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| Lews |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I think it's an absolutely despicable thing to do, especially if you don't know what other people's values are concerning monogamy/fidelty/whatever. Err on the side of caution and keep it in your pants, imo. What the . |
This.
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
Maybe to you 'making the most of it' is defined as having sex with several women and not tying yourself down.
Making the most of it to other people could mean being happy & having great sex with your partner whom you love and feel 110% comfortable with and know exactly what you both like. |
And this. I don't get why so little people these days seem to think that being happy and having great sex with your partner who you love and feel comfortable with and know exactly what to do with is a bad thing. |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I think it's an absolutely despicable thing to do, especially if you don't know what other people's values are concerning monogamy/fidelty/whatever. Err on the side of caution and keep it in your pants, imo. What the . |
that. if she isn’t with a friend, or hasn’t been previously, its game on. Why must I treat her relationship with more respect than she’s willing to? |
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| Esiotrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lews
I don't get why so little people these days seem to think that being happy and having great sex with your partner who you love and feel comfortable with and know exactly what to do with is a bad thing. |
People who say that simply haven't found that person yet. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
I don't think there is such a thing as one special person out there. Just people you meet with whom you would have various levels of compatibility in a relationship.
I suspect many, maybe even most, people are not cut out for monogamy, namely, the ones who cheat or have to struggle with themselves constantly in order not to do so.
And of course, "I would never cheat! How could anyone do that?" are probably famous last words of thousands of people who do go on to cheat. |
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| JD8180 |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
I don't think there is such a thing as one special person out there. Just people you meet with whom you would have various levels of compatibility in a relationship.
I suspect many, maybe even most, people are not cut out for monogamy, namely, the ones who cheat or have to struggle with themselves constantly in order not to do so.
And of course, "I would never cheat! How could anyone do that?" are probably famous last words of thousands of people who do go on to cheat. |
yeah, but it's fairly common for people to just rush into things and settle with another person just because they think " I'm 30 and all my friends are married, I need to hurry up"
so I'm sure many of those people you refer to not being cut out for monogamy are simply people who haven't found the right person yet. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
I don't think there is such a thing as one special person out there. Just people you meet with whom you would have various levels of compatibility in a relationship.
I suspect many, maybe even most, people are not cut out for monogamy, namely, the ones who cheat or have to struggle with themselves constantly in order not to do so.
And of course, "I would never cheat! How could anyone do that?" are probably famous last words of thousands of people who do go on to cheat. |
I agree with this. I remember Slylee condemned cheaters then turned around and cheated when her relationship headed south. Most people don't like to admit they use situational ethics. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
Read kind of an interesting story recently. Apparently some Japanese women who want a fat divorce settlement will hire women from an agency to tempt their husbands into cheating. The success rate of these agencies is quite high:
| quote: | Hiromi Fukuda, 26, meets her married prey in the Tokyo district of Shinjuku in the late afternoon. Her uniform is "anything short and shiny," to show off her long legs, and a large heart-shaped hairpin that holds back her glossy bangs — and doubles as a tiny camera she operates with a remote in her pocket, snapping photos of her target as he takes her to a seedy hotel. Two more agents hiding nearby click away with telephoto lenses.
Fukuda is a wakaresaseya, a professional "breakup artist." Working for a Tokyo-based detective agency called Secret Shadow, she is hired by wives who want to entrap their husbands and ensure a better divorce settlement. Women initiate 75 percent of Japanese divorces — 27 percent of marriages end in one, a rate that has doubled in the past 15 years — but unless they have hard proof of infidelity or some other wrongdoing, they risk being awarded pitiful payouts by the courts.
...Fukuda claims she never allows herself to get emotionally involved with her clients, but admits she has sex with them when necessary. "It's just part of the job," she says. Still, despite the great pay, she wishes her work were a bit more challenging. "You don't need brains to be a professional seducer," she laments. "All you need is for the man's brains to be in his pants, and nine times out of 10 they are." |
http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationsh...82698>1=32023 |
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| JD8180 |
| but that's not fair... they're professionals! :p |
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| couch-potato |
| GRORIOUS NIPPON |
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| tomtom2010 |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Read kind of an interesting story recently. Apparently some Japanese women who want a fat divorce settlement will hire women from an agency to tempt their husbands into cheating. The success rate of these agencies is quite high:
http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationsh...82698>1=32023 |
so clever the japanese women are |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by tomtom2010
so clever the japanese women are |
Hi spambot. |
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| nefardec |
just like the best employees, the best mates are often already involved and respected.
just nature.
then again there are codependent people :p
btw, i was 'poached' two years ago by my gf. :o |
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