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7 000 000 things you wanted to know about sex but couldnt ask because... (pg. 10)
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| Silky Johnson |
SHUT UP DEL. :mad:
edit: RAWR FSSSST! |
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| Sly_Guy |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
It's not about being a prick. It's about being trusted to be in control/have the power and not abuse it.
And what? You've never fantasized about having a woman be subservient to you? |
Ok, I admit to that. But it's not about being 'in control' that makes the fantasy attractive. I think it's just the power to say, 'sex...now!' and have it obeyed. Thinking of your own physical desire and being able to satisfy it at any time. The straps, gags, bondage, really have no appeal to me.
Sub and Dom fantasy in a sense that the act itself isn't one or the other, but just the idea of when that act occurs comes from one partner. |
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| Cosmic Fur |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
having a woman be subservient to you? |
both this and the opposite are ing awesome. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
Ok, I admit to that. But it's not about being 'in control' that makes the fantasy attractive. I think it's just the power to say, 'sex...now!' and have it obeyed. Thinking of your own physical desire and being able to satisfy it at any time. The straps, gags, bondage, really have no appeal to me.
Sub and Dom fantasy in a sense that the act itself isn't one or the other, but just the idea of when that act occurs comes from one partner. |
Huh? No, you're wrong...it's much deeper than that...and it's definitely a two person exchange. Hot, imo. |
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| Sly_Guy |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Huh? No, you're wrong...it's much deeper than that...and it's definitely a two person exchange. Hot, imo. |
Yes, it's a two person exchange where one person is in control of the direction of the encounter. Basically, the way I see it is as a one person encounter, where the second party is an extension on the first person's will. But what about that makes it hot? Trust is not a means of getting off in itself, at least to me. [I'm asking in all seriousness, because I'ma need a good answer, or at least I expect to need one soon] |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
Yes, it's a two person exchange where one person is in control of the direction of the encounter. Basically, the way I see it is as a one person encounter, where the second party is an extension on the first person's will. But what about that makes it hot? Trust is not a means of getting off in itself, at least to me. [I'm asking in all seriousness, because I'ma need a good answer, or at least I expect to need one soon] |
What makes it hot is realizing that it's not just one person in control of the direction of the encounter. ;) |
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| Sly_Guy |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
What makes it hot is realizing that it's not just one person in control of the direction of the encounter. ;) |
then the answer still escapes me. Maybe I'm just too uppity to be dominated... |
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| lilmau5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
then the answer still escapes me. Maybe I'm just too uppity to be dominated... |
in any dom/sub play, the person with the power is the SUB because they have the safeword. power is something you have to willing give up in sex play.
yeesh, didnt u guys watch that episode of CSI with mistress heather? (one of my favorites) ;) |
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| preppie chick |
| quote: | Originally posted by lilmau5
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bahaha. eww. |
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| Cosmic Fur |
| quote: | Originally posted by preppie chick
bahaha. eww. |
lol I was about to say |
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| jchung52 |
ahahahaha.... wow slyguy you could not have provided more entertainment for me while i sip my coffee. and people call me a noob... lol
ps. why dont more girls swallow? (def gonna get some bad impressions now haha) |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Because it's like really thick, salty Buckley's. |
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