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probably the 2343th thread about this. (pg. 9)
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by Caela
shall i mention that he is officially psycho. |
this made me lol, I think they all are! just go on the better pastures! that's what i have done and it's somewhat a rebound and its a good one:) just look out for your happiness. that's the key babe! |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
haha.. doesn't it feel good?
Jim (the ex i was talking about in my previous post) and i go out for drinks at least once every few months, and we call/e-mail pretty regularly. it's so funny talking to him like we're good ol' buddies, joking about the stupid we did when we were together. |
Haha, yeah that's awesome. :)
It just feels good to let go and rise above negative emotions like anger, spite, hate, bitterness, etc., and form an entirely new relationship with that same person. To me it makes the new relationship even more special than the original one. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Good for you! I think that's a good thing,and it clears the air. No need to stay nasty and all that crap unless it was really reaaaaaaaly bad. One of my ex's and I are really close, unbreakable and I love it. |
heck yeah. my other ex (the one i dumped for RJT) on the other hand... after i moved the last of my out of our condo i never spoke to him again, and i will forever remember him as the biggest piece of on earth. i'm totally not one for cutting people who were once important to me out of my life, but he really ed my head up good, lol. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | | Originally posted by Caela it's hard to be in love/be loved for so long and then POOF! it's gone. |
I understand that feeling all to well, but I don't believe that love ever truly goes away. Perhaps it is just me, but all of the women I have loved in my life, I still love. I couldn't be in a relationship with them again or anything, but the part of me that loved the part of them in the instances we were together doesn't really go away...if the relationship turned sour and my feelings for them no longer remained the same, then that was that - it was over, it couldn't continue. But the moments when we were happy and loved each other - those don't ever truly go away - they have made me the person that I am and for that I will still love a part of each of them forever. The relationships where I have 'felt' as though I was in love, yet seen that feeling fade and turn into regret and other bad stuff - I realize that I was never truly in love in the first place.
Anyways, this was probably sort of unwarranted, but I don't really go 'on the rebound' - I guess I find other things to do in my life and just learn from the sad stuff, but I certainly don't project it onto other people just so that I can make myself feel better. If finding somebody else to fill the void your last relationship left in you doesn't feel right, then please don't do it. |
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| Silky Johnson |
Here's your rebound track Caela:
Rhythm Plate - Rush On Me |
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| Lebezniatnikov |
| A decent alternative to rebounding is just to make yourself really busy for a couple of weeks. That might be tough before the semester starts, but whenever something like that happens to me, I just really throw myself into school work for a couple weeks. Like if I'm bored, I'll go to the library and start a paper. Helps the grades out, and you forget about the person pretty quickly since you never have time to think about her. Or him in your case. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lebezniatnikov
you forget about the person pretty quickly since you never have time to think about her. Or him in your case. |
hmmm...too easy. :stongue: |
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| Lebezniatnikov |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
hmmm...too easy. :stongue: |
The trick is to actually stay busy though. The temptation to screw work is way too high. In which case the whole plan backfires. :p |
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| Slylee |
myra i'm the same exact way with my ex, ex...we're super close.
i was at a house party for nye, and he showed up (we still keep in touch with mutual friends). i busted in the bathroom door and he was about to snort a big rockstar line and i was like, "YUP...some things never change!" he was like, "haha you" and i was like, " you...and cut me a line while you're at it" and we started cracking up.
i so don't miss that , but i love it that we laugh about it, annd it was strange and deja vu-like doing a couple lines of blow with him that night. he pretty much still parties like that every weekend and we've been apart for like 2 years:wtf: |
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| medinaM5 |
| yeah i counted 2,345 meaning you're 2 threads off, meaning...ban |
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| Lira |
Wait, shouldn't it be the 2343rd? :p
ps.: Do the rebound thing... I know a couple of friends that began great relationships that way, and a girl once messed my head up using me as a rebound (but then again, looking back, it was because of my sister that it all went wrong). |
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| Inertia |
| does this thread have pics? otherwise, i won't bother reading it :o |
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