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Beeing shy!!. How do you overcome it? (pg. 2)
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| Gekhous |
thaz right!!
im single right now, & the only thing i miss = sex, and im not the kind of guy who just goes screwing around every girl he meets... (unfortunally?) |
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| Inquisitor |
| You can still have sex, a lot of it too, even when you are single. Its all about the vibe I am telling you :) |
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| goodnet |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
All that wasted time thinking.. "I could've... I would've but...., etc" will eat away at you. |
I can attest to that. :( |
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| Sugarbean |
http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...=&threadid=3969
go here:) if one of your probs is what to say when you spot a beauty theres lots of good advise here in this thread:)
i once too was shy and i agree totally with infinity. think your god in other words, its all about self esteem. if you feel good about yourself and believe in yourself, you cant go wrong with a girl or anyone else for that matter.:) |
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| Denser |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sugarbean
http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...=&threadid=3969
go here:) if one of your probs is what to say when you spot a beauty theres lots of good advise here in this thread:)
i once too was shy and i agree totally with infinity. think your god in other words, its all about self esteem. if you feel good about yourself and believe in yourself, you cant go wrong with a girl or anyone else for that matter.:) |
easier said than done...
u will go thru a lot of pain before that happens....at times u mite wanna stop trying and go back.so its all pretty on paper but too much pain in reality.i've got so many ppl giving me the same advice...it never works. |
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| alkizz |
| Beer used to work for me... |
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| Sugarbean |
| quote: | Originally posted by Denser
easier said than done...
u will go thru a lot of pain before that happens....at times u mite wanna stop trying and go back.so its all pretty on paper but too much pain in reality.i've got so many ppl giving me the same advice...it never works. |
your right.BUT everyone can tell you how to overcome it but that wont mean . the same as my parents telling me not to drink and do drugs or skip school...blahblah did i listen? no. did i fall on my ass the same way they said i would? yes. it took me 10 years to get over my shyness. i barely talked to anyone and vise versa. it became real intense for two years up until last year and i am way happier now. if you want to know how i did it i will tell you...pm me. the gist of it....the only way to overcome is to create a goal. listed here are all attainable goals, you just need to make the steps realistic for you. you cant attain true self esteem and feel absolutly good about yourself overnight. its an on going painful process, like you said. examine who you have around you and see how they fit into your life...damn....this is waaayyyy toooo deep no cant tell im a pre-med/psyc major...but really, self esteem grows from you doing things for yourself, living your life and realizing your goals. once you can see that in you is the only way towards true happiness and sense of self. thats when shyness goes away; because your self confidence took it over.
take advise as advise. as a learning oppertunity...not as a way you should be living your life because its your life...not anyone elses. :)
laters:) |
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| Sugarbean |
| oh and one more thing...no one said that it would be easy. the best things in life come to those who will themselves enough to fight for them... |
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| tc-fan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Paulinski
Ok here it goes. I'm a nice guy but incredibly shy. If a see a cute girl somwhere party etc I want to talk to her but I'm shy and do nothing. Now if a drop a little something something (wink wink) or get drunk i'm a totally different person talkative outgoing. When I sober up its back to normal. Is there any hope??
Paulinski
TRANCE crank it up turn off the lights close your eyes and let the music take you on the journey. |
hey your not alone...i am very shy myself...... 8( |
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| tc-fan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Gekhous
being single aint that bad, only problem = ull miss out on a lot of sex :) |
and more of spanking your monkey.. |
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| Bendy |
I usually just think - hey if they don't like me back - it is their problem! ;) If they do like me ...well they are obviously better off :D lol
Sure it sounds arrogant - but it makes you feel strong on the inside - atleast enought to go talk to them!
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| cyberia |
| quote: | Originally posted by alkizz
Beer used to work for me... |
Well yes pretty much alcohol is a way,but no too much,'cause then you aren't shy but drunk :) |
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