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British Women (pg. 5)
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
nothing bothers me more than a woman who calls you shallow because you arent attracted to her... |
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At least we know what we like. There's nothing wrong, with having personal standards. However, looks aren't everything. I'm looking for a nice balance, of looks and personality. Oh wait, this isn't a perfect world - damn... |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by EXTREMUM
Anything, outside of a full-figured woman. Plus, I'm sick of hearing excuses, of why women (moreso, people in general) are obese. It's called self-control, with the fork. Don't worry - you're just fine. :) |
lol thanks.
Opinions are welcomed, what you think of me is fine, I've heard it all.
Ya im concidered a " big girl " who cares, I don't. I eat healthy 90% of the time. What I am tired of hearing is, " oh wow, you must eat like a pig, why are you so fat? LOL LOL...Um ok...because the ones who say it are no bigger than Paris hilton, and are jealous of a Q-tip! I agree some girls have no self control and just eat and eat and eat...that's thier problem. I'm aware of my body and yes I do occasionaly go to the gym, lol.
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nothing bothers me more than a woman who calls you shallow because you arent attracted to her....
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I agree with this, yes, I am a women, but I am also sick of hearing other women say this, " Oh he doesn't like me because I'm not good looking enough". Ya. I've said it..I won't lie...but I've come to realize how stupid it makes me look. It's not shallowness, it's standards, a man wants what he wants.
Now, with having said that....I think that there are some men who do seem shallow. He likes the girls personality, and she's funny, smart, she has goals and dreams and he would date her....but....her body type is not what he wants. I know that I said a man wants what he wants, and that's good that he KNOWS what he wants, but don't you think that you could give her a chance atleast, I mean,she may be bigger than you want , but she could be a great girl! |
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| dj_bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Ya im concidered a " big girl " |
Really? By who's standards? You don't look very "big" at all :wtf: |
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| Ian |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
lol thanks.
Opinions are welcomed, what you think of me is fine, I've heard it all.
Ya im concidered a " big girl " who cares, I don't. I eat healthy 90% of the time. What I am tired of hearing is, " oh wow, you must eat like a pig, why are you so fat? |
I've seen your pics & you look perfectly fine to me, definitely nothing wrong with you at all :)
The 2nd bit, I always hear this, people assume I eat a ton cos im fat. I eat lots of fresh veg & fruit, but i have a poor metabolism & am easily detracted from doing good things. From ukta bbqs, Mikey Mike, Ste & Jay all ate way more than anyone else & they're all skinny runts! |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_bas
Really? By who's standards? You don't look very "big" at all :wtf: |
Meh. It happens....I just shrug it off , smile and say, " Atleast I stay warm in the winter" lol
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian
I've seen your pics & you look perfectly fine to me, definitely nothing wrong with you at all :)
The 2nd bit, I always hear this, people assume I eat a ton cos im fat. I eat lots of fresh veg & fruit, but i have a poor metabolism & am easily detracted from doing good things. From ukta bbqs, Mikey Mike, Ste & Jay all ate way more than anyone else & they're all skinny runts! |
I eat salads and fruits, vegies, allll the time, infact if I don't have salad atleast 4 times a week, I don't feel cleansed. Ya, Im a pasta whore, but FFS, that is good!!!!! I'm a soccer player, I need carbs.
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Now, with having said that....I think that there are some men who do seem shallow. He likes the girls personality, and she's funny, smart, she has goals and dreams and he would date her....but....her body type is not what he wants. I know that I said a man wants what he wants, and that's good that he KNOWS what he wants, but don't you think that you could give her a chance atleast, I mean,she may be bigger than you want , but she could be a great girl! |
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I see, is this what you feel because of personal experience with what men have said to/about you?
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
[Freud]
I see, is this what you feel because of personal experience with what men have said to/about you?
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yes/no.
I've seen this happen way more in front of my eyes, then actually happen to me. |
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| Ian |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Meh. It happens....I just shrug it off , smile and say, " Atleast I stay warm in the winter" lol
I eat salads and fruits, vegies, allll the time, infact if I don't have salad atleast 4 times a week, I don't feel cleansed. Ya, Im a pasta whore, but FFS, that is good!!!!! I'm a soccer player, I need carbs.
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yeah, there's nowt wrong with that. You're very good looking, and your figure is fine, You should see how my sister-in-law to be eats, she eats more than me, but she's a rake cos she's on the Ontario sailing teams, and loads up with much more on her plate than I do. Just do what you seem to be doing, get on with things, and be yourself, and if people wanna call you anything, they're really shallow. |
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| Vlad |
| I think we all agree that Frenchie is a sexy bitch. |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
I agree with this, yes, I am a women, but I am also sick of hearing other women say this, " Oh he doesn't like me because I'm not good looking enough". Ya. I've said it..I won't lie...but I've come to realize how stupid it makes me look. It's not shallowness, it's standards, a man wants what he wants.
Now, with having said that....I think that there are some men who do seem shallow. He likes the girls personality, and she's funny, smart, she has goals and dreams and he would date her....but....her body type is not what he wants. I know that I said a man wants what he wants, and that's good that he KNOWS what he wants, but don't you think that you could give her a chance atleast, I mean,she may be bigger than you want , but she could be a great girl! |
see you have somewhat of a point.
but in the end sexual attraction is very important.If it doesn't click in the sac and the guy isnt into you its never going to last.Guys who think these girls are great and are not attracted to them are better served remaining friends.Sex isnt everything, but it is a big part of a healthy relationship.How do you think the girl would feel if the guy really likes her but can't get it up because he isnt attracted to her. |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
How do you think the girl would feel if the guy really likes her but can't get it up because he isnt attracted to her. |
That happens? |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
see you have somewhat of a point.
but in the end sexual attraction is very important.If it doesn't click in the sac and the guy isnt into you its never going to last.Guys who think these girls are great and are not attracted to them are better served remaining friends.Sex isnt everything, but it is a big part of a healthy relationship.How do you think the girl would feel if the guy really likes her but can't get it up because he isnt attracted to her. |
Very well said. I do agree for the most part.
Friends > bf/gf, IMO.
Alot of guys tend to use the sex reason to get out of being with a " not so good looking " girl. So it seems to be the easy way out. It's legit but over used. |
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