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| Ian |
my parents suck
my dad's just a dirty old man, when he met my brothers girlfriend for the first time he blatantly touched her ass. we were all shocked.
My mums hit the 'divorced & wants a life' stage where her & her mates who're all musty smelling divorced women who all left men who i really feel sorry for go out lots, act about 30 not 50s and really annoy me. I'm going to train my puppy to not let them in the house, yay for that |
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| pvdAngel |
| After a couple of years of confusion and fighting with them, I now have a distant but good relationship with my folks. :) |
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| SuspicionVandit |
| i don't talk to my dad much. ti don't have a bad relationship with him, we just don't have a relationship. I only talk to him when he needs something pirated off the internet, or when he wants to know if i've heard anything about the next "google" he can invest in. |
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| Dj O'Callaghan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian
my parents suck
my dad's just a dirty old man, when he met my brothers girlfriend for the first time he blatantly touched her ass. we were all shocked.
My mums hit the 'divorced & wants a life' stage where her & her mates who're all musty smelling divorced women who all left men who i really feel sorry for go out lots, act about 30 not 50s and really annoy me. I'm going to train my puppy to not let them in the house, yay for that |
Your the man of the manor now squire lay down the law.
The 50 year old boiler stage. I can see it right now PVC skirts, bottles of lambrisco, smoking red band cigarettes lot's of horrible crackly witch like laughing. Be nasty to them insult them tell them how digusting crusty and decrepit they are. I can imagine them being mouthy and gobby Northern birds so they won't take that sitting down but when they next look in the mirror at themselves they'll be in floods of tears.
Your dad sounds like a right character. |
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| Slylee |
My dad is a really cool guy. Never raises his voice or has anything negative to say about anyone. He’s very fair and calm and charming. He has a ton of friends and loves to entertain people…always throwing BBQ’s and parties and stuff. Has typical corny dad humor and he’s extremely knowledgeable. He’s traveled all over the world and is very up to par on politics and current events. He’s just one of those guys who knows about pretty much any subject you could possibly bring up.
My only issue with my dad is his wife. I’ve become extremely distant over the past couple of years because of her. They are having money problems because she spends it all and doesn’t have a job. She’s always visiting her family and spoiling her nieces and sister, etc…on my dad’s dime. Which is fine, that’s none of my business how they spend their money or if she works, but when their money problems seem to affect the amount of time I get to spend with my dad, then I have a problem with it.
I’ve had car problems lately and I’m busting my ass at 2 jobs so I can get it squared away and also get back in school by this fall, and my dad always promises he’s going to help me out financially, and then never comes through and it really pisses me off. He hasn’t paid a dime towards my education and my mother who makes less than half of what he makes is the one who has been coming through and helping me out financially. It’s like the family joke between my mom and my sister and me, that my dad makes well over six figures a year and hasn’t helped me out one bit. I’m trying to overcome it and not take it personal because I know he means well when he says he is going to help me out, but my beef is mainly with his wife. She’s a flakey selfish bitch and if they are so tight for money because of her spending habits, then, in my opinion, she should get a ing job to help support her habit instead of using all of my dad’s money to the point where he can’t afford to come visit me, or fly me out there to visit him. I’m the struggling student here trying to get by, and my dad should have no problem buying me a ticket to go there for a weekend or help me out with my car…that’s just what dad’s should do for their kids, especially rich dads, and yet he can’t even do that.
Ok I’m done bitching about that subject. lol |
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| jdat |
| I could slit my wrists because of my mother she pisses me off so much |
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| Dj O'Callaghan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
My only issue with my dad is his wife. I’ve become extremely distant over the past couple of years because of her. They are having money problems because she spends it all and doesn’t have a job. She’s always visiting her family and spoiling her nieces and sister, etc…on my dad’s dime. Which is fine, that’s none of my business how they spend their money or if she works, but when their money problems seem to affect the amount of time I get to spend with my dad, then I have a problem with it.
I’ve had car problems lately and I’m busting my ass at 2 jobs so I can get it squared away and also get back in school by this fall, and my dad always promises he’s going to help me out financially, and then never comes through and it really pisses me off. He hasn’t paid a dime towards my education and my mother who makes less than half of what he makes is the one who has been coming through and helping me out financially. It’s like the family joke between my mom and my sister and me, that my dad makes well over six figures a year and hasn’t helped me out one bit. I’m trying to overcome it and not take it personal because I know he means well when he says he is going to help me out, but my beef is mainly with his wife. She’s a flakey selfish bitch and if they are so tight for money because of her spending habits, then, in my opinion, she should get a ing job to help support her habit instead of using all of my dad’s money to the point where he can’t afford to come visit me, or fly me out there to visit him. I’m the struggling student here trying to get by, and my dad should have no problem buying me a ticket to go there for a weekend or help me out with my car…that’s just what dad’s
should do for their kids, especially rich dads, and yet he can’t even do that.
Ok I’m done bitching about that subject. lol |
Stepmums are the worst.
My Dad's last wife or shall we say my ex stepmum was like this :stongue:. I've never met someone I've had such a strong hatred for. When my parents got divorced I must of been 8 a year later my Dad met this dirty scrupper a year or so passes on unfortunatly he ends up marrying her.
My ex stepmum hated me from the moment we met I was 8 and I wasn't a bad kid too, she quite disliked my brother and liked my sister (who was a bit of a a*selicker IMO). When I mean hated she would literally ignore me if she ever did say anything to me it was shouting or involving me third party in a conversation with my Dad which was usually her way of manipulating him to have a go at me. It was mental abuse and no kid deserves to go through that, I always stuck up for my little brother who's an innocent guy and I was determined she never won.
If it was my Dads turn to look after me and my siblings in the school holidays. When my Father was at work, she'd make us tidy up the mess her kids made. I remember on numerous occasions making sly comments about my Mum in attempt to provoke me into snapping at her. When my Dad got back from work she'd create a load of b*llocks about me answering her back basicially manipulate him into having a go at me. Over the years I eventually drifted apart from my Father because of her.
Luckily the Ovaries of Satan and my dad got divorced years ago she lives abroad the two children she had with my father live with him and his doing a fantastic job raising them.
I try not dwell on the thought of her as it makes me angry. |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
ha, lol my mom and i have a strange relationship and so she's not talking to me because i told her my bf might not watch a show that she wanted him to watch (chronicle on a special of barbados). lol... good thing i have a handle of vodka.
she is so juvenile to walk aound and ignore me because of THAT? can't wait till winter break is over... |
I remember there was a similar thread you started a while back about your mum. She is an absolute SPASTIC - if she were mine I'd give her the beating of her life. |
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| Jansa |
I have a good relationship with my father. We have a great time when we see each other. Going to the pub together sometimes and etc.
I remember about two years ago when I lived in my dad's apartment. He used to bring a new woman home every week, sometimes 30 years younger! All the success I have had with ladies is thanks to my dad.
My father is 61 btw. :p |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan
Stepmums are the worst.
My Dad's last wife or shall we say my ex stepmum was like this :stongue:. I've never met someone I've had such a strong hatred for. When my parents got divorced I must of been 8 a year later my Dad met this dirty scrupper a year or so passes on unfortunatly he ends up marrying her.
My ex stepmum hated me from the moment we met I was 8 and I wasn't a bad kid too, she quite disliked my brother and liked my sister (who was a bit of a a*selicker IMO). When I mean hated she would literally ignore me if she ever did say anything to me it was shouting or involving me third party in a conversation with my Dad which was usually her way of manipulating him to have a go at me. It was mental abuse and no kid deserves to go through that, I always stuck up for my little brother who's an innocent guy and I was determined she never won.
If it was my Dads turn to look after me and my siblings in the school holidays. When my Father was at work, she'd make us tidy up the mess her kids made. I remember on numerous occasions making sly comments about my Mum in attempt to provoke me into snapping at her. When my Dad got back from work she'd create a load of b*llocks about me answering her back basicially manipulate him into having a go at me. Over the years I eventually drifted apart from my Father because of her.
Luckily the Ovaries of Satan and my dad got divorced years ago she lives abroad the two children she had with my father live with him and his doing a fantastic job raising them.
I try not dwell on the thought of her as it makes me angry. |
that's horrible! my dad's wife isn't that bad. she's more phony about it. she's always really fake and happy towards me, it drives me up a ing wall. i'd rather her just be a bitch, but she is sickeningly sweet and i see right through it, and she knows it, so it's just this weird awkward vibe between us. she can actually be pretty cool sometimes, but the bad outweighs the good.
i had a very abusive stepdad during my younger years...he was a prick. from the time that i was 5 until about middle school, he was around and he would with me all the time and compete for my mom's attention. i was a really smart kid and was always on to him and he HATED that about me. he was mentally and sometimes physically abusive to both my mother and me. i wanted him to die so bad when i was younger. i forgave him a long time ago though...he's ed in the head and i'm not going to let his bull affect me for the rest of my life. gotta move on... |
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| Echo of Silence |
My parents were really super strict but after my dad passed away, my mom's absentmindedness (yeah, she's a total "blonde" :p) makes her rather ineffectual.
She still has the same rules in force and when one of the younger kids does something wrong, she enforces the same punishment that she and my dad used to enforce on us (older kids) BUT she'll forget about it within two hours or at least by the end of the day.
It's annoying because I spent like my first 16 years grounded and I was basically a good kid and my youngest sister who is the biggest brat imagineable is always getting grounded but she's never actually grounded because once she's grounded, it's forgotten.
My older brother has tried to assume my dad's role but he only intervenes where the older girls are involved and he's a major nightmare. If I annoy him or even argue with him, he'll ignore me, won't read my letters or emails, won't let me go home for holidays, cut off my allowance, stuff like that. Totally unreasonable.
Question for Slylee--did you ever talk to your dad or your stepmom or both about your perceptions or that just not something you'd feel comfortable doing? Just seems like they may not realize what's going on... |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
cut off my allowance |
u get allowance...TAKE ME TO DINNER! |
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