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Question for the guys...or girls too. (pg. 2)
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| Slylee |
oh and i guess i should mention that we DID at one point hook up...we were 19, so we're talking like 6 years ago. it was awkward and we didn't speak for months after it happened (we were hammered) and then we started talking again and never brought it up. we never talk about it and i don't look at him in a sexual way at all...i kinda get grossed out when i think of it actually. he's like a brother figure.
does that make it complicated? |
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| david.michael |
Was this the guy I recall you talking about considering being buddies with?
edit- nm, just saw above post |
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| Slylee |
no way. but i think you were talking about the guy who was my prom date in high school right? yea, i got back in touch with him recently via myspace...that's a different guy and we never hooked up.
this guy is someone i've pretty much been in constant contact with since we were 9, with the exception of the few years i spent in japan. we're super close. |
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| Ygrene |
| Just so long as he's not the kind of guy that eats the last of the Cap'n Crunch, you are good to go. |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| there will be plenty more oppotunities to get drunk together and both regret your actions the next day. |
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| Zoso |
| Can't you ever make a simple topic, damnit? ;) Go for it. Unless you date some psycho obsessive type later on, it shouldn't really be an issue. |
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| dj_bas |
| I say do it, if he's your best friend and there's not going to be any weird emotional issues then what's the harm? You probably have me on ignore or something right now so maybe this post doesn't matter :p |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_bas
I say do it, if he's your best friend and there's not going to be any weird emotional issues then what's the harm? You probably have me on ignore or something right now so maybe this post doesn't matter :p |
no i don't. i just took you off my myspace friendslist;) |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh and i guess i should mention that we DID at one point hook up...we were 19, so we're talking like 6 years ago. it was awkward and we didn't speak for months after it happened (we were hammered) and then we started talking again and never brought it up. we never talk about it and i don't look at him in a sexual way at all...i kinda get grossed out when i think of it actually. he's like a brother figure.
does that make it complicated? |
Yeah, um, that sounds complicated. If I were your boyfriend, I definitely wouldn't want to hear stuff like that. I know you are thinking now that anyone you bring home or date really doesn't have to know about it, but these little complications have a way of coming full circle. In fact, pretty much everything has its own way of coming full circle, take that as you will. |
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| jdat |
Jamie if you score a relationship ( or whatever ) with a guy who turns out to be a jealous freak because of your roommate situation you need to dump him asap.
Considering the economics involved with renting a place it's only normal that most people have to live with a roommate at some stage in their life.
I say go for it. It doesn't ruin your game one single bit. It may not play in your favor but in 99% of cases it should have no negative effect in being in a relationship. |
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| grooviebeats |
| with your history with him.. if it was me and i moved in with you no doubt id try to hit it again. that is about all you have to watch out for. |
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