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Wow this sucks major monkey balls (pg. 3)
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Not anymore... as of Jan 1/07 it's 18 unless there is less then 5 years difference between the two parties involved... then it's 15. 14 is now off limits. Looks like you'll have to leave that girl on the Rideau. |
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jk shes 24 like me.. but colonelcrisp is borderline now lol |
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| Justkillingtime |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Not anymore... as of Jan 1/07 it's 18 unless there is less then 5 years difference between the two parties involved... then it's 15. 14 is now off limits. Looks like you'll have to leave that girl on the Rideau. |
And hopefully they will start giving jail time worthy of the sick s that take advantage of the small children. Changing the age doesn't really do anything, imo.
Anyways, didn't mean to hijack. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Justkillingtime
Anyways, didn't mean to hijack. |
Terrorist:eek: |
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| Slylee |
oh and yea, the girls he was watching on the porn looked like 16 years old...kinda bugged me. i started thinking he was a pedophile and all this . lol he swore to me that he watched other porn too, which he did, but he REALLY likes the young looking ones, and i realized that's not something that goes away. he's ALWAYS gonna like to look at that and the older he gets, the creepier it's going to get, and the more insulting to me it's going to get.
right?
ughh, i need some fresh air. i'm going for a drive. :( |
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| Justkillingtime |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
lol very funny moral or ygrene...whichever
About the breakup...
Nothing really went terribly wrong…no cheating or fighting. He really pushed me to move in with him even though I warned him that it was a major step and he insisted he was ready. So we did and everything was great but then I discovered he likes to watch porn constantly when I’m not home and I confronted him about it and tried to be cool and accepting about it, but he was really shady about it and not willing to just be open with it. I honestly would have rather him just been like a normal pig guy and just been open about the fact that he watches porn. Big in deal right? All of my ex’s have watched it, but he was so sneaky and embarrassed about it, which lead me to believe that he might have had an addiction to it. I honestly tried really hard to work with him and I think he just would rather let me go, than face that problem and me pushing him to talk about it made him withdraw from the relationship, so I told him I was moving out because there was zero communication between us and I said I couldn’t be in a relationship like that, and he didn’t even put up a fight. So we just like ended things. I moved out and on the last day there he just gave me a big hug as I left and that was the last time I saw him. This was last September. |
Any guy that puts porn over something he can in real life is kind of sad. I mean, how much fun is it to jerk off to black guys ing slutty white girls (or 12 year old boys in this case) with parachute lips? He must be a real ing moron to let that ruin his relationship with you.
It's complete disrespect to you. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh and yea, the girls he was watching on the porn looked like 16 years old...kinda bugged me. i started thinking he was a pedophile and all this . lol he swore to me that he watched other porn too, which he did, but he REALLY likes the young looking ones, and i realized that's not something that goes away. he's ALWAYS gonna like to look at that and the older he gets, the creepier it's going to get, and the more insulting to me it's going to get.
right?
ughh, i need some fresh air. i'm going for a drive. :( |
:( jamie you are probably better off NOT entertaining a relationship then. if it bothers you this much and your not dating anymore, then the potential for this to be an even bigger issue if you were to date again. dont play with fire. it normally gets ya. you will be alright. be distant and if necessary dont talk to him at all. this is something you have to stick your ground with. |
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| Slylee |
| the porn didn't replace our sexlife. our sexlife was amazing, but it still bothered me. not so much that he watched it, but just because he was so ing weird and secretive about it. it bugged the out of me. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| Wow, so many people "addicted" to Internet porn. |
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| Slylee |
i just wish i could be friends with him without missing him romantically, that's what i'm getting at basically. because he was honestly a great friend and i enjoy him so much.
but i dunno i think it's too soon. and he better not be having 2nd thoughts and trying to get me back because i might fall for it. |
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| Silky Johnson |
I dunno...and before I say anything, I'm JUST playing Devil's Advocate here, NOT trying to bust your balls because of our differences.
That being said...it seems REALLY silly of you to give up a person who treats you the way you deserve to be treated, just because YOU can't handle HIS problem (whatever it may be). That's pretty selfish, and NOT what love is about.
Yeah it's probably very taxing on you...but I think it would show great strength of character and maturity if you could learn to accept something like that about a person who clearly loves you.
I just think it's a mistake. So many people search their whole lives for love...lets be real, they want to BE loved more than they want to give it, people are just selfish like that. Anyways, here you HAVE that love...from what I gather, your relationship with Craig really had everything going for it...and you're turning your back on it because you can't deal with it? That's the kind of stuff relationships are built on!
Anyway, yeah not stabbing at you...I just would hate for anyone, yes even YOU, to miss out on that kind of love.
Or maybe I've mis-percieved what your relationship was like..I dunno.
That is all! |
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| Justkillingtime |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
the porn didn't replace our sexlife. our sexlife was amazing, but it still bothered me. not so much that he watched it, but just because he was so ing weird and secretive about it. it bugged the out of me. |
That's not the point, though. He let your relationship dissolve because he was too to be open with the fact that he was a pervert. If he would rather watch this than to work out the issues with you, what does that say about his respect for your feelings? |
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| Aristronica |
yeah listen to jenny.
and then when you get married and have kids and he molests your 13-16 yr old daughter you can thank her for the sound advice she gave you... |
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