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what's a tactfull way of telling your SO to lose some weight? (pg. 2)
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| aquila |
| Tell them you've decided to try and lose some of your own weight and ask them to do the same thing for support. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by djhaziel
Her : what should I eat tonight?
Me: Air
Her: :( |
:stongue: :stongue: :stongue: :stongue: |
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| Banora |
Show them this
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| Ted Promo |
| Sheen 'em against the wall and tell them at knife point. |
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| Danny Ocean |
| grind diet pills and drop it in her drinks |
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| enydo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ted Promo
Sheen 'em against the wall and tell them at knife point. |
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| fbgdavidson |
"So you're what a size 2?"
"Errr, not quite"
"Ooooooooo" |
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| Desiderata |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like .
However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.
Chicks are ed like that, lol.
Also, I don't know how anyone could get to the point where they couldn't recognize for themselves that they've put on an unacceptable amount of weight. When your clothes don't fit right anymore it's time to fix it. I really don't understand how people can just let themselves go. |
This again.
Going through this problem as I type. |
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| dj_alfi |
First of all you have to start out very soft. You can't just go up to her and talk to her about it, because that might hurt her feelings.
Try hinting that you think she should lose weight by taking up subjects like cellulites and elephants in your day to day conversation. Another thing that often works is to flip her the bird every time she looks away.
If neither of these tips help, you can try putting up post-it notes adressed to yourself around on key places in the house.
"Itchy: Put down the fork" and "Itchy: Hold in that fat discusting gut when you look at me" are good examples of what they could say.
Has all the fore-mentioned failed, then she clearly has aspergers and you can just tell her that she's fat, cus aspies dont have feelings. |
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| Ania_xox |
Depends what sort of undercurrent flows through your relationship.
You could just keep commenting on how much bigger her boobs have become.
I always gain like 10 pounds in December/January, and my bf just told me like "oooohhh someone's getting a little belly *lolz*" ... but then we had amazing sex the next 3 days.
I know he has this hidden agenda: he wanted to let me know that he expects me to tighten up again, but that it doesn't affect his overall attraction to me. Obviously he enjoys it when I'm more fit, but I know he just pushes me in the right direction because he knows that if I get totally off track, I'll start to feel like a lazy sow and it will affect a lot of things.
I, on the other hand, straight up tell him to put that beer down because he's becoming a fat . lol |
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| shaw |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
Well yeah that's what I was getting at. There's no tactful way to straight up say, "you need to drop weight". But if they've only been together for a few months maybe he should just cut his losses |
Hah.
Subtle 'hints' like you guys are suggesting sound like a horrible idea. She'll just think it's so bad that you don't even feel comfortable actually talking about it. If she really is fat, she won't pick up on it anyway. |
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| 112268 |
| cheat on her with a skinny tramp. |
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