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Beeing shy!!. How do you overcome it? (pg. 3)
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| vmc |
get a little drunk and relax.
just be yourself |
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| Julie_Spyder |
| Why are you brining back all theses old threads?????? :conf: :confused: |
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| vmc |
| quote: | Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
Why are you brining back all theses old threads?????? :conf: :confused: |
Why not? It's cool to continue discussing about things which was posted long ago, but still actual.
I brought them back cause I didn't have anything to say in current threads. |
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| Dj_Activated |
| I'm shy too....*sigh* :( |
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| Julie_Spyder |
| quote: | Originally posted by vmc
Why not? It's cool to continue discussing about things which was posted long ago, but still actual.
I brought them back cause I didn't have anything to say in current threads. |
THEn why dont you MAKE NEW threads.. that you would be willing to talk about or.. bring up a subject...
not old ones.. where some of the ppl from them.. are hardly gona check.. Not saying they wont.. but..
Just make new ones.. be creative.. :nervous: |
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| vmc |
| quote: | Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
THEn why dont you MAKE NEW threads.. that you would be willing to talk about or.. bring up a subject...
not old ones.. where some of the ppl from them.. are hardly gona check.. Not saying they wont.. but..
Just make new ones.. be creative.. :nervous: |
why making a new one while there is another with the same topic that already exists?
check the tracklists forum. there's even a rule not to make new threads until do some search.
it has nothing to do with creativity |
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| tiesto14 |
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Inquisitor
First off, you have to think 'right'.
Second off, you are good, everyone is good.
- Ok.. if you walk away from this girl you end up with nothing.
- If you talk to the girl and she says 'no' you end up with nothing.
- If she kind of likes you, you end up with +1 friend.
- If she LIKES you, boy you got a girl!!
- Note, at parties everyone is super friendly!
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that is the ONLY truth about shyness.....there is no hard explanation for it...it is very simple...you either win or you lose...but you dont get if you dont play the game...simple...
personally i am EXTREMELY shy with girls...i dont know why....when i am drunk i am fine..but if sober..forget it i wont talk to her...i get nervous...which is weird because i get a good share of goodlooking girls when i ACTUALLY DO open my mouth and talk to them...you would think knwoing that i would talk to them more...but i jus cant get over my nerves...
but his advice is the ONLY advice that counts.... |
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| jploveparade |
| Take half a pill and all shyness is gone |
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| tranceaholic |
| all i can say is be urself and dont bull around and never let em see u sweat :) |
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| Juricimo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Paulinski
Is there any hope??
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start talking to the ugly girls and in a matter of months move your way up to talking to fine ones.
>JM< |
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| Spad |
| quote: | Originally posted by jploveparade
Take half a pill and all shyness is gone |
Sad but true :) In a way.
I've stupidly shy. But since I started on the little round ones, the confidence I experienced in clubs has found its way into my everyday life and I've become a lot more confident in general. I guess it just makes you realise that some things really don't matter, and that you can be yourself around people without worrying about the consequences.
I agree with Swamper though, just start doing things anyway regardless of how scared you are, and pretty soon you'll realise that 90% of the time nothing bad's going to happen, and that the other 10% of the times it's no big deal. So you talk to a girl and she's not interested....in 6 hours who's going to care?
Good luck.
(btw I'm still working on a cure myself....I'll let you know if I come up with anything :D) |
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| DuMonde TrAnCeR |
i used to be a shy bloke, very infact....
...honestly!
...then i think i lost my mind at one point, and now im, well me! :crazy: :stongue: |
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