|
Advice......
|
View this Thread in Original format
| djphatt |
| Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask? |
|
|
| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by djphatt
Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask? |
It sucks, but you have to make a decision one way or the other. You risk a bit of "Oh damn, I feel like a dick" if she says no, but if you say nothing, she could very well figure you're not into her, and hook up with somebody else. |
|
|
| Mmanu |
Soon you're gonna have hair growing in funny places.
I would recommend waiting until then. |
|
|
| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mmanu
Soon you're gonna have hair growing in funny places.
I would recommend waiting until then. |
...
...
Ok
... |
|
|
| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by djphatt
Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask? |
asking for dating advice from the cor is almost as stupid as asking an etheopian to show you how to cook. |
|
|
| DJ Sid |
| just ask to go see a movie or smth, most girls are fine with that, especially if they like you. If not, she is very likely to be emo. |
|
|
| wizniz |
do this:
chill w/ 1 friend
girl comes+parks at your house
go to movies w/ girl and 1 friend (to show not 100% interested)
say LATER to 1 friend
take girl to your place and tell her youve got to do but she can chill for a bit... "i guess you can...." (that kind of reluctant )
A-she says ok
B-she has to go
A. find a movie and tell her to put it in dvd player while you get drinks
watch movie/drink/cuddle
afterwards stick to your guns and let her know you DO have stuff to do but you enjoyed chillin
give her a goodbye kiss: hello date #2 and make out session.
B. look really dissappointed in a half faking way and say "ok..." but tell her to give you a goodbye kiss and point to your face in a way that could mean either your cheek or lips.
enjoy wherever she chooses to plant her lips
get some damn sleep! you earned it!
main point is to not care what happens. dont WORRY about doing this or doing that. either do it or dont do it, but dont regret silly little ! |
|
|
| RickyM |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
asking for dating advice from the cor is almost as stupid as my ignorant posts. |
I agree. |
|
|
| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by djphatt
I rather find out if she even likes me |
Ask her out and you shall find out. Why wait? Do you only do things when you know there's no risk of failing? ;) |
|
|
| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by RickyM
I agree. |
Who pissed in your lucky charms tinkerbelle? |
|
|
| narcism |
| gimme her email addy and i will foward on this thread to her :p |
|
|
| djphatt |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Ask her out and you shall find out. Why wait? Do you only do things when you know there's no risk of failing? ;) |
Yeh basically! But is it too dodgy to ask her out to a movie over msn?
Otherwise I was thinking that I'm just gonna send her a msg telling her that I gotta crush on her....which seems kinda stupid, but I don't know any better! |
|
|
|
|
