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| limpboy |
I am 19 years old, and I was overweight for the past 18 years of my life, I lost about 140 pounds last year.
Now that you know my story, my truth is that When it comes to finding a girlfriend...I suck big time, everytime I see a girl I am attracted too I dont get nervous, I just know that there is no way she will be ever be my girlfriend, so I dont even try, and when I do try I start getting nervous, its like a loser-cycle am having.
this is my Honest Truth, and I would like any advice anyone can give me, but if you dont have something nice to say, please dont say it. |
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| Provocative_boi |
| quote: | Originally posted by limpboy
I am 19 years old, and I was overweight for the past 18 years of my life, I lost about 140 pounds last year.
Now that you know my story, my truth is that When it comes to finding a girlfriend...I suck big time, everytime I see a girl I am attracted too I dont get nervous, I just know that there is no way she will be ever be my girlfriend, so I dont even try, and when I do try I start getting nervous, its like a loser-cycle am having.
this is my Honest Truth, and I would like any advice anyone can give me, but if you dont have something nice to say, please dont say it. |
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| OutcastTO |
| work on your confidence. I can smell your desperation from here. |
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| malek |
| you're 19, you shouldn't be worried like that. |
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| thesauce23 |
| quote: | Originally posted by limpboy
I am 19 years old, and I was overweight for the past 18 years of my life, I lost about 140 pounds last year.
Now that you know my story, my truth is that When it comes to finding a girlfriend...I suck big time, everytime I see a girl I am attracted too I dont get nervous, I just know that there is no way she will be ever be my girlfriend, so I dont even try, and when I do try I start getting nervous, its like a loser-cycle am having.
this is my Honest Truth, and I would like any advice anyone can give me, but if you dont have something nice to say, please dont say it. |
umm dude, its not a problem. its called low self-esteem, self-confidence. everyone experiences that at one time or another. its just ur mind being fear's bitch. my advice- be yourself- trust in who you are. things will fall in place naturally |
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| Jeff Button |
| quote: | Originally posted by OutcastTO
work on your confidence. I can smell your desperation from here. |
This might have something to do with his erectile dysfunction. |
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| Tordan |
| why do you even think about wanting her to be your gf anyway? i'm assuming you do this when you initially meet the girl, right? well, that is your biggest problem. stop the whole girlfriend thing and talk to her like you don't give a damn. |
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| EvilTree |
| With an username like limpboy, you gotta wonder... |
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| jchung52 |
my advice, as said earlier, dont start with the i want her to be my girlfriend notion unless youre just looking for a one-nighter or something. but tbh, i think in your case you shouldnt be looking into that. from my experience, best way to do it is make conversation, want to be her friend, dont be awkward, maintain eye contact (as soon as you lose eye contact, esp during a conversation, it shows signs of weakness), keep a firm stance, dont slouch, appear that you have strong life goals, and dont lie. girls hate a liar. so be honest. and congrats on losing that weight. you should be proud of it and show it. it may be difficult because many have the problem of mentally thinking that theyre still overweight when really they arent (cant remember the proper term for it)
hope that helps. |
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| afterhrsgurl |
First of all congratulations on the weight loss...that must feel great! Seems like your problem is that you're too stuck in the past, in the way you used to feel when you were overweight. Your pessimism has obviously become a habit for you and even though habits are hard to break you gotta try your hardest..life's too short to think so negatively about yourself! If you could lose all that weight, I think you're strong enough to change the attitude as well. And you cannot be 100% sure that "there's no way she'll be your gf". How could you know if u never tried? And if you get nervous...so what!...we all do...it'll pass! If you don't feel good and show confidence, the girls obviously aren't gonna see anything good in you either. I'm telling you it's all about the attitude...they way you present yourself..if you feel good, act the right way, they'll see it too ;)
I know i sounded like Dr. Phil right there but i hope it was somewhat helpful |
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| limpboy |
| It seems that I am stuck in the past, and I do think negativly most of the time, its a habit that I need to change. Another Thing I need to be doing is over-coming my fear and talking to the girls that I am intersted in. |
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| Jem_hadar |
| Emulate Owen Wilson's fun-lovin' characters in movies... he's just so sly and casually playfully confident. :) |
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