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Question about cheating + friends.... (pg. 2)
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| cheshirepk8 |
| quote: | Originally posted by wizniz
well maybe they have a genuine connection and she was just with you because she had been for so long...
kinda ed up and not what you want to hear, but true love exists and from her point of view it might make sense.
if was drunken stupidity, throat punches.
otherwise, keep an open mind because you could lose two wonderful friendships.
yay adderall! |
if that's the case... then break up with the person first! :whip: |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by wizniz
well maybe they have a genuine connection and she was just with you because she had been for so long...
kinda ed up and not what you want to hear, but true love exists and from her point of view it might make sense.
if was drunken stupidity, throat punches.
otherwise, keep an open mind because you could lose two wonderful friendships.
yay adderall! |
a great friend doesnt his friends gf. end of story. you are wrong. |
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| verndogs |
| quote: | Originally posted by wizniz
well maybe they have a genuine connection and she was just with you because she had been for so long...
kinda ed up and not what you want to hear, but true love exists and from her point of view it might make sense.
if was drunken stupidity, throat punches.
otherwise, keep an open mind because you could lose two wonderful friendships.
yay adderall! |
i would be a lil more forgiving if it was drunken stupidity and not true love |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by wizniz
well maybe they have a genuine connection and she was just with you because she had been for so long...
kinda ed up and not what you want to hear, but true love exists and from her point of view it might make sense. |
that still doesn't make any better, imo. if there was even a hint of a connection, break that off BEFORE you sleep with the person. staying with someone solely out of comfort and routine is not the right reason to be staying in a relationship.
personally, if that happened to me i'd cut both of them out of my life. people make mistakes, but that's beyond ed up and disrespectful, and i'm not the kind of person who needs people like that in my life. |
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| wizniz |
| quote: | Originally posted by cheshirepk8
if that's the case... then break up with the person first! :whip: |
thats so word dude...
i was in a similar situation with one of my ex's.
there was another girl who i liked more than my girlfriend (they didnt know each other, so that was different). anyways i broke up with her so i could be with the other.
it was fine, she was hurt but understood because i talked to her for an hour-ish about it to let her know it wasnt her. i just didnt feel it anymore and didnt want to lie to her and myself.
boom! |
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| cheshirepk8 |
| quote: | Originally posted by verndogs
i would be a lil more forgiving if it was drunken stupidity and not true love |
i dunno... drunken stupidity sometimes is just stupidity.
it's also known as liquid courage, for doing stuff you want to do but can't sober.
i am not sure which would be worse... because if i did take them back
i would worry every time he/she drank when i wasn't there.
i wouldn't be able to trust again.
if there was no chemical enhancement? ugh... i don't know. it's just ugly. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
It's forgivable in time, but only in certain cases. I don't think it's right for people to say it's absolutely unacceptable all of the time. I dunno about you guys, but best friends are hard to come by.
And I'm not saying I wouldn't be hurt and angry at them both - but is one incident of mistaken trust and infidelity really worth losing a friendship over? Some "friendships", sure - other friendships, not so much.
I can tell you who'd be paying for dinner for a looooooooooooong time though. haha |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by cheshirepk8
i dunno... drunken stupidity sometimes is just stupidity.
it's also known as liquid courage, for doing stuff you want to do but can't sober.
i am not sure which would be worse... because if i did take them back
i would worry every time he/she drank when i wasn't there.
i wouldn't be able to trust again.
if there was no chemical enhancement? ugh... i don't know. it's just ugly. |
The easy solution is throat-punches. |
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| cheshirepk8 |
| quote: | Originally posted by wizniz
thats so word dude...
i was in a similar situation with one of my ex's.
there was another girl who i liked more than my girlfriend (they didnt know each other, so that was different). anyways i broke up with her so i could be with the other.
it was fine, she was hurt but understood because i talked to her for an hour-ish about it to let her know it wasnt her. i just didnt feel it anymore and didnt want to lie to her and myself.
boom! |
see that's ok. added bonus, they don't know each other.
you did the respectful thing. very admirable.
i just hate when people aren't honest. that's my biggest dislike.
i need to be able to trust the person. especially if we are fookin'
i just don't know why someone would do something like that.
i could never hurt anyone like that. not saying i didn't want to at one point. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by verndogs
i would be a lil more forgiving if it was drunken stupidity and not true love |
absolutely. |
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| cheshirepk8 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ygrene
The easy solution is throat-punches. |
yeah i like the straight up broken nose aspect.
it's the lawsuit i fear. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by cheshirepk8
it's also known as liquid courage, for doing stuff you want to do but can't sober. |
*cues John O'Callaghan - Exactly*
need we say this again!? |
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