatuated. |
then stop wasting time and just talk to her! how hard can it be, really? there's no right answer on what to say or how to approach, just do what you feel is best. |
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| Michael19 |
| Grow some balls and ask her out. |
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| metalgearsolid |
| Man my balls are not going to help me out this time. |
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| celestialmind |
| She's only human dude, she breathes the same air as you do. Made of flesh and blood, there's nothing to be afraid of. It's not like your entire existence depends on her answer. The worst thing she can say is no and then you move on. If I were you I would concentrate on what you want to do in live, it's not easy to do when you're 20 but you gotta focus. I was 25 when I realized what I want to truly pursue in live, has been a hassle ever since and relationships are not exactly helping me out, but now I got my priorities straight so I'm good. Just go for it, you got nothing to loose. |
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| Theresa |
Plan B is far better then Plan A. Being too straight forward can be scary for some girls. You can't just pounce, tell her you're infatuated with her, and expect her not to step back and say "WTF is going on here?!"
Personally, I find it kind of elementary when a guy comes up to me and says "you're hot, can I have your number?"
It's like, "dude, do you not even want to know my name, or ANYTHING about me?". It seems too contrite, and it can come off like she is just another chick off the chopping block.
Make her feel special by talking to her and getting to know her a little before you cut to the chase. It'll make her feel like the interest is really genuine, and that you aren't just looking for a piece of ass.
One thing for sure, don't be afraid and chicken out. What is the worst she can do/say? If she rejects you, c'est la vie. Who cares, there are TONNES of other fish in the sea, and soon you will find your new girl to fawn over.
A while back there was a thread about dating, and rejection on here. It had an article from some website, I think AskMen.com or something of the sort. It was a really good article. I suggest you search for it.
Anyway, good luck. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
talk to her about the class your in.. and take it from there.. ask her some personal questions
the best thing is that shes not some random girl and shes in your class
take the class seriously so you can always have something back up to talk about.. school. |
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| DJ Nickazz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
talk to her about the class your in.. and take it from there.. ask her some personal questions
the best thing is that shes not some random girl and shes in your class
take the class seriously so you can always have something back up to talk about.. school. |
Danger of it is that she thinks that you're only interested in school and are a big fat nerd:clown: |
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| dj_alfi |
| SEND TEH LETTAR!!! |
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