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| Jennifer_P_ |
The Cancer male ~ Prince Charming. A gentlemen, polite, well spoken, essentially tailor made. Cancer male is the epitome of a traditional male. Moral, earnest, and ladies - he's the marrying kind.
The Cancer male likes to nest and become a good provider. He's an artistic one and very creative. His spirit must be allowed to flourish. His astrological landscape is that of a hopeless romantic whose head is full of daydreams and visions of happiness. The Cancer man is an ever so happy family man, he's the perfect lover, husband and boyfriend. Sex is an act of worship to the Cancer male. He's the sign of sexual potential.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, unlike his counterpart, the Cancer female crab, who is a bundle of raw emotion, the Cancer male crab is more centered and cool. A Cancer man's emotions are not worn on his sleeve like that of the female crab who is a notorious well-spring of bubbling emotions. In astrology, the Cancer man's Fourth House is one that rules the general public at large. It's no accident that the most successful leading men on screen are Cancer men.
Ladies, here's the great part. Our Cancer male was born under the Mother Principle. Because of this, he views life from a matriarchal point of view. In other words, he recognizes the feminine power as the supreme ruler of the cosmos. He kindly answers to the females direction.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, our Cancer males age range is that of 21-28, which represents a time in life when a young man is teetering on the brink of maturity - and at the ripe age of marrying, ready to embark on a life of togetherness with his female ruler. He's seeking his Cinderella. Similarly, a Cancer male may even go so far as to "save himself" for marriage. A Cancer man is romantic and traditional - the chivalrous man.
Cancer Male is Conditioned Through Experience for His Future
Cancer male is a cardinal (active) water (emotional) sign and his planetary ruler is the moon. A planet which has an intimate, yet sympathetic, relationship with mother earth. A planet which represents moods. Cancer male shoots for a noble greatness, however, he must find a nurturing relationship with a female queen in order to complete it. His number is 4, that of structure and protection. As well, it represents the four seasons or the "moods" of mother earth.
He is incredibly responsible, yet at times, he is incredibly needy being an emotional water sign. In an instant, the Cancer male can touch a woman's soft spot. As if preprogrammed with all the right moves at birth and the correct balance of emotions that he uses as tools to understand and heed the direction of his queen.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, appearing seemingly wet behind the ears with his notorious lost boy expression, our Cancer male is up to something. And his association with the God Perceval tells us: Perceval name means "to pierce the valley." This is a hidden agenda that he wears under a cloak of dashing good looks, morals and manners. After all, a Cancer man is considered "The Player" by Sextrology and he hopes to inspire a motherly love from his intended queen.
Cancer Male Can be Made Whole by the Feelings he Invokes in his Lover Towards Him
Not one of lust, but one of sentimentality - mothering, caring, nurturing. He longs for a sense of motherly protection from his mate. However, the Cancer male is good at masking his feelings towards the female population when in the company of his male counterparts. A Cancer man won't be admitting that he digs chick flicks and love songs.
Cancer men are Mr. Nice Guy - as American as apple pie. The kind of guy you'd gladly bring home to mom. As symbolized by the crab, our Cancer male is very, very soft inside - but is good at protecting this truth with his hard outer shell of protection. Cancer male is creative and inventive, thus his association with his cardinal water qualities - that of action filtered through emotion. Many a "starving artist" is a Cancer male. However, the Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, his Fourth House is also one of commerce. He expects to get paid handsomely for his creativity, and most times, does. And it's the constant rush or flooding of emotion that he pulls his inspiration and creativity from.
As a result of this, the Cancer male may feed off of his female host for the wealth of inspiration she brings to him in the form of emotion. A Cancer man sneaks up on women. Cloaking himself under his hard shell and disarming women by making them feel he has no agenda. He's cool and detached prior to the pounce, pretending to be nonchalant but succeeding in planting the seeds of desire deep within her. She can imagine a future with this one. To the Cancer male, a female is not simply a vessel for sexual release.
She is a worshipped well-spring of life ~ one from which the Cancer male will drink freely and find inspiration. The Cancer man makes a woman feel secure - his number one asset. She lets down her guard and does a free fall right into Prince Charming's lap. He considers himself a hero. He knows what a woman wants. He's sensitive, a good listener (although mostly pretending) - he's different from other guys. He possess the ability to make a woman feel as if she is endlessly interesting and he's very good at making a woman feel as if moving into the next inevitable steps in the relationship is HER idea - but don't let him fool you. He's coaxing you there, knowing all the while, it's HIS idea - he's just giving you the time you need trusting that you will ultimately make the decision he wishes to see you make.
He's Grateful for a Woman's Affections and as a Result, he's a Loaded Cannon in the Bedroom
So much so, that at times, he'll apologize for his behavior. Playing a "mother may I" role. Playing the eternal 21 year old (his signs association with the age of 21-28), he represents "The Graduate" - developing gradually. Mrs. Robinson anyone?
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, female power is sexually arousing to the Cancer male. A Cancer man fully embraces his sensitivity and taps into an emotional place. He relishes in being mothered by a female. But beware, the more a Cancer male feels safe with his queen ruler, the more apt he may be to play out his darker fantasies elsewhere. Thus, keeping his queen on the pedestal by dare not asking her to partake of such dark activities. He has too much respect for her.
This type of activity may rear it's ugly head as the Cancer male moves into mid life crisis age. Don't let the Cancer male slip through your fingers in this way.
Open Yourself to His Wishes and all Will be Well
Cancer male is a hopeless romantic forever lost in daydreams where he is the leading man, the hero ~ tailor made to the specifications of a woman's wishes.
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| Jennifer_P_ |
Can a single word really describe a person? Possibly - as may be the case with the Cancer female. So what would that word be, you ask? Unplugged. A Cancer woman is raw, she's emotional, she's got no limits and she may even be brutal at times. Cancer woman are a well spring of emotions . . . and they need to express them, always.
Those observing a Cancer woman in action and operating on gut instincts will go as far as to refer to her behavior at times as reckless, uncontrolled and irrational. You could liken it to the term "cleaning house" - and not literally. She's sweeping the floor all right. . . usually with your ass.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope describes this "energy" best:
"Eternal commotion in the unfathomable ocean of her emotions might see Cancer manically swinging from proverbial party girl to sorrowful soul, especially in her tender years, during which she's fairly aching for loving care. In truth, she often feels at sea, challenged to establish firm emotional footing, secure a healthy lifestyle, and land the right kind of mate. In early relationships she expects to be saved by men and thus risks attracting tyrannical types who take advantage of her natural urge for dependence."
So what does Cancer woman ultimately need? A man who is a rock. Stable ground in a sea of swirling watery emotions and constant utter need.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope refers to her as "The Pearl" - of wisdom (which is usually gained throughout a lifetime of ups and downs). She is ruled by mother Moon, thus representing the "Mother" principle. A Cancer woman controls emotions, mood, intuition and gut impulses. If you know a Cancer female, then you have to know that they FEEL everything. Every single thing, right down to the last little subtle vibe of emotion.
Here's Where the Mother Principle of the Moon Affects Cancer Female
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Cancer female views females over males as authority figures, for better or worse. The girl Moonchild effect is in place (the inherent sense that existence itself is somehow feminine in nature). A Cancer woman believes that Mother Earth is the sovereign source of life, not distant star dwelling sky-gods which represent the masculine paradigm.
Cancer female tends to hail from a childhood presided over by a matriarch (mother) as opposed to the patriarch (father). Females play the dominant role in a Cancer woman's existence. It's not the other way around and it's not even in her nature to consider that could even be a possibility.
But you see, the moon also controls rhythm in the universe. Cancer female embodies routine and rhythm (even though it may appear to others as chaos). The Sextrology astrology horoscope calls her "a seeming ball of chaos who is actually a broadcast of natural order, albeit on an unseen, internal level. The whole of her life will be a process of embracing herself as a natural rhythmic expression of rhyme and reason" - external pandemonium aside.
The turmoil the the a Cancer woman feels is very real to her and unless she learns to embrace her internal unpredictability, her pain in life is only compounded. And here's the rub . . . Cancer female longs for the white picket fence existence. Perfect husband, perfect home, perfect children, perfect job, perfect LIFE. But the reality of it is that a Cancer woman finds this all extremely challenging to maintain. It's hard to find a "rhythm" in those conditions. And to compound matters, Cancer females generally lack any element of a fatherly principle. This means that not only is there not a rhythm, there also isn't much discipline being handed out either.
This is Why it's Hard For Cancer Female to Protect Herself
After all, we all know that underneath that crabs hard exterior are a bunch of mooshy innards. She's a softie . . . but she's usually too busy trying to control things . . . organize things . . . create "rhythm" . . . that she comes off looking like more of a frazzled, somewhat controlling yet amazingly refined woman. She's alltogether - on the surface of things.
The womb is ruled by the sign of Cancer. The moon is hers and represents emotions, fluids in the body, mood and intuition. The astrological glyph of Cancer represents the female condition symbolizing ovaries or breasts - the seeds of life and nourishment - fertility.
And fertile she may be. A Cancer woman may also be more than a bit promiscuous in her youth and somewhat irresponsible about controlling her fertility. She flirts with the idea of motherhood from a very young age and she is drawn to the idea of it naturally. A Cancer woman doesn't mean to behave with loose morals in her youth . . . it's just that she's searching. You can liken it to "looking for Mr. Goodbar." Her Prince Charming is out there (ironically it's Cancer male) and she's bound and determined to find him. She'll turn over every rock, look in every closet and knock on every door.
Let's Face it, You Have to Kiss a Lot of Frogs to Find a Prince, Right Ladies?
A Cancer woman usually does her fair share of kissing and then some. Guys, Gemini female will have a "history" but her intentions are pure. She's operating on pure, raw and unabashed emotions thus usually landing her in situations in her youth with more tyrannical types of men. Her complete and total dependence on a man makes her easy prey to the power hungry, insecure, controlling types.
Now let's get deeper into the nuts and bolts of this mysterious woman Cancer woman. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, a Cancer woman is a bit more complicated, a bit more emotional and a bit deeper than most others. It may take Cancer female many years to recognize herself as the pearl of wisdom she really is - through experience. Cancer female doesn't avoid negativity. She forces herself through it. To experience it, to process it - and to truly know it.
It's Really a Cinderella Story
Poor Cinderella, not accepted in her female dominated household. Her father is a missing or vague character in her life. But rather than fight the station in life she's been given, a Cancer woman accepts it. She resigns herself to face the facts and to live the existence. It is only through experiencing and embracing the negativity that she is able to transcend her existence - and score big time. In the end, she's all the more wiser and well-rounded of an individual for having done so.
But there are many out there who can attest to the fact that a Cancer woman can be a real witch at times - literally. The Sextrology astrology horoscope states:
"It is during the waxing of the Moon that one is meant to cast spells of wish craft. The cause is taken up on an unseen, mystic level characterized by this witchy, nocturnal sign. All Cancer females are witches and may not realize it. She's engineered to "vibe" into situations and project her immediate emotional, raw gut reactions and intentions onto it. Whether anyone has asked her to or not. Remember, she's a water sign. Water represents feelings and raw emotion."
"In her emotional quest, which leads straight to men, Cancer woman projects an aura of caring littler for her own sex. In fact, with her single objective in life being that to secure herself as the be-all-end-all little woman to her man, she may have such utter disregard for other woman her own age that she seems to be somewhat of a nemesis to them. This is how she represents herself to all her "sisters" - as the Egyptian goddess Isis, a figure associated with the Moon. Nemisis (Nem-Isis) is Isis's "dark sister" or shadow self."
Cancer Female Will Always and Forever be Revealing Her Dark Side to Her Female Counterparts in One Way or Another
This is just her nature. Cancer women can be conniving, phony, manipulative, vain and totally (and purposefully) out of sync with other females. Sextrology states that "being the demure darling to men, no matter how disingenuous, is a popular tactic for our crab girl. Such displays however, are usually by those of a crab girl in deep pain." According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Cancer girls motto is, "I Feel." Famous Cancer females include Princess Diana, Meryl Streep, Carly Simon, Pamela Anderson, Christine McVie, Courtney Love and Liv Tyler. (This sign has tremendous emotional power as you can see.)
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, her number is 4 which represents the substances of the universe - air, fire, earth and water. No matter how old her physical age, a Cancer woman's mental age is always coming from the feeling or frame of 21 to 28 - the age of maturity. The age when most women traditionally marry or become pregnant. Her psychology can be overly emotional, self-pitying and a bit too anxious to please - men in particular. Generally, that won't apply to the female sex. She may typically have mother issues, tolerates psychological abuse and may act out rebelliously or promiscuously. Cancer women have trouble setting boundaries and may give in to melancholy and fits of hysteria.
I Think You Can Get a Good Idea of What's Going on Here
It's a Cinderella story and Cinderella is always viewing it from a melancholy state waiting for her Prince Charming. But the best way to describe the energy of a Cancer female is this, "Cinderella isn't swept off her feet; she wows the Prince, who then spends his life metaphorically groveling at hers. Kneeling at her piggies, putting on that glass slipper." She likes tall men, Nordic type blondes, jocks and body builders, father figures and businessmen and collegiate sorority boy types.
She's Sentimental, Doting, Nurturing, Mothering . . . and a Handful
Yes, a Cancer woman is a handful, as most men know any woman of real substance usually is. She's raw emotion bundled in a storybook existence. But alas, Cinderella finds her Prince Charming, gets a great pair of shoes and a nice big house . . . and lives happily ever after.
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| Jennifer_P_ |
The Leo male ~ the zodiac's eminent "Golden Boy" who possesses great charisma and a sense of casual entitlement.
True to his sign, a Leo man lives his life like a noble king and views the world as his hunting ground. It gives me pleasure to say that our golden boy lion prizes honesty and purity above all else. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Leo male takes what he wants with such force and conviction that he leaves others spiraling in awe and worship. He maintains a great amount of self-confidence, which is the appeal to his masculinity. A Leo man sees other men as no equal and assumes leadership roles rather naturally. Leo male has a wonderful sense of humor and can be likened to the class clown.
In the Sextrology astrology horoscope, he maintains the all American good looks of the boy next door and this only adds to his incredible sense of personality. Actually, he may be viewed by others as a "complete personality." In astrology, Leo men drive strong emotion in women rather than a pure expression of lust. There is rarely anything sordid about a Leo man's sexual life. Leo male relationships are like that of a traditional type with traditional gender roles taking place. Although, he is know by Sextrology astrology to be the sign of sexual prowess.
And this explains it in a nutshell. Our Leo male is ruled by the sun, the epitome of self expression and life force. To a Leo man, I'm sure he feels it rises and sets around him. Leo is governed by The Father Principal, which is centered on the concepts of authority and power. To our Leo male, divinity does not spring forth from a tangible source, but from that of an abstract , all powerful, masculine force.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, his sign quadrant is that of The Second House, which represents the emotional environment - the "heart level." His earth element is that of fire (strength, force). He is a fixed (stable) sign that can be likened to sustainment and concentration. A Leo man's age range is likened to that of 28-35, which represents a period in a man's life where the advent of full maturity has set in. A man who is in full realization of his potential.
Stemming From his Superiority Complex, the Leo Male Can Throw a Fit of Temper Tantrums or Other Tyrannical Behavior
Leo men are the zodiac's Tom Sawyer, your everyday rogue hero. In his astrological mind, what others say is just a bunch of bluster. Our Leo male can be a real know-it-all. He steers clear of anyone with an obvious agenda and prefers the company of those than will hang on his every word.
If a Leo man is left unchecked while in this company of admirers, some may wish he would just be quiet, as he is always in filibuster mode. When the Leo male lion is quiet - something is up. He's like the proverbial lion with the thorn in his paw and something is then clearly wrong. Injuring the lion makes him dangerous. A Leo man may take to sulking, seeking to make others around him as equally miserable as he currently is. If that doesn't work, he'll throw a monumental temper tantrum. And when that doesn't work, he'll simply walk away and NEVER look back.
The Leo man's astrological horoscope is ruled by the Fifth House, which is one of fun and games, can predispose him to sport and amusement. As a result, he may be very athletic and is usually the one orchestrating the action. At times, Leo male may find himself obsessed with sporting games, horse racing or gambling. Upon first introductions, our Leo male may come off as a prankster, flippant, curt, or a tad bit of a fibber. He may even go so far as to make up vivid stories and tales about himself or his lifestyle when he finds himself in the company of admirers that are hanging on his every word.
To the Leo male, less is more, however. After all, he is a king and knows when to make the proper decisions, good or bad. Heavy is the head that wear the crown. A Leo man projects a sense of health, vitality and a "golden boy" aura. He's obviously non-chalant about matters and the "heat" or magnetism he radiates keeps others at a somewhat safe distance from him.
In Relationships, the Leo Male Can Hold Out Better Than any Other Sign of the Zodiac for the "Right One"
Sex for Leo male can be empty without emotion involved. He remains true to his desires and keeps them pure - he never settles for what he considers to be second best. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, he can remain sexually unattached until the lioness arrives. He hopes to appeal to a woman who will admire his superiority. He expects her to share with him in his rulership and, thus, become his queen. A Leo man lives in the spotlight, however. Leo male approaches the dating world as entertainment to himself, watching various females pine for his affections.
At times, but unbeknownst to him, Leo male attracts females lacking a father figure. Remember, our male lion represents the "fatherly" energies. At times, the Leo has a hard time finding a woman who fits the bill. To Leo men, females are either extremely needy or blatantly ball busting. As a result, he can put potential mates "through the mill." He can run hot and cold, testing his potential mate.
Leo Male Likes to Set the Scene, Then be Entertained by the Antics That Take Place as a Result
Let the games begin - and may the best man (I mean wo-man) win. All the while, the Leo man, the lion king, sits back in his throne, watching the spirited gaming he's begun, yawning and feigning indifference, unimpressed by all that is taking place. But he IS watching. After all, he initiated the actions for a purpose. The Leo man needs to be a father figure to his mate.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Leo male doesn't wish to be adored, but rather to find himself a worthy lover TO adore, adoration that would befit a queen. In keeping with a Leo's man's signature distance when such events are taking place, he's weeding out the competition. Leo male can be a tyrant with other women, but to his queen, he must treat her like gold. In return, she must be worthy of such treatment.
Leo Male Likes an Earthy Woman of Substance, Grass Roots
After all, a Leo man is playing the rescuing hero part. He likes the curvy hourglass figure. Waifish girls won't fit the bill as he does not see them satisfying to his imagination and desires. He is ruled by the Sun, and as a result, wishes for a compatible love in the form of an earth goddess.
Life with Leo men can be brutal at times. A Leo man is a loner at heart, however, he is the most monogamous of the zodiac's males. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, believe it or not ladies, this man even feels that looking is equivalent to touching! As a result, he will not be prone to do it much. He is not responsive to fleeting emotions, however. They must be sustained emotions. A Leo man prides himself on loyalty and when in a bad marriage, may just hang in there. He won't stray or prowl for sex, but rather, let it find him, then pounce.
When its Leo male that decides to make an exit, he's gone and he probably won't be coming back. But if you're the one whose decided its time to leave, the loss may be profound and possibly crippling for years to come and he may find himself sulking for a very long time. The bigger the man, the harder the fall.
The Leo Male is Considered to be The Natural
The zodiac's Golden Boy is living life like a king ~ and the world is his playground.
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Leo female seeks to flee and to rebel against, and remove herself from, being under the thumb of the male dominated paradigm. A Leo woman is anything but passive and compliant under male domination and rule and as such, she wears the pants, so-to-speak, in most of her relationships, friendships or otherwise. Sextrology states that the Leo sun represents the Father Principle and Leo females principle of absolution, Absolute Principle, tends to mean that many a Leo female can tend to be . . . err, full of herself.
Leo female is the incarnation of both the fiercely wild goddess of the hunt and of the gentle domestic goddess of the hearth, aspects paradoxically rolled together into a cohesive whole that is the Lady Leo. Sextrology claims that a Leo females life represents one long, continual exhilarating chase for the goals she hungers to achieve. Still, in spite of her desire for conquest and ultimate control of men and relationships, she keeps the home fires burning and tends to become the one person in her brood upon whom the responsibility falls for maintaining familiar solidarity. A Leo female has a matriarchal quality to her that lends her to being the center of the family hub, a seat that she rather prefers. According to Sextrology, "no individual in the zodiac, male or female, is as fierce a control freak or as fervent in the pursuit of passions."
Sextrology explains, "Leo woman is the prime mover of the zodiac. No other individual possess her power and determination for achieving goals, sexual or otherwise. Burning with desire, she attacks life, letting nothing stand in the way of her hunt for fulfillment. Incapable of distancing herself from her passions, she embodies the romantic and erotic urges that drive her forward in pursuit of satisfying a constant craving for love and lovemaking. In a sense, Leo woman is sex, her every action fueled by a natural lust for life and she looks the part: A fiercely energetic woman with vivid coloring and flashing eyes, she hungers for experience, never doing anything by halves. Without the slightest timidity, she makes her needs and feelings known, boldly proclaiming sexual interest in a would-be mate, subsequently proving to be a boisterous wildcat in the bedroom. She is attracted to men who possess passions that equal her own, but, like her, won't be completely consumed by them. She presents a challenge to a man, requiring a guy to be so stable and commanding as to make her seem feral and feminine in contrast. No easy feat for the one woman who can't help but beat most men at their own game of dominance."
Leo Females Motto Is "I Will"
As a result, she feels entitled to express herself - to anyone, anything, and anywhere she sees fit. Metaphorically speaking, the hunt represents freedom in expressing creative or procreative (ah, hem) urges, though a virgin deity, Artemis is also the creatress of mother goddess of all wild things, ancient proof that the virginity associated with her was never interpreted literally. The hunt is symbolic of the sex act itself and would thus extend to more figurative acts of creation.
Leo females 5th House rule is one of creative life force - in both artistic expression and again, lovemaking, which leads to the subsequent bearing of children. Leo female believes the offspring to be of ones mind and ones body come from the same impetus - inside the "self." As such, Leo female is the incarnation of this impulse. An impulse that drives her to loads of lovemaking, many times, with any man of her fancy, ideally leading to the production of many offspring as a result. It's the partnering of passion into a purpose to hotly pursue. And pursue . . . many a Leo woman does. Especially when it comes to men.
It's Easy To Spot A Leo Female
I've read before that a Leo female will be "the one with a large, curly mane wearing the gold-lemay jumpsuit with the matching leopard print bag and open-toe gold heels - at the gas station." Leo female will do anything and everything in her power to be noticed by others and this goes for her styling and fashion choices as well. She is the virgin (ah, hem) "goddess of the chase" and her power is masculine in nature. A Leo woman embodies the spirit of a matriarchal power in exile - one that is acting as "Artemis on the hunt." And hunt she does, especially for men. Leo female is a determinant force to be reckoned with and in a room full of people, she'll want to stand out. If that means silly antics or dramatic displays, then so be it. The point is to be - and remain - in the center of attention. Wild clothes, a coiffed, sometimes large curly mane of hair, leopard prints, a preference to gold over silver and many times, even a loud mouth and some even tend to have a "goofball" nature, all of these accompany the spirit of a Leo female.
Again, attention is what it's all about and while she's drawing men in, she's eyeballing them and preparing to separate the weaker ones from the pack so as to have her way with them. Either for some professional reason - or one that may happen to strike her impulse behind closed doors. The guy who feeds her the most attention and flattery usually wins. Most times, it's a truly tall order for a man to please a Leo female. He's usually much of a man, however, he will also need to be a pushover of sorts so that she may take the lead and assert her will and domination when need be - or to do a little tom-catting around for some attention to replenish that huntress soul of hers.
Leo females like to tease and play, much like kittens and cats, they will "chase" their prey down and once they've captured him, take to "toying" with him endlessly. A Leo female may simply lead a life of constantly "toying" with men, especially Leo females that have been betrayed or are secretly spiteful of men and their macho, dominant rule. Leo female will be sure to take those fellas out and it's usually on an emotional level as Leo female is one who tends to "put a hurtin" on many a man. Many times, a man can be lured in by this harmless, playful looking kitten, only to end up feeling duped - the jokes on him. Leo female doesn't much care for male domination and as a result, she'll be sure to be the one doing the dominating in any relationship, while gently purring away like a contented kitten. After all, she is a masculine aligned fire sign and she feels equal to, if not better than men, and will conduct herself as such. I can do anything you can do.
Leo Female Needs To Be At The Center
Sextrology states, "Leo's astrological symbol of the sun signifies the individual needing to be at the center of the collective consciousness. The circle suggests divinity, making Leo woman a diva who loves the spotlight. Her signs quadrant, The Second Quadrant, is that of the emotional environment, wherein the world is the prime concern. Leo female is a constant generator of heartfelt passion and her importance lies in carefully tending to and honing her creative expression into the hottest ticket in town." Her signs glyph is symbolic of the cat's tail, a barometer of feline emotion that acts as a rudder, giving balance to the cat on its infamous hunts and high-speed chases.
A Leo female can be somewhat opportunistic in nature as well, in that, she may take what is already out there, and spin it into a more desirable concept or creative plan and use it to achieve her success. Sextrology states, "If Leo female sees a chance to intercept a creative plan or concept that isn't presently being done justice, she may "develop" it into something more fully realized - a scheme to which she can hitch her own star." You see, it is Leo's birthright, as one born under the sign of wholeness and completion, to envision how a half-baked concept could be sufficiently fleshed out and then accomplished. In all fairness, Leo female isn't always aware of this tendency to usurp other people's territory, regardless, she may easily gain a reputation for being cannibalistic. Still, Sextrology states that Leo teaches by example, that it is indeed natural to base our outlets for expression, creative or otherwise, on the inroads that predecessors have made. She is the "fast-track" daughter of Artemis, after all.
A Leo woman's element is fire (force) and it's fixed (stationary) station in her sign signifies magnetism. Leo female is likened to a star, the fame and fortune that women of the sign are forever chasing. A Leo woman is a masculine fire sign and, as a result, she enacts this element quality by going on the chase for stardom and she fixates on those with whom she hopes to find a glorious place in the sun.
Leo Female In Love
A Leo woman is drawn to men that wear their hearts on their sleeves, one's that can communicate with her - on her level. A Leo female has a tendency to fall head-over-heels in love and develop school-girl like, insane crushes on an object of her desire at that particular moment. These intensely emotional school-girl type of crushes can come as easily as they can go, but in order to get closer, a Leo female will get rather blatant about her intentions and she's not one for subtleties. She'll make sure she starts to frequent his favorite hot spots, she'll make sure that she starts eating at his favorite restaurant and she'll make sure that she's . . . . err, well just about everywhere he is. A Leo female all but "throws herself" at whatever tickles her fancy at the time and she can be rather childish in nature about it appearing as somewhat of a goofball about the matter. Seeming at times, to not have any self-respect about the matter or experience any level of embarrassment over her actions.
Sextrology states, "Leo female tends to make her feelings know in a blatantly obvious sometimes even screwball manner, so there's really no guesswork required of the man Leo fancies at the moment. Leo woman is a focused predator - she zeroes in on one man at a time, marking him like a cat, as her exclusive territory. Like her huntress-lioness archetype, Leo female does the pursuing. For the man she craves, there's nowhere to run and nowhere to hide - she corners him. As a result, she leaves herself wide open to savage attacks of emotional hurt. As well, her overly audacious nature does put a portion of the male population "off." Many men enjoy doing the pursuing and a Leo female can come off looking like a freaked out, emotionally unstable stalker. The opposite of demure, the force with which she shows her feelings is matched only by her own devastation should they not be returned. The Leo female learns this about herself early in life and she becomes ever more strategic in her all-or-nothing approach. Her standard game plan is simple: She concedes, like any she-cat complying to a mate, appearing soft, unassuming and submissive to the man shes targeted. She disarms a would-be Romeo by rendering unnecessary his seductive lover-boy strategies, working her way into position until the time comes to clasp him in her claws. A master of flirtation, once shes convinced of a man's interest, she'll play cat and mouse, toying and teasing a guy unabashedly."
Leo female is looking to be as intensely and equally loved by men - as she gives to them, which for many men, is a tall order to fill. She may put her mate through the ringer and request that he constantly prove his love to her through daily actions. Leo females, in general, are loyal once they've entered into a committed relationship with their captured king, however, if he stops fanning those flames of admiration towards her - poof. She may place another gent into that bulls-eye target of hers and develop yet another infamously intense school-girl, goofball crush and be at it all over again. Leo females require the utmost of admiration from their man on a 24/7 basis. On the flip side, if a man can give her that kind of attention she craves, she'll be his and only his and her committedness towards him will be just as fiercely loyal as was the fierceness with which she pursued him. Leo females can be preoccupied with perfection and not one to admit their faults. They can also be dictorial towards other women and fall into cold and calculating attitudes. A Leo females keywords include power, will, drive, ferocity, drama, show, authority, shock, calculation, intensity, impulse and force.
Famous Leo women include Madonna, Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry, Debra Messing, Lisa Kudrow, Angela Basset, Charlize Theron, Hilary Swank, Tori Amos, Martha Stewart, Loni Anderson, Sally Struthers, J.K. Rowling, Lucile Ball, Monica Lewinsky and Coco Chanel. A Leo females turnons include swarthy looks, Mediterraneans, dark hair, legal teens, flirtation, struggle, male models, male strip clubs and being on top.
A Leo female is looking for her king of the jungle and - he's got to be one that will steer them both in a healthy direction.
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The Virgo male can be a bit of mystery and a confounding character at times. An enigma so to speak. To the Virgo male, the world is an imperfect place, fraught with conflicts, crisis, and potential pitfalls of which he will always be on the lookout for.
In astrology, he is a perfectionist by nature. He prefers each and every situation in life to be no less than "ideal." Having such a view of the world is what helps to perpetuate the Virgo males ever present sense of disillusionment with life. After all, we all know what happens when you only expect the absolute best all the time - you end up disappointed and feeling let down. Frustrated, angry, and feeling used.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, the Virgo male masks his profound sensitivity and long list of emotional wounds with a barrier of cynicism. He projects a sense of being somewhat "unavailable," and at times can put people off. Virgo men are more likely to make a less-than-friendly first impression, more so than any other sign of the zodiac, and many that are more Virgoan by nature maintain a cool facade throughout life.
The Virgo man is a master of disguises, a chameleon if you will, he may wear many different "hats" in life. He may put on different faces for different people, depending where he is and what group he's currently with. The Virgo male does not like for "his worlds to collide." In other words, he'll act a certain way at work, or with friends, and then he'll act completely different at home. He cannot mix these two worlds completely, for fear that one group may realize that he isn't all that he's previously presented himself to be.
The Virgo Male is an Enigma of Sorts
Secrets, mystery, and a cloak of darkness may seem as if they surround him at all times - melancholy. It may be hard to get through to a Virgo male in order to truly understand him, and his preconceived notions of the world, as a world full of crisis and failures. Mercury is his ruling planet. This aura of uncertainty and disenfranchisement that surrounds the sign's planetary ruler is analogous to the Virgo male psychology. The Virgo male can simply go MIA when dealing with others - both physically and emotionally - making himself completely unavailable.
Conflict is a dirty word to the Virgo male and it will be avoided at all costs. Virgo is a mutable (changeable) earth (stable) sign. His sign quadrant is The Second Quadrant, which is that of the emotional environment. One where a persons feelings about the world are of prime concern. His number is 6, which is seen as the devil's number or, in contrast, the number of God's creation, as it took 6 days to create the earth, resting on the 7th.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains that this association is also fitting of the Virgo males trouble with finding balance or happiness in life. He feels forever "caught in the middle" and Sextrology likens him to the Charlie Browns of the world. The Virgo's associated age range is that of 35-42, a time when a man's so called "glory days" are gone. As a result, he may suffer from many irrational fears such as disenfranchisement, phobias, hypochondria, and secret self-loathing.
Virgo Male May Feel as if Life is Just One Big, Long, Mid-Life Crisis
Always seeking perfection, our Virgo males can be critical, judgemental, harsh, obsessive compulsive behavior and hypochondria - along with a myriad of other ailments that they'll convince themselves their forever suffering from. The Sextrology astrology horoscope considers the Virgo male "The Vehicle." Virgo man is here to serve and generate forward movement. A rather unfortunate side effect to his service orientation is that male Virgo's tend to be used, more so than any other sign in the zodiac, as a stepping stone of sorts by women. As someone whom they can propel themselves from.
Fittingly because of this, Virgo male can fall prey to a number of doubts, insecurities and fears instilled in him from an early age. He feels socially "cast out" and many Virgo males are born during a period of strife between the parental figures during a marriage. Thus, the ever-present Virgoan balancing act in life, again - caught in the middle - and unhappy with his place and achievements in life. In relationships, the Virgo male likes wholesomeness in his partner. He doesn't wish for her to have a long line of lovers in her past, as he secretly considers himself less sexually knowledgeable than most of his partners.
Don't get me wrong, Virgo men do enjoy sex, however, they feel they may lack the sexual passions and knowledge that are learned through more serious, long term commitments. In light of that fact, however, it is because of his ever present feelings of lacking a true sexual education, that he brushes up on sexuality and things that make a woman "tick." And, again, being a service oriented sign, the Virgo male aims to please and will go to great lengths to do so. He seems to have an undeniable sense of a woman's inner workings.
One particular side note regarding this, a Virgo male that tends to dwell too much on perfecting the act, performing it perfectly, may render himself useless in doing so. If a Virgo male tends to get "too in his head" regarding his performance and perfecting it, he may fall short and be unable to complete the act. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Virgo male cynicism relates to his association with the 6th Astrological House of critical analysis and service. He adopts the role of a critic and sets himself towards perfecting the world. The Virgo man can be overly judgmental and harsh - even to his lovers. However, this is a service that Virgo male provides to you. It's a part of his horoscope mapping. He is pointing out your faults so that you may become a better person by him doing so.
Our Virgo Male is Always "Perfecting" Everything Around Him
The Virgo man craves information, is very analytical in nature and adopts an air of expertise regarding certain matters. He likes order. He likes organization. He likes to make lists, he likes to read to educate himself, he likes tidbits of trivia and what some would call "useless knowledge."
Virgo men insist on absolute cleanliness, perfect hygiene, holistic foods, and will be the first to notice a spot of dirt or a dust bunny in the corner of the bedroom. The Virgo man channels much energy into forming opinions of others. He likes to problem solve. If you find yourself venting to a Virgo male, you can almost hear the ticking of his mind beginning to develop a solution to your problem for you. Yet another Virgoan service he's providing to you.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, in relationships, those Virgo males who seem to be a bit more Virgoan than others, tend to prefer a woman they can mold to their certain specifications. Secretly, a Virgo man longs for a mousy type woman - a little house on the prairie type. However, most of them will fight that notion and find themselves drawn to older, more sexually experienced, vampier women, whom they feel they can learn a thing or two from.
Virgo's Can be Drawn to Taboo Matters
Virgo men like contrasts. Michael Jackson was a Virgo. Virgo man likes to see dark skin against light skin, and prefers a mousy woman but will date the vampier types. They like voyeurism and watching these conflicting dynamics. At times, a male Virgo may find himself fighting inner impulses and will throw himself into a number of situations others may find taboo. As well, when entering and exiting relationships, the Virgo male may adopt an entirely new persona with each. A Virgo man can be compared to the entertainer, Madonna - completely reinventing himself each and every time.
The Virgo male possesses a built in ability to keep a distance in relationships. At times, Virgo's skepticism may hold him back from taking the plunge in sexual matters. You must be spotless, the house must be spotless, the sheets must be spotless. If anything is out of place - forget it. In the more Virgo of these men, this can be so troublesome that the Virgo male tends to become the Virgin - the symbol of his sign. Virgo man feels as if he's ultimately lacking knowledge in this department as well, which doesn't help matters. A male Virgo sees sex as a way to "touch base" with his partner, but not necessarily as an act to take place just for fun or release. As a result, it may become somewhat ritualistic in nature and done only at certain times or for a certain purpose.
What the Virgo male may not understand, however, is that he possess a white hot sexuality beneath all of his fears that may hold him back. Once he settles into his skin, his sexuality, and has worked out any instilled issues remaining from childhood by parents who may have taught him sex was bad, the Virgo male can prove to be a very good lover, indeed. He likes to be seen as a tool, providing his service once again, for his lover to reach heavenly heights. As a result of this, he'll tend to prefer the woman-on-top scenario or receiving oral sex. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, by providing himself as a tool, he is taking all of the anxiety surrounding his performance, off of himself. Having revealed all of the inner workings of the mysterious Virgo male, please do not see our Virgo man as a figure to be avoided or to pity.
Virgo's are an earth sign, and as a result, they will possess a love of the outdoors and gardening. They are a peaceful, stable bunch and are relatively docile by nature. They are tender, caring, and possess an outstanding ability to sympathize and empathize with others. Especially those less fortunate.
Virgos are Extremely Hard Workers and Possess a Tremendous Work Ethic
Virgo men are a responsible group who cares for and provides for the family unit as a whole. Being a mutable (changeable) sign, they are flexible by nature and can move and evolve with a relationship or changing scene, all the while, maintaining stability and offering themselves as a "rock" to others.
The Virgo male will go to great lengths to please a lover or family members. Remember, he's driven by the need to provide a service to others. To assist, to excel, to propel and to love. He keeps everything moving forward, and in a state of perfection. Under all the masks a Virgo male wears, there is a loving, tender, caring person, indeed.
He Will Achieve His Greatest Success Later in Life
When a Virgo man realizes his role and his value in personal relationships as a service oriented provider ~ he learns to accept himself and is freed to succeed.
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Virgo female is considered the sign of sexual conduct by Sextrology. Virgo female is the definitive earth mother. Sextrology explains, "Virgo female is the definitive earth mother, which, by this very nature, makes her a bundle of contradictions: She is at once an unassuming character and a powerfully feminine force to be reckoned with. Virgo woman is giving and nurturing, but equally reliant on others. Physically, even when she is small of stature, there is something of the brick house about her, with dramatic curves and generous cushions in all the right places. She exudes an air of accessibility, indeed a fragility, that inspires a man's lustful and protective urges in equal measure.
Virgo projects a good-girl image, no matter how hard she may seek to shatter it - even engaging her in conversation feels like seduction, while bedding her can't help but smack of sweet corruption. Meanwhile, she is eager to give herself to a man, especially in servile capacities. Pleasing a lover tops Virgo's erotic agenda, and more than any other woman, she treats a guy like a sexual lord and master. In return, however, she demands a man possess studly power of the first order, such that many find themselves diminished in the mating process, unable to fulfill her lofty sexual expectations. The zodiac's antiwaif, she is eternally round and juicy, possessing sex appeal long after other women's charms have faded."
Virgo females sign quadrant, The Second Quadrant, is that of emotional environment, wherein a person's feelings about the world are of prime concern. Virgo female is compelled to behave according to her conscience; moral virtue is her modus operandi. Her planetary symbol, the sign of her ruling planet Mercury's (communication), portrays the hymen-crossed body, with the activated mind marked by the glyph's antennae. A Virgo female is about mind-body connection as well as moral purity. Her principle, the Principle of Reconciliation, makes amends in the world, healing and contributing to mankind. Virgo female takes control of the shaping of her own character and will thwart any and all efforts for being molded by others' actions or demands.
Virgo Female Maintains An Aura of Obscurity
Sextrology explains, "There is plenty of controversy over the designation of Virgo's planetary ruler, Mercury, and many have assigned the sign's government to the undiscovered planet Vulcan, or the fragmentary remains of what is purported to have once been a mighty celestial body, Chiron, or to Earth itself. Virgo female embodies the slow, cyclical change of the seasons themselves. She is often a warm and sunny personality, brimming with delight and enthusiasm; while at other times, she is a cold, stoical soul capable of putting even her closes friendships on ice. Her lack of definitive celestial origins gives her an aura of obscurity, a muddiness as befits her mutable (changeable) earth (fixed, grounded) status. In many ways, this lends her the appearance of an "open book" to others - someone who is quite literally, up for grabs."
Virgo female is like an empty vessel waiting to be filled, when it comes to relationships. This is a nod towards her astrological 6th House, one of service. As a result, Virgo females and ready, willing and able to provide. They are highly adaptable and indeed malleable to any and all situations and can be likened to a piece of clay, waiting to be molded. Virgo female is on earth to help others attain their desired ends, and in doing so, she somewhat carves out her niche along the lines of eternal "helper" to others. Take a glance at famous Virgo females which include Mother Teresa, Margaret Sanger, Maria Montessori and Sister Kenny. Many females born under the sign of Virgo embody themselves as distinguished teachers, healers, health workers - anything regarding service and assistance to others.
Virgo females glyph or zodiac sign is the "M" which represents Mother Earth. It stands for Demeter, goddess of the harvest, and Virgo female asks herself how she can be of service to others - how she will reap and sow in this world. Her number is 6, which is related to sex, a tantric symbol of erotic union, which signifies the male and female intertwined in sacred intercourse. It is the seal of Solomon whose book is the only potentially erotic bit of the Bible. Virgo female cannot skirt the holiness of horniness and being an earth sign, the sexual union of male and female represents life force, health and well-being. Her sign's polarity is feminine and she wants to be useful, helpful, productive and lead a happy life. Virgo female is a beautiful lump of clay that is usually molded into a gorgeous hour-glass figure.
Her sign's age range, the perspective from which she views life in her mind, is that of 35-42, which represents the metaphoric crossroads in life, forever faced with a dilemma - whether or not to give up her independence for the unreliable prospect of a partnership. Often, Virgo females feel their time could be put to better use - assisting and helping mankind overcome, persevere and survive. Sextrology states that Virgo female psychology may be one of suffering - her own. She may suffer from emotional blocks and arrested development. She can be highly neurotic at times, particularly about familial ties, to which she often clings. Virgo females can often be overly dependent on siblings and at times, plagued by resentments over their success. She can also tend to be a fair-weather friend at times, appropriating the mannerisms of people that she must then, discard.
Virgo Woman Is Built
Virgo females status as the mutable-earth sign translates into an undulating physicality of majestic proportions. She's as inviting to man-kind as a lush landscape of rolling hills, possessing a soft, fertile, peasant body that would seem to demand rigorous attention. Other than extraordinary bursts of laughter, she is rather reserved, participating sparingly in conversation, while she wears a vacant smile that's being broadcast around the room. Her grin is misleading to many, especially men, in that they misconstrue it as signifying that she's void of strong opinions or judgments. It's a cheerful defense mechanism against being called upon for witty comment or conversation. Sextrology states, "If you see a quietly beautiful and beaming woman safely ensconced within the confines of a chummy group, scanning the room in one direction while sneaking furtive glances in another, she is most like a Virgo female."
Sextrology claims that Virgo females are "easy." Not that I would know, however, the reason Sextrology provides for this is it's because she's always trying her damnest to signal sexual interest in a man. Virgo female hangs on every word, leaning into conversation, all ears and heaving cleavage, listening as if in a state of suspended fascination. I'd say that Virgo female has men down pat - she feeds into that ego of theirs and also their inherent need to protect. She makes him feel interesting and needed and as a result, after conversing with her, he'll walk away feeling all "puffed out" about himself - and quite happy. As a result, Virgo female can tend to somewhat attract trollish men of sorts, who are looking for an ego stroke.
Virgo female is one of those rare creatures that looks better naked than clothed. She's generously endowed with the beautiful hour-glass physical form and firm skin which assures that all her parts stay in place over the long run. The feminine principle flows forcefully through the Virgo's being, and she needs no man to make her feel like a natural woman. Virgo female doesn't like much to feel "put on" and tends to live in comfortable clothing, earthy comfortable shoes and non-synthetic duds. Many Virgo women tend to wear their natural hair color and fancy pedicures and manicures. Body art and tattoos may also be weal concealed and many a man has been surprised by what he sees when the Virgo female dons her birthday suit. Virgo female won't readily let a guy jump her bones, although she may send out signals giving the illusion of otherwise.
She tends to get caught up in crushes on men and places high expectations upon them. To most men, she is somewhat intimidating because of that, especially to the carefree types of men that she seeks to bed. Virgo female keywords are essence, virtue, morphology, acquisition, virginity, indulgence, emergency, softness, education, articulation and persuasion. Her body rulership is of the abdominal region, the intestines and gallbladder. Mercury, her planetary ruler, rules the brain, sensory organs, reflexes and thyroid.
Virgo Female Is A Changeling Of Unrivaled Proportions
Sextrology states, "Like Charlie Brown's cartoon sister Sally, Virgo often invents situations that aren't strictly true: She may describe a "relationship" with some Linus of her liking to friends in romantic terms when, if pressed, she'd have to admit that she and her clueless crush haven't even so much as kissed. In true Virgo form, she may even mold herself in her man's image, literally taking on his traits, his tastes, his habits and affections, so as to become his female doppelganger. Somewhere Virgo female feels that if she becomes an appendage of her love object, he won't think to dump her and doing so, she imagines, would be tantamount to chopping off his right arm."
Virgo female is a changeling that even surpasses the notorious Gemini "flip-flop" syndrome. She is like an empty vessel, a symbol of both Pandora and Mary Magdalene, waiting to be filled, and a bit dangerous to other women. Sextrology claims that by blatantly becoming the people she idolizes, her mimicry borders on body-snatching. Being such a sponge is a positive thing, for Virgo female has the uncanny ability to take that which she perceives in others as their beneficial traits and incorporates them into herself. Famous Virgo females include Cameron Diaz, Greta Garbo, Sophia Loren, Ingrid Bergman, Lauren Bacall, Claudia Schiffer, Fiona Apple, Beyonce Knowles, Shania Twain, Faith Hill, Pink, Selma Hayek, Stella McCartney, Rachel Hunter, Jacqueline Bisset, Elvira, Jennifer Tilly, Rosie Perez, Mother Teresa, Dr. Joyce Brothers and Kristen Johnston.
The Irony In Life For A Virgo Female In Love
Virgo females irony that she must face in life is that the perfect man for her is not one who needs for her to blend and flex to the degree that she is willing to for him. Virgo female is attracted to guys from the wrong side of the tracks, men who are rough around the edges. Virgo females like bikers, tattoos, tough guys, rockers, tortured artists or other unwashed heroes waiting to happen. Unfortunately, it's a recipe for co-dependence. It is with a man whose life needs no tweaking that Virgo female belongs. One who exhibits the diamond in the rough qualities that she's drawn to, but has no nooks and crannies that she needs to fill. Virgo females tend more so than any other zodiac sign to fall in love at first sight. But if may take her time to find this kind of man and many Virgo females tend not to marry until their Virgoan ruled years of 35-42 have been reached.
Sextrology explains, "Virgo woman, it must be said, so often wastes her time and attention on boys when what she really wants and needs is a man. And one day, when she's just finished tidying up some anemic Peter Pan's apartment - bam! She crashes straight into the kinds of man she's been trying to foster in relationship never-never land. Such a man, who has no need for Virgo's Ms. Fixit routine, forces her to reallocate that energy - into a shared emotional, indeed spiritual connection. For her, the sacred Madonna/Whore (an angel in the public face, a wild cat in the boudoir) of the zodiac, sex is sanctified."
Virgo female turnons include high-power creatives, rockers, painters, facial hair, business suits and bosses, bikers and skinheads, doggy style, tattoos and piercings, doctor/nurse, high leather boots, dungeons and goth.
Virgo female embodies all that is enticing to men. The hour-glass form, the full breasts, the motherly doting nature, the ego stroking capability - Virgo female has all these essential elements that appeal to that most blatant brand of hetero male, having nary a desire to flirt with the sexual affections of any man who even slightly whiffs of ambiguity. There is something fetishistic about this forcefully feminine woman who turns her intent to please a man into a ritualistic experience that might include a drawer full of paraphernalia as well. Leather is typically part and parcel of attracting those motorcycle men for whom she will always have a particular weakness for. A zaftig female, she'll get down and dirty with a rugged bear of a man, thrilling with schoolgirl excitement at a rough rider with a Harley.
Guys, grow a goatee, get some fresh ink, fire up that hog, put on the leathers, take her to see a rock-n-roll band and then bring her home and ask to see her tattoos - she'll be more than happy to don them for you in her birthday suit.
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To the Libra male, life is a blank canvas waiting to be painted with his brush. He's a philosophical man, with high principles and idealized visions. Sextrology explains, "Libra male is the zodiac's Renaissance man. For him life is art, and he approaches existence s would a painter faced with a blank canvas, feeling empowered to create a world based solely on his idealized visions while striving to encapture sweeping abstract realities that he perceives as having remained heretofore out of humanity's reach. He is naturally attuned to the ordered, non-chaotic energies of the universe and is thus both highly principled and philosophical.
Libra male is a perfectionist, if not a Platonist, forever focusing on conditions that might bring betterment, both for himself and for others; and yet wearing rose-colored glasses can also set him up for great disappointment. He is liberal in his beliefs, a pioneer on the intellectual plane, which often puts him at odds with the more stodgy aspects of society. Despite his freethinking, Libra male is typically traditional in his need for a steady relationship, which nonetheless doesn't preclude extracurricular dalliances, in thought or deed. He is attracted to an independent female, an intellectual equal, with whom he can live in mutual harmony, while still maintaining separate spheres of influence. Love, for Libra male, is a meeting of the minds, and a woman must share his appreciation for highbrow ideals, aesthetics, and a sensual if not etheric approach to sex."
Sextrology considers Libra male the sign of sexual talent. His principal is the Apollonian Principle. Libra male seeks to live a life of order and reason. He longs for a civilization based on beautiful ideologies and replete with a pleasing aesthetic. A Libra man scripts out his own character, which he presents to the world as poised, disciplined and well-balanced. Libra males motto is "I balance" and "we are." Libra male seeks perfect union on all planes. He seeks to emphasize positive qualities while repressing negative ones.
A Libra man's quadrant is The Third Quadrant, one of mental perceptions and he views all life and it's inhabitants through that filtered lens. Libra male is the embodiment of the highly conscious mind and has little concern for what bubbles beneath the surface. For Libra male, life is all goodness and light - which can cast a dark shadow.
A Libra Male Likes "Little Boxes"
Sextrology states that the psychology of a Libra male can be rigid and emotionally inflexible. Life needs to fit into little boxes, which it rarely does in actuality. He is overly idealistic and refuses to look at the "darker" unconscious aspects of himself. Libra male also tends to overindulge in drugs and alcohol at times. He may also fall prey to sexual addiction and he can suffer repression on this score as well as with any number of emotional traumas, which may ultimately lead to depression. A Libra man's age range, the perspective from which he perpetually views life, is 42-49. This is the age of achievement and a time of life when a man is polished in his accomplishments.
Libra males number is 7, the number of cosmic order. Musical scales comprise seven notes; the week is modeled on seven days of creation. There are seven virtues, seven deadly sins, 7 pillars of wisdom 7 sacraments and 7 heavens. The Seven Sisters, the Pleiades and the daughters of Aphrodite/Venus, are goddesses of justice and light itself is made up of seven colors. Libra males see the big picture and he seeks to emphasize the positive and bury the negative. Libra male represents the objective male Venus just as its following sign, Scorpio, portrays the subjective female Mars, being traditionally ruled by that planet.
Libra is the higher octave of Aries, its so-called opposite sign, while not really being its opposite at all. On the contrary, both are cardinal signs (initiators) with the similar mottos, the Aries "I am" and Libra "We are." Both Aries male and Libra male are trailblazers in spirit (fire) and ideas (air), respectively. The Libra males element is air, and the cardinal air combination is best represented as light. Libra male is a beaming character and his sign's polarity is masculine in nature. Sextrology states that Libra male can easily fly off the handle as he cannot tolerate the chaotic, darker sides of life. The slightest obstacle can send him reeling. And when it comes to you expressing darker aspects of yourself or your life and surroundings, you'll hear many a Libra man saying, "Snap out of it." He'll want you to ignore your problems much in the same way that he ignores his own. Libra man usually tends to like to create beautiful things as well as explore exquisite ideas. He'll repress negative feelings more so than most men - even when they're begging to be dealt with.
Libra Males Can Be Dabblers Of Sorts
A Libra male is not above laying claim to numerous disciplines which he hasn't truly mastered and this often raises the eyebrows of others. The the Libra male mind, life is all about poetry and lyricism and he longs to add more beauty and harmony to the universe. Libra men tend to beam love, just like the light they represent, into all directions. Some view him as a phony that is hiding behind his devised self so as to not allow others to glimpse a true vision of who he really is. Sextrology lists some famous Libra males - Sting, Flea, Usher, Eminem, Meat Loaf, John Lennon, T.S. Elliott, Truman Capote and Oscar Wilde.
Libra males like to create an alias for themselves, an alter-ego of sorts. Sextrology gives the example of John Lennon, who declared himself the "Walrus." Libra men have a fascination with creating "characters" or character versions of themselves. Yet despite the shiny exterior, the interior of a Libra male can at times be fiercely dark. Libra men contain a side that may eventually threaten to become their undoing. He projects an image that may not quite line up with his reality, for Libra men tend to feel somewhat deficient. His 7th House placement is one of striking personality traits and it also highlights that which one lacks. This selective perception of self is a source of much psychological suppression for many a Libra male and is usually one that is deeply rooted in childhood and the result of bickering parental atmospheres.
Libra Male Makes Up With Stylistic Flair What He Lacks In Manly Appearance
Sextrology states that Libra men are attracted to beauty from a young age and tend to prefer the friendships of females over males until - upon puberty - that changes. His female friends tend to take off after the alpha males, giving into their hormones, and leaving the somewhat effeminate Libra male out in the cold. Libra male has avoided much of the more rough-and-tumble male bonding rituals throughout his youth and now finds himself at odds. He may be shunned and ridiculed by other males who tend to label him based on his love and beauty and the arts and his effeminate nature. As a result, he seeks to find his niche by building his "character."
Libra male is the intellectual and sophisticated man of the zodiac wheel and he wishes to trump the alpha male at the game of life and love. He may be somewhat self-loathing secretly, however, he'll take on that developed "character" of his right along with a devil-may-care attitude. A Libra male can reinvent himself many times over as this is his greatest defense. Libra men can be likened to the entertainer and singer, Madonna - constantly reinventing themselves, their image and, indeed, their identity with every new release. He'll remain eternally youthful and more cute than classically handsome, at times, even appearing somewhat cartoonish. Libra men stand out in a crowd as a baby-faced dandy and they can even look cherub and angelic in nature. But because of his boyish, cutesy pie looks, he has trouble being taken seriously at times by others. Still, Libra man has style a-plenty and quite a fair for fashion as well. His tastes will be those along the whimsical "retro" lines.
Libra Male Is The Zodiacs Consummate Artist
Sextrology states that Libra's greatest artistic creation in life - is himself. His hairstyle is often edgy as well as his fashion sense and he likes wedge mushroom cuts, prince valiant bobs or carefully coiffed rocker shags. A Libra mans imagination is hyperactive and usually, before he can talk, he's taken to performing, acting and basically - not being himself. His keywords are harmony, charm, serendipity, idealism, composure, elegance, strife, indecision, liberalism, justice, order and imagination. More famous Libra men again include Sting, John Lennon, Eminem, Bruce Springsteen, Viggo Mortensen, Michael Douglas, Hugh Jackman, Ralph Lauren, Isaac Mizrahi, Peter Max, Tom Petty, John Cougar Mellencamp, Tommy Lee, Jackson Browne, Snoop Dogg, Flea, Meat Loaf, Roger Moore, Johnny Carson, Luciano Pavarotti, T.S. Elliott, Truman Capote and Ray Charles. Sextrology refers to them as "imposing idealists and conceptual artists."
At a young age, a Libra man can tend to be labeled as special, different or weird due to his vivid imagination, personality and antics. Because of his appearance of a lack of masculinity most times, he may have many female friends in youth that suddenly, when he feels the pangs of maturity and sexuality, keep in downgraded into the "friend" position still and he feels he cannot compete with the alpha males on the block. Don't fool yourself, he's all man. It's just that his Venusian planetary ruler is aligned with feminine energy, therefore, he's a perfect balance of male/female energy rather than strictly and overly masculine. As a result, even the straightest Libra male on the block may have his sexuality called into question at one point or another in his life and he may suffer from an eternal identity crisis as a result and many do, in fact, explore same sex sexuality.
Sextrology states that a Libra male goes to extremes, exuding talent and torment in one tidy little package and life with a Libra has it's tensions. Because of his idealized nature, his pretty little princess can easily tumble off of the pedestal he'll place her own if he spies any impurities. Libra male can be a real charmer to the female species but, as his scales of justice represent balance, he will be equally cutting when he deems necessary. Marriage and divorce are both 7th House placements and Libra male will struggle with conflicting needs for freedom and commitment all the same. Libra men can often project blame when feeling conflicted and stifled in a relationship. He's a "cake and eat-it-too" type.
His idealized view of life blows right into the boudoir as well. He'll expect nothing short of a "beautiful experience" in bed with a lover. The mood must be just right, preferring a twilight atmosphere and there's no tolerance for fumbling. It has to play out like a Hollywood movie script and be nothing less than spectacular. He wants to hear the harps of the heavens as he's intertwined in intercourse and he likes a slow, erotic groove with a big crescendo and a sweeping finish. Libra male is a guy who really gets into his head when it comes to sexual situations and swapping spit. He likes lavish foreplay and his displays are tastefully artistic rather than kinky and pornographic and he likes to use breath and breathing to awaken hidden erogenous zones on his lady. Slow and steady wins the race with our Libra male. He wants to experience lovemaking and won't be akin to the Aries male in that - he won't necessarily take the lead there. He's got an engineered, tantric type of lovestyle. A Libra mans turnons may be dominant females, tall women, classic beauty and models, worship, long, straight hair, alabaster skin, kissing, cleavage, vanilla, voyeurism, private clubs, erotica and sensual touching.
Sextrology states, "Our little god of prophecy seems to nearly divine desire in a woman, touching her as would a painter knowing where to next stroke, playing a woman improvisationally, like a piano. Artful and attentive, he considers the pleasure of his partner in tandem with his own and can be so sympathetic to her that he'll see her to the finish line before he even thinks about going there." Libra males also really enjoys being a woman's tool - used as a means to achieve her "end" in the boudoir. A Libra man is sensitive at heart and tends to live life as if it's performance art.
Libra males believe everyone should try everything at least twice - just ask Motley Crue's very own Tommy Lee.
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An activist at heart and unconventional in relationships, a Libra woman is considered "the charm" by the Sextrology astrology horoscope. To a Libra woman, the world is in need of a redesign. She lives for ideals and her beauty is ethereal in nature.
Libra women are demure and charming but this lends to a tendency for men to objectify her for their own validation and impressing others. Ever heard the term "arm candy?" That term was probably coined from the countless numbers of Libra females on the arms of many successful, handsome men . . . . who don't give a rat's ass about the poor beauty.
Libra female is ruled by the planet Venus, as is her Taurian sister. But in the placement of the 7th principle, hers is focused on social and mental issues as opposed to the material, earth bound focus of Taurus. In the Libra female world, justice rules. It can - and must be - handed down.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "Do you happen to have a Libran female friend? When she enters the room, do you ever find yourself thinking, "Uh oh, here comes the judge." If there's a hand of justice needing to be dealt in the room, you can bet Libra female is going to put on that black robe, grab a gavel and point a finger." You see, a Libra woman is here to make this world a little bit better place to be. Libra's make things better - rearrange it, organize it, set it right. A Libra woman creates equality and balance wherever she goes.
Libra Female Betters the World While Libra Males Better Themselves
Either way you slice it, a Libra woman is constantly "bettering" things. Here's what the Sextrology astrology horoscope has to say about the Libra females outlook on her existence and her angle on life, "She appreciates every situation she's faced with, then takes the proper course of action or making swift and arguably appropriate judgments or actions in response. This is the way she leads her life. For better or worse, she always drops the other shoe as a way to bring her existence into balance. Amelioration is her modus operandi. Amelie, of the French film Amelie, is a consummate Libran character.
Out of love, amour, she makes it her life's mission to right every perceivable wrong that plagues those suffering in her midst, just as she is determined to punish anyone causing such pains. This is the Libra female in a nutshell - a walking dispenser of karmic retaliation, whether in the form of reward (grace) or vengeance (fury)."
At times, Libra female can come off as a troublesome individual - a troublemaker. But mind you, her intentions are pure and her actions are not out of malice. Libra women "right wrongs" in such a way that they feel they're creating equality and balance. She's making the world a better place. She's making those that live in it a better race. A Libra woman represents feminine authority and her motto's are "I balance" and "we are." She obtains the ability to rise above the petty details of the situation at hand and look at the bigger picture. Once she sees the bigger bigger, the impact, she then makes her rulings accordingly from there - keeping the greater good for all top of mind.
Her planetary symbol is the astrological glyph of Venus. It's the circle and cross symbol at the top of this page. It is also referred to as "The Mirror of Aphrodite," hence the name of this blog (I'm a Taurian female, also ruled by the planet Venus). The image represents the circle of spirit above the cross of matter. Viewed also as a wand, it represents an ability to cast one's designs onto the world, urging others to examine their own principles.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, a Libra woman's quadrant, the 3rd Quadrant, is one of mental perception and metaphysical matters as they relate to the topic of existence - of "being." For Libra women, the real importance lies on the abstract level of conscious thought and on thought projection towards others. Her signs symbol represents the balance of day and night, summer and winter, ying and yang, if you will. The scales represent an equality of the sexes. Libra female does not submit to the notion that females are the weaker of the species. To a Libra woman, there is little to no difference between the two.
Libra Female Proves to be Quite a Useful Tool to the Force of Karma
The goddess of justice and karmic law was Astraea, the Lady of the Scales. It's as if karma uses Libra women as a vehicle to move through - as a vehicle to bring karma into reality. If there's a dose of karma that needs to be dished, the Libra female will sniff it out immediately. Once she locates it, she feels as if it's her birthright to begin the process of justification. Karmic forces then begin to move freely through her as she waves her wand and balances the scales of justice. And again, it's important to remember that while this karmic process of justice is taking place, Libra female holds no malice. It's strictly business only, nothing personal.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, her element is that of air, one of mental and social experience. Libra female represents symbols of goodness and grace. Perhaps even to a fault, because especially to men, she is viewed as a pendant counterpart - an ornamental trinket. Many a man will wear a Libra female on their arm like an accessory. A Libra woman represents light and the visible world, and many men alternately view her in a strictly "visual" form. For this reason, it is very important for a Libra female to not "loose her head" when it comes to men. It would do Libra female much good to ask many questions and lead many discussions with her lover of choice to determine just exactly how he is viewing her - so as to not have her heart broken. I'd advise Libra females to somewhat test their lovers on subtle levels to gain insights. Libra female is a champion of causes and she'd better make one of those causes "looking out for herself" when it comes to her dealings with the opposite sex.
Libra females number is 7, one of divine universal order. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "Light is made of seven hues; distonic scales in music are made of seven notes; as a model tor the week, the world was created in 7 days. There are seven virtues; seven deadly sins; seven pillars of wisdom; seven sacraments; seven heavens. The Seven Sisters, also known as the Pleiades in Greek mythology, were the daughters of Aphrodite-Venus, goddesses of justice and fate."
A Libra woman's age range is that of 42-49, an age group associated with the prime of life for women with a focus on mothering and educating. This is a pinnacle time in life for women, the peak of sexual prowess and power. A time when a woman is most likely to have a spellbinding sway over others, especially through ideology. The psychology of a Libra female often suffers from a superiority complex. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "She can be self-righteous, contrary and argumentative. Fear of intimacy keeps her from committing and sees her bolting from relationships, seemingly without remorse. She is apt to be selfish and erratic, and she tends toward promiscuity as a way to prove herself to be passionate. Due to a highly competitive nature, she has difficulty befriending other women."
Libra Female Sexuality Runs Deep But has its Side Effects
As a young woman, Libra female attracts more than her share of social climbing men bent on raising their own stock via their association with her (and her good looks). Ambitious types looking at her as Lady Luck. Eventually, however, just as her zodiac sister, Taurus, Libra female becomes much more cautious later in life. In the Libra female astrological landscape, she is quite sexually aggressive by nature and if she finds herself, against her better judgment, locked into a committed relationship, she will remain and play the doting part - but she'll make sure there is a certain allowance of freedom to pursue her own passions outside of the relationship. And by passions, I mean extremely lusty aggressive sexual behavior. Hungering for it quite possibly more than men which can send her reeling into a sexual spree of near-prostitutional proportions.
Any and all starvation of intellect in her personal relationships can bring about this behavior from a Libra woman. Mental starvation anesthetizes her libido and once that's happened, she'll hunger for it to such extreme proportions, Libra female could find herself on an episode of WEtv's "Secret Lives of Women." (I'm quite sure many of those sexual vixens are Libra females feeling stiffled, suffocated and unappreciated.)
If You're Dating a Libra Female and Reading This, a Word of Advice for You
Do not focus on her looks, love what's on the inside and she'll respect you for it. If you focus on the outside, she'll combat you on it. Keep those fires burning. Do not become negligent of her or take her for granted. If you do, she'll surely step out on you. Provoke her mind and create intelligent, interesting discussions with her about matters she feels passionately about. (That should get that libido of her flowing for you, too.) If you turn your back on this one and become lackadaisical or apathetic about her and the relationship - she's going to step out on you, my brother.
If you allow a Libra woman the right amount of freedom, express a pure and genuine interest in her, give her the attention she needs, appeal to her ideals and her intellect - she'll be sure to respect you and in return, honor you. Libra female doesn't like unfairness and if you begin to behave unfair (and she'll view neglect and apathy as unfair) . . . she's going to dish out some karmic justice in ways that may bring you much pain if you care for her. And guys, if you're dating a Libra woman simply based on a physical attraction, she'll soon sniff you out and dish out some of that karmic justice to you. Trust me, she'll get the last laugh and you may find your emotions trifled with in return. Libra women require a careful, caring hand.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Libra females keywords are goodness, grace, charm, glamour, justice, elegance, honesty, art, consciousness, civility, composure, contradiction, empowerment, independence, enlightenment, strength, resentment, spite, beauty and integrity. Famous Libra women include some righteous sweethearts and social sorceresses. Catherine Zeta-Jones, Mira Sorvino, Rita Hayworth, Cheryl Tiegs, Alicia Silverstone, Kate Winslet, Gweneth Paltrow, Heather Locklear, Susan Sarandon, Gwen Stefani, Sharon Osbourne, Fran Drescher, Barbara Walters, Eleanor Roosevelt, Penny Marshall, Annie Liebovitz, Anne Rice, Moon Zappa and Bridget Bardot. A Libra woman's turn-ons are younger men, artists and sensitive types, smooth bodies, veiny forearms, morning sex, navel piercings, long, straight hair, quickies, foursomes, voyeurism, sugar daddies and jet setters.
Libra Female is Confident in her Sexual Performance
A Libra woman is acutely aware of her talents and being on the giving end is a head-trip for her. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "She thrills at having her man literally - by the balls. It is particularly pleasing for her to render a pretty boy helpless. Toying with him, bringing him to the edge and back, only to let off leaving him begging for a finish. Libra female is intuitive in her nature, imaginatively mixing speeds, gestures and positions, with her eyes open and the lights on." Libra female loves to linger in the glowing over-math of sexual experience and life itself. Hers is a world of consciousness and female empowerment and she is not to be trifled with. When she does commit to a man, she demands total fidelity. Hell hath no fury like that of a Lady Libra scorned.
Libra Female is a Charm and Possesses an Ethereal Beauty
The mission of a Libra female is to make the world and those that live in it a better place. One filled with equality for all, high principles and intellect. A Libra woman is a champion of causes, a sorcerer of ideals - and a sprinkler of karmic dust.
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Perhaps there exists no man more severe and strict in his belief systems and behaviors than Scorpio male. The term "small minded" was probably coined from the Scorpio man. His focus is quite narrow and he has no problem whatsoever putting his own needs above any and all responsibilities he may have. He's unnerving and intimidating to many, to say the least.
Scorpio female will grab her pick axe and dig into someones head. The Scorpio male will grab his pick axe and dig into someones business. He's a probing character. Scorpio men are drawn to mysteries and investigation. He likes to scratch well beneath the surface of every situation. The thought running through Scorpio males head while doing so is most likely, "Hmm, there's definitely more to this story."
Scorpio male will view any and all situations contemplating every possible pitfall or negative outcome. No stone goes unturned. Scorpio men have a "default" setting. In the same manner that you can restore your settings on a computer, if you pushed a Scorpio males reset button, he would return to a state of pessimism, nihilism. This harshly angled view helps Scorpio men to avoid being duped by any phony appearances and allows him time to get to the heart of the matter.
Scorpio male takes this same approach to love and relationships. He's reluctant to invest anything, so he waits, he studies, he listens, he probes. He waits to see a woman's "light" if you will. He falls for the sunshine and kisses type of woman. A woman with a clear and infinite inner beauty. A woman with that sunshiny impression of life - to balance his "glass half empty" perception. When he finds her, that's when the real work begins.
Scorpio Male Will Lavish His Lover With Attention
The sign of Scorpio is all about exploration. Scorpio male is all about the exploration of self. This man doesn't run from his fears, he faces them. Indeed, he calls them on. Scorpio male likes to root things out and he cannot - and will not - trust anyone whom he feels is hiding something. Instead, he'll embark on his signature exploration and he'll get to the heart of the matter, that you can guarantee. As a result, initially, he tends not to trust anyone, women included.
Scorpio male can "sting" and he's very aware of this tactic as he's quite perfected it. But you see, there's a certain intelligence to this method. Scorpio men realize that their sting can only hurt those who have something to hide. Cheaters, liars, manipulators and "head cases" ~ BEWARE! You see, most times, Scorpio male has sustained some sort of damage emotionally, whether on the home front in childhood or more interestingly, from premature sexual experiences.
Scorpio men don't seek to make their mark. Instead, they seek to erase the marks that have been impressed upon them. From the Scorpio male perspective, life starts out on a damaged note and he is constantly striving to end it on a positive one. As a female, if you can withstand Scorpio males "brain mining" and investigative tactics early on and you prove to be trustworthy to him - you may have found a deep poet of sorts that will view life as - and YOU - as "living art."
Don't understand yet? No problem, here's an example of the consummate Scorpio male. In the movie, "American Beauty" there's a young male character that is a neighbor boy, named Ricky Fitts. Ricky likes to view the nature of life from that signature Scorpio male "narrow lens" - video camera lens, that is. His favorite example of his art was a flick he created which was simply a plastic bag blowing silently in the wind. Lifting up and down, shifting left to right, rising to the sky only to be dropped back down to the dirty street again. Ricky watched that art piece in awe, almost moved to tears. It represented the nature of life to him captured on film.
That, my friends, is the mind of a Scorpio man ~ a very deep, dark poet. To some, he's intimidating and somewhat frightening if he's misunderstood by them. Scorpio male is the type that you may take two steps to the right of if passing him on the streets, yet you don't know why, you just feel it. You feel that steamy, hot air that he's breathing into the shadows. You feel him watching you, studying you, thinking about you.
When you get that tingly feeling on your skin like someone is watching you, chances are when you turn around ~ you'll find a Scorpio man standing there in a deep trance focused on you. If I had to pick on single keyword for the Scorpio male, it would be "intense."
That Which is Going On In the Mind of Scorpio Male is All That Matters to Him
Again, intensity. Charles Manson was a Scorpio male. I can't emphasize it enough, this guy's intense and he's got a signature self-indulgent side to him, although not in the form one might think. You see, Scorpio males own subjective nature becomes his prime objective in life. Scorpio man is a fixed water sign and his assertive Mars energy is rooted in the realms of water ~ emotion. Subconscious, intuition and mystery are the worlds in which Scorpio men live. Fiery Mars energy locked into the subconscious levels of life create a masked, aggressive personality. One could even venture to say an explosive personality. Scorpios planetary ruler is Pluto, the God of the Underworld.
Scorpio males principle is Chthonian. It is that of unseen nature and inner workings on a cosmic level. He's a scientist and a detective at heart. Scorpio man's motto is, "I Desire," pointing to his deep motivations. His signs planetary ruler is Pluto, The god of the Underworld, an association with subterranean forces. Scorpio males push others to admit things that they, themselves, may never have realized about themselves before.
Scorpio males quadrant is the Third Quadrant, one of metal perception and the metaphysical, spiritual planes of existence. To a Scorpio man, the subconscious mind is of great interest and he feels that truths lie in the hidden realms of the unfathomable psyche. To reach reality, Scorpio males must dig.
The Devil's Tail Portrays the Sign's Concern With Uncovering What Lies Beneath
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "The M of the sign, as with Virgo, signifies Mother Earth. Scorpio has a number of associative symbols. The serpent depicts the signs exploration of the underground, the dragon a concerns for riches, the phoenix an ability to rise from life's ashes and the scorpion signals a tendency to paralyze others via control.
Males in feminine polarity signs are not aligned with the gender polarity of the sign and thus ENACT instead of EMBODY the quality. Scorpio man isn't crystallized to perfection like Scorpio woman. Instead Scorpio man is a miner for such qualities in others. He seeks to unearth anything beautiful or valuable as might be concealed from the eyes of the world."
A "look what I found" mentality.
His number is 8, the number of mystery. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "The black eight ball in billiards is a signal of death, ending the game. The lucky eight ball toy is a reveler of secret answers. The number 8 is the symbol of infinity. Not death, but transformation and regeneration. It depicts a spiral forever turning on itself."
Scorpio males mental age range is likened to 49 - 56, the age of introspection. A time when external attributes and manly prowess are in decline. Inner resources are uncovered as a source of happiness. His psychology is one that suffers from suspicions. Scorpio men are intrusive and confrontational and can be bullying types in youth. Teasing can become outright abuse. He may even suffer from obsessive-compulsive behavior and can be particularly focused on money with a stingy streak. If Scorpio male feels crossed by others, he will simply freeze them out.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope claims, "The phrase "children can be so cruel" was probably coined based on a young Scorpio male maintaining his signature devilish manner."
Scorpio Male's Very Presence is Buzzing With Sexuality
Scorpio men are erotically charged. He's, most likely, been objectified and over-sexualized at a young age. The loner routine really works for the Scorpio male and it enables him to draw to himself women who play into his "hurt" and "deep" routine. He makes quick, pointed connections, mindful to shake the hand. He avoids the masses and only makes social appearances when he is pressed to do so.
Scorpio male is a swarthy, dark and brooding type. You could liken many Scorpio men to vampires as they often have a pale, bloodless looking complexion and often, later in life, develop icy white hair. Scorpio men are a group of glowing waxen man in the light of day. Scorpio male keywords are redemption, darkness, transformation, depth intensity, occultism, secrecy, dogma, nihilism, exile, resentment, infatuation, enigma and prophecy. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "Scorpio rules the reproductive system and genitals, bladder, urethra and anus. There is a tendency to genital affliction as well as sinus and adenoid trouble. Pluto rules regenerative cell growth and the gonads."
Many Scorpio Males Act Out in Youth
Feeling damned to shame and isolation in youth, most Scorpio men act out early in life in destructive ways. Scorpio men go through some compulsion or addiction early on whether it be drugs, sex, food, rage or marathon games of Dungeons & Dragons. Being a "bad seed" he finds has it's perks with the ladies. It piques the curiosity of women who expect nothing more from him than sex, providing him with no-strings release while he continues to search for his own innocent and unsuspecting woman. Salt of the earth types.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, "This earns him the reputation of a predator of sorts. Indulging in this sort of anonymous sexual interaction wrongly wins him the reputation of a predator. But, in fact, nothing could be further from the truth. It's simply this, until Scorpio male meets "the one," he feels he cannot afford to be distracted by imperfect relationships for fear of missing the real deal when it reveals itself. A Mars ruled chap is compelled to engage in purely sexual experiences before going back to lying in wait for love to rear its head.
So totally hands off is he with these temporary sexual partners that he is prone to do little more than unzip and be serviced, remaining utterly composed if not completely dressed. This "do-for-me" position is very Scorpion indeed, part and parcel of the infamous distance he insists on having from others."
Famous Scorpio men include Leonardo DiCaprio, Ethan Hawke, Joaquin Phoenix, Sean "Diddy" Combs, Matthew McConaughey, Dylan McDermott, Ryan Gosling, Owen Wilson, Adam Horowitz, Charles Bronson, Neil Young, Bill Gates, Gavin Rossdale, Ike Turner, Larry King, Martin Scorsese, Pablo Picasso and Robert F. Kennedy. A very hot, steamy group of explorers.
Scorpio male turn-ons are blonds, salt-of-the-earth types, big breasts, innocence, big "booties" and "junk in the trunk," dominant S & M, teasing, probing, rear entry, leashes and collars, latex and leather, dungeons, vaults, cages and sex swings, gynecological equipment, pimp role play and kink.
With A Woman He Loves, He Dives In Head First ~ Literally
Scorpio male reveals in every inch of his "chosen queens" body, squeamish about nothing and leaving no approach to pleasure unturned. He feels beastly and takes his lover on an unconventional journey through sexuality and will love her to the depths one may never truly know.
Ladies, if you love your Scorpio man, put on that leash and collar he likes so much, spread out the whips and chains ~ and get on all fours and bark like a dog.
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There is quite possibly no other woman in the world maintains a higher opinion of herself than the Scorpio female. (You go girl!)
This sassy gal is the zodiac's femme fatal and amasses supporters who pave her way for her through life, if not to the point of rolling out the red carpet for her. A Scorpio woman drips with feminine allure but with an equal amount of foreboding. She spins a web and bids her mates to come hither - at their own peril.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female unmoved by the advances of men in attempts to bait him into working ever so diligently to win her over. Our femme fatal invented "hard to get." In astrology, she's mystery wrapped in darkness, and carries a poker face. A Scorpio woman looks to men and asks herself "what can he do for me" sizing up each and every potential candidate - she wants the full package, coaxing out a man's abilities and best qualities while killing off his darker ones.
Scorpio is ruled by Mars and Pluto - a combination that could be akin to fire and ice. Burning aggression encased in a frosty outer layer. Scorpio women are the zodiac's only fixed female water sign, which controls emotion. Scorpio female controls others emotions - she never wishes for her own to be controlled.
The Scorpio Female Maintains the Ability to Control What the Rest of us Experience as Spontaneous Sensations
A Scorpio woman may seem like a cool character, even somewhat frosty in nature. She's not a cold fish, she's simply in control of her emotions. An asset that many women do not possess. Pluto's remote energy keeps impulsive expression in check. Scorpio female rarely acts rash. Carrying on and allowing emotions to rule her is not a trait of the female scorpion.
In nature, a scorpion - when cornered - would rather sting itself to death than face defeat or submission. This is much like the astrological landscape of a Scorpio woman. If she finds herself cornered, her actions may become somewhat self-defeating in that if she feels she's lost or is facing submission, she'll begin to up the ante by performing behaviors that may do her - or the situation - in. Scorpio has a sixth sense. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female psychically draws experiences to her like a crystal ball tuned in to what life has to offer. She picks and chooses carefully and operates as a magnet. A Scorpio woman lies in wait for her prey to reveal itself. Scorpios astrological symbol has also been likened to a spider. She spins her web, weaving it perfectly and operating entirely behind the scenes. Then she waits, and waits for her next victim, trapping the bounty that she feels she's ultimately entitled to. A Scorpio woman strives for stillness, waiting, opportunities. A spider doesn't chase or stalk prey - it lies in wait.
All of This Talk About a Hard Shell Should Signify Something to You
A Scorpio woman is much like a scorpion, hard on the outside, very soft on the inside. Once you penetrate the hard shell of the Scorpio female, you'll find a real softie inside and a very generous, loyal person that won't be afraid to stand up for you. But you have to penetrate that hard shell first. Scorpio female knows this and protects herself. She feels it when the shell is being pryed open and may give you a run for your money before letting you in. But that's just her way of testing you - making sure that you're worthy of what you're about to receive.
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, because of her soft inner nature and her deep sensitivity, Scorpio female periodically embarks on long bouts of deep psychological descents, but generally not more than two or three times during her life. But these are not simply "blue" periods - these are monumental dark periods. Scorpio female sensitivity runs deep. Astrology's femme fatal wears an expectant expression, watching and waiting for something to occur or someone to arrive. She anticipates every word, every action. She will hurry conversations along, dismissing anything that visibly annoys her, often times only half listening. The rest of the time, she's waiting to interject her opinions. A trait similar to the Aries male.
Carrying an often expressionless look, a Scorpio woman is preoccupied. If something catches her attention, it won't be long before she'll approach. Scorpio female bears down on the individual with a Sphinx smile that signals her curiosity. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, a Scorpio woman can appear particularly cold and calculating to other women who may end up with a sense that she's hiding something. Concealing a secret "sting operation" behind that seemingly Arctic exterior. And guess what ladies? Most times - she is (but don't be scared). Many say that the Mona Lisa's expression is akin to the female Scorpio. A half smile that conceals deeper thoughts and beckons. Some stereotype her as a sex crazed harpy, but the Scorpio female is stalking out a permanent mate. But only the one who fits the bill, testing each and every one of them fittingly. A Scorpio woman is forever fixed in a state of "hatching a plan." She's driven by her desires.
Scorpio Female Doesn't Like to be Single
As a result will enter into one relationship after the other, taking very little break in between. Even if the man isn't "the one" - she may take him on as a hobby anywhere. Eventually, chewing him up and spitting him out - but spitting him out in better shape than she found him. A Scorpio woman's brand of beauty is best described as Gothic. That raven haired Mona Lisa whose hiding something and shrouded in mystery that beckons prey to her doorstep. Scorpio female doesn't need a man to make her feel like a woman. She was born feeling like a woman. A Scorpio woman exudes sexuality and has her pick of the litter. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, her age range is likened to that of 49-56, which correspondes to menopause. Another mysterious facet of female sexuality. This is a time when a woman's power shifts from that of reproductive physical growth to that of developing her own mental and spiritual prowess of the wise woman with a fatalistic nature.
The Scorpio female seeks a union of the minds, although she can appreciate a nice physical appearance just like the rest of us. She needs to receive a vibe, like that of a fly trapped in her web, wrangling to free itself. A Scorpio woman craves an unspoken bond to merge and become one. She doesn't simply pair up - she possesses. She plunges into the depths of her lover's personality to help him fully realize his potential. She comes to relationships with nothing to loose and nothing to prove. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female thinks of herself as the perfect little gem, Ms. Flawless. But Scorpio woman has a fatal flaw, as do we all, and hers is not being able to admit when she's wrong. For our female scorpion will not take nary of bite of "humble pie."
This is so much so that she'll loose friendships, relationships and more due to her absolute distaste for it. (Again, the scorpion backed into the corner - begins to sting itself to death rather than submit.) Scorpio female settles into relationships very early in life and tends to lean towards mama's boys. A Scorpio woman can tolerate macho men, however, she may ultimately choose a man who is more willing to let a female control the wheel. A submissive sort of man that will lie back and let her take the reigns.
A man with a clearly defined mission of his own that has the ability to achieve them presents a problem to the zodiac's scorpion girl. This makes it difficult for her to stir the ingredients in her pot for her own personal success. If you've hurt her deeply or displeasingly surpassed her, the zodiac's scorpion girl will release a sting that is so terminal, it reduces her mate to a castrated pile of rubble. You'll definitely feel the sting of an unhappy Scorpio female. Launching the cold shoulder full throttle and freezing him out. The burden is always on the man with Scorpio female. He must never fail to provide that which she demands or he'll surely suffer. However, a guy with lofty notions that is oblivious on how to achieve them is a perfect fit for a Scorpio woman.
Scorpio Female Has a Healthy Self-Esteem and Feels Above Reproach
Even if a Scorpio woman submersed in deep depression her surface will emulate that she's fine. Admitting weakness is something that she simply will not consider. The stone face is on. It's everybody else who has the problem, not our scorpion girl. She's always feigning a yawn, and keeping a blase' attitude towards others.
Let's not confuse all the "frost" referred to here with negativity though. On the flip side, Scorpio women are extremely passionate, tender and loving. A great friend to others and very generous. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female can also be quite successful in anything she sets her mind to and her ability to keep her emotions under control is an asset to her there. If a man is emotionless, he's a man but if a woman is, she's a bitch. Its just not fair and Scorpio women get a bad rap for this. She's not the type to be brought to tears in the conference room when the "big boys" there start railing. (She may go home and do it privately, but she'll never let you see it.) A Scorpio woman is one of the big boys and she's an equal to them. Some may say even a threat to them because she can do the job and do it well. Scorpio female is a woman in a man's world and quite fit for it - emotionally and otherwise.
Scorpio Female is in the Drivers Seat of Life
Sadly, women who are dominant, unlike many others who are submissive, tend to get a bad rap for it. Scorpio female is in control - of herself, her emotions, her man and her own destiny. Scorpio women maintain an indomitable spirit that cannot be broken or penetrated.
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The Sagittarius male, "The Maverick;" an extremist that lives larger than life. A Sagittarius man takes great risks and tends to ride the waves outside of conventional lines. The Sagittarius male is pure abandonment. His excessive behavior and attitude are a living testament to his ever present sense of abandon. "Think big - be big" - that's our Sagittarius male.
Appearing somewhat reckless and out of control to others, Sagittarius man feels quite natural in this state. A situation of stagnancy sends him reeling. His displays of affection are over the top in love and relationships. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, he is physically drawn to glamorous beauties, he never shrinks from making a big play towards a type of woman that many other men may feel intimidated to approach. The Sagittarius male is untamed energy and raw renegade charm. Sagittarius men are searching for a playmate in life - one who shares his crave for adventure.
In astrology, the Sagittarius man is ruled by Jupiter, a planet which represents expansion - an inherent need for growth, excess - ecstasy. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, his quadrant is the Third Quadrant of The Mind, one which rules the principle of mental perception - he's fixated on the concept of our very existence. Sagittarius male places importance of the super-conscious mind and the imagination. He is a mutable (changeable) fire (force, energy) sign, and his number is 9, the magic number related to the imagination and similar to the great "seers" of the world. The Sagittarius man's age range is approximate to that of 56-63, which represents his desire to network with the "big boys" in life. Men who have achieved accomplishment, have very little to prove, and feel a sense of relaxed entitlement.
The Sagittarius male "turn ons" when sizing up a potential mate are tall females, blonds, married women, hedonism, worship, public sex, sex games, and he's even open to swapping, threesomes, and the like. Our Sagittarius male likes to take that which is considered taboo, and spin it into an acceptable situation - one that combines earthy needs with the raw, savage side of life.
Sagittarius Male Blazes his way Through Life, Untamed by Rules and Limitations
As fellow Sagittarius male Jim Morrison sang - "break on through to the other side" - that's it in a nutshell.
In a Sagittarus mans astrological landscape, there are no restrictions, no limitations, no confines of the mind, for our male archer. Our Sagittarius male, being a mutable (changing, flexible) fire (force, energy) sign - can be likened to lightening. Flexing and bolting through life with immense force, changing direction at whim. A shape shifter that may become continually lost in his many glamorous identities of himself that he holds in his minds eye. A Sagittarius man can re-imagine himself in an instant, making enormous life changes and embarking on lofty adventures at a whim.
One never knows from where or when our Sagittarius man may reappear. The Ninth house he represents also represents the collective unconscious and big business or global commerce. Thus his Sextrology astrology horoscope association with the age range of 56-63 - the good ole' boy years when a man is at the peak of his power.
The Sagittarius Male Lives Life Armed With His Bow and Arrow ~ He's Out There
Sagittarius men have a knack for lucking into global networks and tapping into the collective unconscious when pursuing their creative sides. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, the Sagittarius male archers motto is, "I Understand - We Think." He's a thinker - to such extents that you would never guess, that lie deeply dormant, but that he'll pull up from the depths in an instant.
"Can't" simply does not exist in the Sagittarius males world, and he is likened to the most adventurous soul on the zodiac wheel. A risk taker. One way or another, our Sagittarius male requires release, he tunes in by "turning on" if you know what I mean. Other Sagittarius males are Jim Morrison, Jimi Hendrix, Keith Richards, Richard Pryor, Billy Idol and Greg Allman. Do you understand now?
Our Sagittarius male is always standing or lurching back and forth - and combining these bodily movements with "lounging." This is an expression of his expansive energy. In, out, up, down - OK, I'll kick back a minute - then he's up, down, in and out again. He's a whirl of movement combined with leisure. He considers others present in the room there to provide his amusement, all the while, interjecting himself boldly, at times while remaining rather leisurely about it.
He is Forever Sizing Up a Woman's Sexuality ~ Any Woman Present
A Sagittarius man will quickly dismiss women that do not fit his ideal standards. Not necessarily standards of beauty, although they do matter much to him, but more so the standards he holds with regards to sexuality. Action, adventure and the like. He's thinking, "Hmmm. . . .Can she go the extra mile with me?" A Sagittarius man believes himself entitled to be worthy of the most glamorous, adventurous and attractive. Women may sense him sizing them up subconsciously and therefore, they may be rendered submissive school girls in his presence.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, our Sagittarius male is a woman's rough and tumble, take charge, sexual fantasy - come to life. Overly masculine and somewhat chauvinistic regarding sexual relationships, he retains an almost predatory nature when hunting for his desire, considering himself somewhat a stud. Sagittarius male has incredible luck with the ladies and luckily finds ample opportunities to act upon his whims, this is especially so early in life when he's toying with his sexual power. Stamina, staying power.
Any woman intending to be with the Sagittarius man for life must accept that she will ultimately be absorbed into his imaginative lifestyle. She must be willing to go the distance - anywhere and everywhere, both literally speaking and metaphorically speaking. She must remain ever confident and never feel threatened. In the end, the Sagittarius man wishes to turn his mate into an equal of himself. She must possess his sense of adventure, his fire and his willingness to "go there." In astrology, some consider the Sagittarius male a "liberator." He will aid his partner is releasing her inhibitions and she must be willing to do so if she wishes to remain.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, the Sagittarius male wishes to expand a woman's mind, thus, his association with his ruling planet Jupiter - the planet of expansion. To a Sagittarius male - one and one doesn't make two - it makes ONE. Sagittarius and his true love, together, will create something greater than the sum of their two individual parts - a melding must occur.
The Sagittarius male embodies a sense of heightened reality, wherein experience itself becomes something to be nurtured and manifested. A down side to this is that the Sagittarius man lacks the ability to perceive life through another's eyes. He sees everything from his wide-angle view. And given his out sized ego, he feels that any woman's association with him will benefit HER. He doesn't stop to analyze or heal any psychological or emotional rifts. He harnesses this energy to use it to target loftier aspirations - it becomes his driving force. Emotional wounds propel him into the future - only to do it better the next time around.
The Unleashing of Raw Energy is the Sagittarius Males Ever Present Goal
Sex, especially, is an area where the Sagittarius male really lets himself go. By letting go, the male archer feels it's easier to ride the waves of emotion in life - free of inhibition and insecurity.
However sex for the Sagittarius male isn't necessarily about him - or her - as much as it is about the experience of it all - becoming one. Sagittarius male leaves his body during the act and feels the experience as a whole. Sextrology astrology considers the Sagittarius man the sign of sexual ecstasy.
Many a Sagittarius male may have mirrors in his bedroom. He will remove himself from the experience, to experience the couple as one - as a union of ecstasy, but likes to return to reality to "take a peek."
A Man Who Views Life as an Ever Present Adventure
Sagittarius male is just dying to experience life to its fullest in every aspect of the word ~ anything goes in life and most times, Sagittarius male goes right with it.
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