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strange parental relationships (pg. 4)
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| gehzumteufel |
i didnt read the whole thread for good reason. i havent talked to, seen, written, or had any sort of contact with my parents or all but 1 of my siblings for 4yrs. i have an egg donor (what i call my "mother") who acts very very similar. not taking responsibility for her own actions, saying that if the kids didnt do (insert action here) she wouldnt have done what she did.
sometimes there comes a point where you must cut your losses. i know that sounds horrible but i have been better off ever since. i make more than they do, i have tons of fun, and i dont have to deal with the bull that they brought into my life EVERY ing day. i am happier now because of it too. yeah it is hard at times cause everyone has all this family and i have nothing but my sister who lives near me and is in the same boat.
boomer: i actually did punch my egg donor once. lol she deserved it. that bitch came running at me about to beat me like a red headed step child. i stood on the couch and planted it right in her chest. she ran off like the little bitch she is.
slylee: omfg thats what my egg donor does! ing whore just spends all the ing money! shes in france right now on that damn study abroad thing. shes trying to get a new career at ING 50! stupid bitch needs to die! |
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| Theresa |
I called my mom because of this thread.
Luckily I got her answering machine. LOL!
Anyway, my mom and I have an ok relationship, so long as we keep conversation to a very "surface" level, we can get along. It's a little difficult though because my mother is so incredibly religious, and is always really pushing it on me. It can get terribly frusterating.
I talk to her on the phone maybe once every three weeks. We talk on MSN 1-2 times a week, and I probably see her once every three months or so. She lives about 20-25 minutes drive from me, so it isn't super easy for either one of us to pop in and say hello, especially given that I don't have a car.
I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE my mothers husband. That drives a wedge between her and I quite a bit. She knows I dislike him, and that bothers her. She often lectures me about how I should "forgive and forget". him, and that.
My dad is dead. |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
She knows I dislike him, and that bothers her. She often lectures me about how I should "forgive and forget". him, and that. |
Forgiving and forgetting has nothing to do with liking or not liking a person.
Hopefully in the future you and your mom's relationship gets better. |
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| gehzumteufel |
here is a quote i really love.
| quote: | | You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you got and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes but never regret. People change, things go wrong, just remember...Life goes on! |
i saw that quote and it just reminded me how i try to live my life. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
I called my mom because of this thread.
Luckily I got her answering machine. LOL!
Anyway, my mom and I have an ok relationship, so long as we keep conversation to a very "surface" level, we can get along. It's a little difficult though because my mother is so incredibly religious, and is always really pushing it on me. It can get terribly frusterating.
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i forgot to mention that about my mom as well. she's getting more and more religious as the years go by...that annoys me too. she has finally backed off as far as trying to push it on me because i've made it clear to her i'm not interested. once in a while i'll go to a mass with her (for xmas i went), just to shut her up or please her, but she's quite the hypocrite when it comes to religion. sometimes when she starts talking about it, i am SO turned off by her and i'm amazed at how ing ignorant and dumb she sounds, because she's generally a pretty smart lady. she's been through a lot of with men (my stepdad and my dad) so she just refuses to settle, and that’s fine, but she’s pretty much replaced her non-existant social and sex life with religion and that worries me because I think that could become quite the barrier between us. |
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| asfdz |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
here is a quote i really love.
i saw that quote and it just reminded me how i try to live my life. |
Beautiful quote...let's be friends :) |
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| Jansa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Azia
Beautiful quote |
Indeed! Though right now it makes me the saddest person in the world. :( |
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| asfdz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jansa
Indeed! Though right now it makes me the saddest person in the world. :( |
For why? |
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| medinaM5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
here is a quote i really love.
i saw that quote and it just reminded me how i try to live my life. |
i cried |
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| Jansa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Azia
For why? |
Personal reasons |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Azia
Beautiful quote...let's be friends :) |
i agree.
check pms |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jansa
Personal reasons |
keep your head up. i have had a lot of stuff happen to me in the past 4yrs since i have lost all my family. not physically gone but i have had to cut them out of my life. its hard not having anyone to turn to. just stay strong and keep a good outlook on life. |
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