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Ed G
I love the fact that people who have nice figures because they puke up their food are envied and admired.
tranceDJ
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Originally posted by Ed G
In most people obesity is probably a sign of mental weakness. It could have various labels like depression, anxiety, self-loathing, etc.


True, problem is that those mental disorders will cause people to overeat and once they become overweight the mental disorders are amplified due to a worsening of their self-image. Vicious circle that in the end causes people to be morbidly obese at times. People are so quick to say someone is obese because they're lazy and don't like to exercise when at times theres a lot more too it.

There needs to be some personal trainer/psychologist for these people. It's seriously what they need if you think about it. You can't fix the one problem without fixing the other. Same way you treat a drug addict. You detox them to physically get the drug out of them but them you counsel them for the mental/emotional problems that caused them to become an addict as well as the mental problems that come from withdrawal.
Ed G
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Originally posted by tranceDJ
True, problem is that those mental disorders will cause people to overeat and once they become overweight the mental disorders are amplified due to a worsening of their self-image. Vicious circle that in the end causes people to be morbidly obese at times. People are so quick to say someone is obese because they're lazy and don't like to exercise when at times theres a lot more too it.

There needs to be some personal trainer/psychologist for these people. It's seriously what they need if you think about it. You can't fix the one problem without fixing the other. Same way you treat a drug addict. You detox them to physically get the drug out of them but them you counsel them for the mental/emotional problems that caused them to become an addict as well as the mental problems that come from withdrawal.

Did you take my comment in context?
tranceDJ
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Originally posted by Ed G
Did you take my comment in context?


I guess not completely. I guess it was more my take on what you were trying to say.

First off I would have to call the condition 'obesity' but say it's caused be 'mental disorders' and not 'weak mindedness.' Mental disorders can stem from physical abnormalities in one's brain although this is not always the case.
jdat
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Originally posted by Frenchie
BUT CHOCOLATE IS SO DAMN GOOOOD!!!



chocolate ... the girls substitute for lack of love
Silky Johnson
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Originally posted by tranceDJ
Jennypie, if you're so against obese people you must be against those who do drugs or smoke or drink in excess, right?

So IMO if you don't live a healthy life yourself, you can't look down upon obese people.





I'm not "looking down". I'm just disgusted by it. You're gonna tell me you're NOT disgusted when you look at that chick?

And yeah, I AM against people who do those things in excess. And I DO believe one has to live a healthy life themself if they're going to preach health onto others.

Which is why I do, because I'm a nursing student. :)
Ed G
I hope your ass never blows up like a balloon Jennypie because you will be consumed with self hatred and I don't wish that on anyone.
tranceDJ
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Originally posted by jennypie
I'm not "looking down". I'm just disgusted by it. You're gonna tell me you're NOT disgusted when you look at that chick?

And yeah, I AM against people who do those things in excess. And I DO believe one has to live a healthy life themselves if they're going to preach health onto others.

Which is why I do, because I'm a nursing student. :)


I definitely am disgusted, the same way I'm disgusted when I see someone choking down cigarettes one after the other. I just think if people are going to be disgusted with obese people it should be because they look "unhealthy" not "fat and unattractive" as well as live healthy lives themselves.
Silky Johnson
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Originally posted by tranceDJ
I just think if people are going to be disgusted with obese people it should be because they look "unhealthy"



That's exactly why I AM disgusted...where are you getting the impression that it's for the other reason?



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Originally posted by Ed G
I hope your ass never blows up like a balloon Jennypie because you will consumed with self hatred and I don't wish that on anyone.




That would never happen...the self hatred would have to exist first, and that would just not happen.
Ed G
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Originally posted by jennypie


That would never happen...the self hatred would have to exist first, and that would just not happen.


Yet many people don't get fat until they are fairly old. I wonder if they believed as you do when they were young.

MrJiveBoJingles
Most overweight people don't really start ballooning until their 30s or so. By then a large percentage of them are already married and don't really care about the attractiveness bit, which is the main reason that lots of people exercise in the first place, and they already have a partner and a steadily decreasing sex drive to boot.
Silky Johnson
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Originally posted by Ed G
Yet many people don't get fat until they are fairly old. I wonder if they believed as you do when they were young.




LOL...oh off.
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