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How to friends zone?
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| echosystm |
HEY SUPER COOL DUDES!
I'm supposed to go on a date with a girl, but I've changed my mind and I don't know how to get out of it. She's a great girl and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I should have never asked her out in the first place. I would ACTUALLY like to be friends with her.
Advice?
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| narcism |
| Friends can still go out for a casual meal every now and then, just tell her thats all you want straight up and no one will get hurt :) |
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| Acton |
| They say honesty is the best policy. |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by narcism
Friends can still go out for a casual meal every now and then, just tell her thats all you want straight up and no one will get hurt :) |
What if we already had phone sex while I was away on holiday? :stongue:
There was no access to internets (pornography), I couldn't help it.
The thing is she's the hottest girl I'll probably ever pull, but she just doesn't tick any boxes (she actually crosses out a few boxes) and it's a waste of time. Being a moronic horny male, I've been turning a blind eye to this and she thinks we're ready for launch. This is what's complicating things. I'm a douche. :( |
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| narcism |
| quote: | Originally posted by echosystm
What if we already had phone sex while I was away on holiday? :stongue:
There was no access to internets (pornography), I couldn't help it.
The thing is she's the hottest girl I'll probably ever pull, but she just doesn't tick any boxes (she actually crosses out a few boxes) and it's a waste of time. Being a moronic horny male, I've been turning a blind eye to this and she thinks we're ready for launch. This is what's complicating things. I'm a douche. :( |
oh gawd :haha:
Well then just tell her: You have been thinking about it and it just wont work out and give her the reasons you just said in a nicer way :p |
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| echosystm |
This is going to suck.
Isn't there some kind of Jedi trick to this or something? There must be... |
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| bamski |
| quote: | Originally posted by echosystm
Isn't there some kind of Jedi trick to this or something? There must be... |
Don't... shower? |
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| narcism |
| The easiest way is to just say it and get it over and done with ;) |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| you should at least her, just to see if your opinion on the matter changes. if not, tell her you just want to be friends. everybody wins. |
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| Mr.Mystery |
| Punch her in the ovaries. |
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| kadomony |
yea in this case, best to say it straight up.
if she's cool with it, then hey problem solved.
if not, then so be it. it's not what you wanted and it would've caused undue conflicts anyway. |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
you should at least her, just to see if your opinion on the matter changes. if not, tell her you just want to be friends. everybody wins. |
Yeah see, this would be the point when I become an actual douche haha. She really likes me. It would be mean.
you, conscience! :mad: |
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