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need some quick advice
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| Slylee |
bringing a guy i'm "dating" out tomorrow night partying and he is kind of fashionably challenged. and when i say "fashionably challenged" i don't mean that he looks like a total doofus. he just doesn't own any dressy casual stuff. it's all athetic type stuff.
it doesn't really bother me at all, it's actually part of his charm, but at the same time...he can't walk into a nice lounge/club w/ that type of look, so i bought him an outfit today lol.
i know it was a total girlfriend move though so i'm nervous about it. i think that he will appreciate the gesture and i'm 100% positive that i did good on the outfit. it's not over the top or anything.
now. the question is...do i just act sweet about it, like "hey i saw this and thought u would like it" and take the risk that he will think, "wtf! she is trying to be my girlfriend" or should i just somewhat come clean about my true motive and be like, "hey i noticed your wardrobe seems to consist of basketball shorts and affliction shirts, so i took the liberty of grabbing u an outfit for tonight"
lol
too bitchy? |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
or should i just somewhat come clean about my true motive and be like, "hey i noticed your wardrobe seems to consist of basketball shorts and affliction shirts, so i took the liberty of grabbing u an outfit for tonight"
lol
too bitchy? |
Sure do that... then watch him walk away. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| u dont want to date so just be a bitch. everyone loves to a bitch |
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| Slylee |
lol
well he DID laugh at himself when we were talking one night and i asked him if he owned any nice shoes and he was like "i dont know, i dont think so". he knows how he is. and he admitted that he never goes to any nice lounges/bars/clubs or anything but wants to sometime...which we are tomorrow.
and he is a total smart ass to me all the time busting my chops...so i would hope he would be able to take a comment like that. |
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| xKaoSx |
| if you want him to wear nicer stuff then buy it for him you cheap ass |
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| Zewad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
"hey i noticed your wardrobe seems to consist of basketball shorts and affliction shirts, so i took the liberty of grabbing u an outfit for tonight" |
yes.. tell him this... guys are clueless when it comes to clothes..
at least the real guys... metros are closet fags
who cares what he wears anyway. date him for his personality and not what he wears... |
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| Slylee |
i am dating him for his personality. but i'm being realistic. he needs a decent outfit for where we are going tomorrow, so rather than be like, "hey um u need to buy a new outfit for tomorrow" i just got him one.
it's just a cool pair of faded (but nice) jeans with a shirt that kind of looks like an affliction shirt, but not as loud and it's not an affliction shirt lol it's "safe". i'm pretty sure he'll dig it. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by xKaoSx
if you want him to wear nicer stuff then buy it for him you cheap ass |
uhh thats what she sayin bro |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
uhh thats what she sayin bro |
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| xKaoSx |
eh yea my bad for not reading whole thing
lmao
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by xKaoSx
if you want him to wear nicer stuff then buy it for him you cheap ass |
You obviously didn't read the thread... dumbass.
I think you should tell him straight up what your motive was. That way, you don't have to worry about him thinking that you're trying to reign him in, and in turn, have him run away.
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i am dating him for his personality. but i'm being realistic. he needs a decent outfit for where we are going tomorrow, so rather than be like, "hey um u need to buy a new outfit for tomorrow" i just got him one.
it's just a cool pair of faded (but nice) jeans with a shirt that kind of looks like an affliction shirt, but not as loud and it's not an affliction shirt lol it's "safe". i'm pretty sure he'll dig it. |
slylee.....be the bitch u are. just do it. U dont like the guy more then a , so him. Tell him i bought u this cause we talked earlier and i knew u had nothing and if you had something ud prolly have the wrong thing.
so here put this on and put on a smile. and shut the up. please for the sake of my popularity just shut the up, unless i say something to you. and that haircut....shave those in sideburns, who do you think you are the rock???no! ur going to be perfect tonight, u just ahve to do as i say. |
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