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Question for the guys...or girls too. (pg. 3)
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Yeah, um, that sounds complicated. If I were your boyfriend, I definitely wouldn't want to hear stuff like that. I know you are thinking now that anyone you bring home or date really doesn't have to know about it, but these little complications have a way of coming full circle. In fact, pretty much everything has its own way of coming full circle, take that as you will. |
but that's not anything i would ever tell any guy i'm with. i learned my lesson with an ex. he had a major problem with me talking to this guy and there is no way i'm going to let that happen again. i would seriously die for this kid. our families are super close, we just go way back and what happened between us was so silly and meaningless, i would rather just forget about it myself. why bring it up? "oh honey, this is my best friend...we hooked up 6 years ago, but it was nothing"
i would rather not know if a guy i was dating had a similar situation. |
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| Zoso |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
with your history with him.. if it was me and i moved in with you no doubt id try to hit it again. that is about all you have to watch out for. |
Sleep sex FTMFW? |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by every man in the history of humanity
doodle controls me :( |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
but that's not anything i would ever tell any guy i'm with. i learned my lesson with an ex. he had a major problem with me talking to this guy and there is no way i'm going to let that happen again. i would seriously die for this kid. our families are super close, we just go way back and what happened between us was so silly and meaningless, i would rather just forget about it myself. why bring it up? "oh honey, this is my best friend...we hooked up 6 years ago, but it was nothing"
i would rather not know if a guy i was dating had a similar situation. |
Yeah, I know what you mean - I would simply rather not know about it either, if I were dating you. But secrets come back to bite you in the ass, in my experience. The little complications have a way of becoming even more complex with every fact you neglect to mention, despite you knowing the complete truth of the matter. I'm not saying that it's a really bad idea, because really, he is *just* a friend and any guy who wouldn't want you to be happy and spending time with/maintaining a good relationship with your friends is probably not a guy you want hanging around too long. I'm just saying that with this decision, you should be aware of all the possible risks - that's all. ;) |
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
but that's not anything i would ever tell any guy i'm with. i learned my lesson with an ex. he had a major problem with me talking to this guy and there is no way i'm going to let that happen again. i would seriously die for this kid. our families are super close, we just go way back and what happened between us was so silly and meaningless, i would rather just forget about it myself. why bring it up? "oh honey, this is my best friend...we hooked up 6 years ago, but it was nothing"
i would rather not know if a guy i was dating had a similar situation. |
I realize all of us here are outside of the situation but if you bring up this fact it still means something to you.
How so?
That is not for me to say but somehow it isn't something you've completely forgotten. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by jdat
I realize all of us here are outside of the situation but if you bring up this fact it still means something to you.
How so?
That is not for me to say but somehow it isn't something you've completely forgotten. |
um of course it's not completely forgotten. have you completely forgotten about someone you hooked up with? especially someone who is still in your life? doubt it. he's still a huge part of my life and to be perfectly honest with you, it's not something that crosses my mind very often at all. this thread made me think of it though obviously... |
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
um of course it's not completely forgotten. have you completely forgotten about someone you hooked up with? especially someone who is still in your life? doubt it. he's still a huge part of my life and to be perfectly honest with you, it's not something that crosses my mind very often at all. this thread made me think of it though obviously... |
well if you move in either you:
1. try to completely forget it and never bring it up ever again
2. discuss it with him.
Not that 2. is easy but it could save you against a potential situation at a later time, in a sense clear the air.
Ps: I am willing to bet it will come back up one day so you might be better off try to think ahead ;) |
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| jonSun |
| I dont think it should matter who u live with. It would prolly be good cause if u meet a guy & he is turned off or makes a fuss, it will be a good thing cause you wouldnt wanna be involved with that BS anyways. |
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| Slylee |
It’s been 6 years, and I can honestly say I don’t recall either one of us bringing it up. If we did, I don’t remember.
And if we ever were to bring it up again, I guarantee it would be during a weed smoking session and we would both go in tears from laughing about it so hard. It was a rather awkward hook up. I think we didn’t even finish and I just left. haha |
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| Zoso |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
I think we didn’t even finish and I just left. haha |
But did you leave a tip?! :eek: |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
You should do it. But be warned: THIS WILL END BADLY UNLESS YOU FOLLOW THE FOLLOWING RULES:
1) Always fart in his company.
2) Never, I repeat, NEVER discuss doodles after midnight.
3) Expect him to bring you breakfast in bed every sunday. If he doesn't then hide a poop in the peanut butter & giggle when he eats it.
4) Eat your vegetables! They are apparently good for you, but be weary of oysters hiding in the cabbages! (he may catch you offguard & plant oysters in other food groups) |
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| Frenchie |
And if it so happens to come up , you both should be mature enough to talk about it.
Do it sly, It won't do damage to your game.
unless you have weak game |
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