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"Need Advice" On Dating a Female who has Borderline Personality Disorder. (pg. 12)
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
also...i can't believe you guys are still giving this idiot advice.
lol he's just as ed up as she is. you guys sound like a match made in heaven we r DNA |
MY advice was fantastic. Murder-suicide. Thank you very much! :mad: :o |
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| Lomeli |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
but the truth is (whether he realized it or not), he just liked having someone obsessed with him and needed it to feel important. |
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| we_R_DNA |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lomeli
To be honest man, none of us can tell you what to do. If you feel like you have to call her, then do it. |
You are right; I don't feel like I have to
I am just someone who doesn't want to see another person take their life
"When you find yourself stressed, ask yourself one question: Will this matter in 5 years from now? If yes, then do something about the situation. If no, then let it go." ~Catherine Pulsifer~
It does seem easier to just disappear into the crowd of a billion people who never try to help a person willing to take their life. I just could not live with myself had I done nothing at all and she ended up dead. |
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| squirrelly |
Perfect. She has you right where she wants you.
Now go be her little bitch and go to her every beck and call!
Don't forget to take pictures! :gsmile: |
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| Lomeli |
| quote: | Originally posted by we_R_DNA
You are right; I don't feel like I have to
I am just someone who doesn't want to see another person take their life
"When you find yourself stressed, ask yourself one question: Will this matter in 5 years from now? If yes, then do something about the situation. If no, then let it go." ~Catherine Pulsifer~
It does seem easier to just disappear into the crowd of a billion people who never try to help a person willing to take their life. I just could not live with myself had I done nothing at all and she ended up dead. |
Do what you gotta do. That's all I can say. |
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| Slylee |
oh well, i dont really think the term "validation" is accurate for that type of situation. to validate something, means to confirm that something is correct or true. right?
anyway, it was more like "seeking constant admiration" but nevermind, i see what you meant now:p |
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| Lomeli |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, i dont really think the term "validation" is accurate for that type of situation. to validate something, means to confirm that something is correct or true. right?
anyway, it was more like "seeking constant admiration" but nevermind, i see what you meant now:p |
Ya, we're both correct. Just a different flow of thought :) |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by we_R_DNA
I just could not live with myself had I done nothing at all and she ended up dead. |
gg |
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| Lira |
Time for some serious advice.
| quote: | Originally posted nine days ago
So I recently met this girl randomly at the river. She is amazing to be with i've only known her 3 days and we have slept naked, but i've not had sex with her. |
All right, it all happened in less than two weeks. Doesn't she have anything remotely similar to a family? (Long time) friends? Anyone at all? You've got no idea of what her life was like before you met her, and if she didn't kill herself before you guys meet, this may be less probable than you even imagine.
If you want to help her, do exactly what you've done: get her professional help and do not get attached just yet. You talk as if you were the reason why she's alive - I'm sorry to break it to you but this is very unlikely. Let the experts handle this, and get back to her once she gets out of it (if she ever does). Give yourself some time out. You're probably anxious/excited by this emotional turmoil, and it may have blown your feelings out of proportion. Maybe you're not even that much attracted to her, but the tension gives you the impression that you are. You're not going to make things better if she drags you along with her.
Unless, of course, you like the situation you're in. In that case, text her again and make sure she has not killed herself yet. Shag her, play God :) |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Time for some serious advice. |
Sod off Lira. :mad: |
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| Meat187 |
| I still lol about how Lira thought I was a psychologist. :stongue: |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Meat187
I still lol about how Lira thought I was a psychologist. :stongue: |
What the hell were you then? I remember you once said you worked with science of some sort... an Engineer then, you are?
Edit: Besides, I can't be arsed to memorise what each one of you does for a living, can I?
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Sod off Lira. :mad: |
Come on, it can't get much worse than this, can it? It's either going to get outrageously far-fetched (if it's a lie) or just downright boring (if it's true). |
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