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Golden Age of TA (pg. 17)
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I don't really believe that people change. |
Huh? All right, Jenny, I give up trying to understand you, I'm going to just like you for who you are :p |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah...I mean at least it was an even match up. All we have left to start with is EoS, and she's a ing moron. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Huh? All right, Jenny, I give up trying to understand you, I'm going to just like you for who you are :p |
What's huh? I think that people never change in their fundamental make-up. People can learn to amplify good qualities and subdue bad ones...but I don't think that means they've changed. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
What's huh? I think that people never change in their fundamental make-up. People can learn to amplify good qualities and subdue bad ones...but I don't think that means they've changed. |
i think it's possible, but rare. if you're referring to the hoi polloi, then yea you're right. people generally don't change because it involves too much looking in the mirror at yourself. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
What's huh? I think that people never change in their fundamental make-up. People can learn to amplify good qualities and subdue bad ones...but I don't think that means they've changed. |
It doesn't!? Then what would you say if a really passive aggressive person (for example) learned to deal with her frustrations and became a more understanding (and direct) person?
If you think maturity is all about stressing the right parts of our behaviour (that's what I get from what you're saying now), and this doesn't count as changing, fine; but, what does, then? If you think people don't change, then surely you can think of a(n impossible) way people can change, right?
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| Slylee |
| lira stop it right now:mad: |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah...I mean at least it was an even match up. All we have left to start with is EoS, and she's a ing moron. |
Yep, ever since you two started rubbin' each other's clits all day this place hasn't been as much fun. Hell, even Big McJew is playing nice. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
It doesn't!? Then what would you say if a really passive aggressive person (for example) learned to deal with her frustrations and became a more understanding (and direct) person?
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That's just a change of behaviour though... has the real person actually changed?
Note; I actually do think people can change, I'm just arguing for the sake of same... and because lunch was great |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
It doesn't!? Then what would you say if a really passive aggressive person (for example) learned to deal with her frustrations and became a more understanding (and direct) person? |
But those are learned behaviours to begin with. I'm talking about the elements of our personalities that are innate - and I do believe there is a side to all of us that is unlearned.
I would definitely agree that one can "change" in the sense that they can unlearn undesirable behaviours (which is exactly what I said in the first place). But again, I don't think that changes their elementary personality.
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
If you think maturity is all about stressing the right parts of our behaviour (that's what I get from what you're saying now), and this doesn't count as changing, fine; but, what does, then? If you think people don't change, then surely you can think of a(n impossible) way people can change, right?
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No, I don't think people change, lol. They modify their behaviours, but they don't inherently change. |
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| Slylee |
you know, i must say that i was surprised at how well jenny and i liked each other/got along.
i never in a million years would have thought i would love that chick as much as i do. |
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| Silky Johnson |
I don't mean to get all gay on you, but I really like you. :o :o
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| lenazi |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Big McJew |
:haha: :haha: :haha:
ps whats with all of this philosophy , more cancer! |
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