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| wotyzoid |
| yes, I've learned my lesson of the day. |
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| Beat Blog |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lilith
On the basis you've had a bit of time to reflect on why objectification isn't always a good thing, especially when it's applied to you, maybe you'll do it less often to other people. Respect need not be something that's earned but simply a part of life being treated as you'd like to be respected. |
Give the kid a break Grandma. :p
He's 16 and immature, and therefore allowed to make a MILF joke.
Hell, anyone's allowed to make MILF jokes; this is the COR after all. |
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| enferno |
| her, get her pregnant, then go and give the psycho ex a high five. |
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| Lilith |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beat Blog
this is the COR after all. |
And what you forget nooblet, is that this is the COR... everyone gets a beating, sooner or later you'll be reamed by Jennypie getting your ass kicked. ;) |
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| Fl@k Monkey |
haha its funny, Iv been in this EXACT situation. Physcho ex fiance in my case, I was 18, She was 25, And had a miracle child to him.
Firstly, Let me just say - Older chicks than yourself are THE BEST to date - They are older and more experienced - Therefore they don't around with other guys and they make great lovers.
I would recommend it to anyone, Don't worry about Mr physcho ex bf. A woman needs a man who can give her security. Can you give her security? Can you be there in the absolute worst case scenario and defend her? If you don't think so you may want to work on that..
Take care of her child like a real father should, She'll notice it and appreciate you a lot more for it.
Mostly though, Ask yourself how deep in your willing to go for this girl.. Chances are she's had time to get ed around a lot by ex'es so you gotta be the one who either a)gets out of her way b)gets right in there and is willing to do ANYTHING to keep her safe and happy. And who knows, Since shes older she might even be touching base on the idea of commitment..Maybe not though, The girl i was dating was 25 and yours was 21.
So at this point in time you might ask why we split up? Simply put.. Some woman will be just what woman are.. Confusing. So if she ends up splitting up with you for yet another 'physcho' guy.. Chances are she likes the drama.
Goodluck!! |
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| djsphere |
stay out of trouble!
she sure is not good for you.
ps: dump her in a nice manner if u can. |
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| Orpheus Is Dead |
Its too much of a responsibility... you're 21. Pack your bags, see the world, live out your dreams, get your education....Don't settle down now... If you get into a relationship with that girl its gonna be a lot of headache that you don't need.
Don't do it... |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by R.j.
now, we've been talking for a week, and I've gone out with her twice... |
Ok, lets try and look at this realistically. You've known her for a week. You've 'gone out' twice. So, some points to consider:
- Do you, as the person you are now, or the person you plan on becoming real quick, have an interest in children?
- How about raising this little bundle of joy?
- And, how about raising a child that isn't yours? (psycho ex could potentially be the least of your worries).
- How about being 18, and hopefully not of the teenage mindset that you really do know better than everyone else. I'm not giving you - When I was 18, I thought I knew it all. Dirty little prick, I was.
- Does this lovely lady have a job in any way, or will you be contributing substantially (!!!) to a kid? (Not your kid, by the way, and well, they're expensive, you know) Hope you didn't want to go to college and actually enjoy yourself. You'll be working flat out trying to make ends meet. Study? Ha! Good luck.
Of course, I tend to be pessimistic.
And with good reason, I think. Children are nasty little creatures.
If you go for this, be SOOOO careful man. |
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| Orpheus Is Dead |
OH ....
HE'S the 18 yr old??!:wtf: :eek: :wtf: :eek: :wtf: :eek: :wtf: :eek: :wtf:
are you NUTS....Get OUT of that. |
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| Fl@k Monkey |
| I actually agree with the majority of what Sushipunk said, But at the same time i wouldn't rule it out personally.. But thats me. I'm not one whose afraid of the whole commitment and having to take care of children. |
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| Arbiter |
Christ, if you listened to the morons on this site by dating her you'd practically be adopting her child. Talk about the blind leading the blind...
If I thought you had an ounce of sense I'd tell you to go for it; that said, my suggestion is to steer clear. |
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| tubularbills |
| damaged goods :( |
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