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I need advice on this girl (pg. 5)
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by DaveSZ
It took me like 6 months before I was able to approach women on the street. It ain't easy. |
Haha, I remember when I started doing it.
On the first time, I panicked when I realised the girl didn't speak Portuguese (she was czech).
On the second time, the girl actually approached me (to ask for information), and I ended up showing her the whole city (she wasn't from Brasilia).
On the third time, I asked this girl what time it was and we ended up going to the cinema together and having dinner on that same night.
On the fourth time, I got cold feet and realised it was all too damn random :D |
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| seekrets |
| just hit it and quit it |
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| optik |
girls are such liars when they say "oh we want to get to know you before you ask us out"
they know in the first seconds of looking at you if they would like to at least try and be with you.
cause they know they can tray and then dump you later
you really have nothing to loose by just asking her out; "I've seen you around school, do you want to have dinner sometime?" will do.
you don't need a line, or preparation, or a complex plan. |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by optik
girls are such liars when they say "oh we want to get to know you before you ask us out"
they know in the first seconds of looking at you if they would like to at least try and be with you.
cause they know they can tray and then dump you later
you really have nothing to loose by just asking her out; "I've seen you around school, do you want to have dinner sometime?" will do.
you don't need a line, or preparation, or a complex plan. |
Errr, I disagree.
I often wont bother if the guy doesn't try to at least talk to me a little bit. |
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| Tranc3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by DaveSZ
It took me like 6 months before I was able to approach women on the street. It ain't easy.
But like Richard Pryor said so famously, "Women know they got the , and they know it's good." They're not going to approach you usually, so you have to. |
While they typically won't "APPROACH" approach you, if they like you they will be giving off signs.
Anyways, I'd say the most important thing to do here is not worry about the buttsecks or getting her number or even asking her out. The important thing is to start talking to her. She'll know you're around, you'll be more comfortable around her if/when you do decide to ask her out, and she might even show that she likes you during your conversations. Don't worry about all the other crap on your mind, just talk to her. Maybe you won't like her, maybe you'll get a friend, maybe something more. If you both like each other it will happen. Don't get caught up in all the bull of what to do and when to do it. Don't think about your dreams between you and her. Just be in the moment.
Just go talk to her. |
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| optik |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Errr, I disagree.
I often wont bother if the guy doesn't try to at least talk to me a little bit. |
i told you they lie ;)
it was a bit of a toungue in cheek comment, but don't try and tell me that you don't put boys into two catagories the first moment you meet them - those who are possibles and those who are not. I'm not suggesting in any way it is impossible for a girl to allow a boy to change catagories, but thats pretty rare.
and the point was: talking to the girl after he'd asked her to go somewhere they could talk =) |
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| Soonmeister |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_alfi
SEND TEH LETTAR!!! |
beat me to it :haha: :tongue3 |
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| metalgearsolid |
| I didn't see her today so thx for all the advice. |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by optik
i told you they lie ;)
it was a bit of a toungue in cheek comment, but don't try and tell me that you don't put boys into two catagories the first moment you meet them - those who are possibles and those who are not. I'm not suggesting in any way it is impossible for a girl to allow a boy to change catagories, but thats pretty rare.
and the point was: talking to the girl after he'd asked her to go somewhere they could talk =) |
Well based solely on attraction, yes. But the guys that are attractive can be tossed into the "not interested" pile really quickly if they don't bother talking to me. |
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| Clinkz913 |
| you know what's the worst situation? when a chick you want to talk to is /w her en friend. It's always the annoying fat bitch on the side screwin up. |
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| woscar99 |
| quote: | Originally posted by StanVoid
something along the lines of: "you have too much black gothic makeup on your face, I think you should let me touch it up with some white coating"
i dont know |
And that's how you'll end up losing her before you even get her...:haha: |
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| eRRaTiK |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_alfi
SEND TEH LETTAR!!! |
i LOL'd. |
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