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is this girl crazy? (pg. 4)
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| LoveHate |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Lira's (serious) analysis. I'd say both sentences are probably true:- You're a low-maintenance guy and expect your girlfriend to be the same;
- She's a(n emotionally) high-maintenance girl and she expects her boyfriend to be the same. Even if she doesn't, the fact that you're drifting away means she wants this sort of behaviour from you more than ever before.
Your failure to live up by her standards means (for her) that you don't like her.
The reason why I'm saying that is because I used to do all those things she's asking in the beginning of my current relationship (not because I think everyone should do it, quite on the contrary, but because I felt like doing it and she was receptive): I'd send "Good morning" and "Good night" messages nearly every single day, I'd often make surprises (the reason why "often" is the keyword here is because too many surprises become just ordinary events) and whatnot.
If you posted this here, I'm inclined to believe you still have feelings for her and might want to "fix" this problem. So here comes the crucial point: Do you want to give this relationship a try?
If not, just tell her to forget about you and move on. If you do, then I can assure you she's neither crazy nor impossible to be with. It seems you're sending too many mixed signals. |
hmm you're absolutely right, i was fine with doing those stuff in the beginning, but after the constant arguements it became a drag, and i just told her today, that i cant be the type of guy that she is after, and i think she accepted it, and yeah i mean ive tried so long for it to work ,but shes like a spider once she has you in her web, its hard to get out, thats a pretty bad analogy ..but yeah.
she wrote this on facebook
"your heart isnt plastic, and it isnt a toy. But if you want it broken, give it to a boy. "
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| nefardec |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoveHate
"your hear isnt plastic, and it isnt a toy. But if you want it broken, give it to a boy. "
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hah. she should try being a lesbian. girl's ain't all that nice to each other either. |
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| srussell0018 |
| She's going to kill you. I'd move if I were you. |
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| shaw |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoveHate
"your hear isnt plastic, and it isnt a toy. But if you want it broken, give it to a boy." |
She sounds jellioes. |
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| Sushipunk |
At least she used "your" correctly  |
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| r5a |
you clearly still like her a lot. which is the problem.
thanks for posting up the chat logs, that helps to give advice to the kid that was ranting about posting them up, bugger off.
anyway id fire this off if i were you
"listen, i cant talk to you right now i understand you want to be with me but you have to understand i cant be with you anymore. it just isn't going to work out we've tried many times and even when we are together it's miserable. i need space."
idk man, u need to man up and lay the iron fist and just put that chick down son its gonna be hard. but it probably will be better for you in the long run |
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| enydo |
| I haven't read this thread, but I really think you should listen to r5a. He really knows his when it comes to these matters. |
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| r5a |
| quote: | Originally posted by enydo
I haven't read this thread, but I really think you should listen to r5a. He really knows his when it comes to these matters. |
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| jupiterone |
| is she into buttsex? |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
Be a man. |
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| woscar |
| quote: | Originally posted by shaw
YOU'RE
Dump that bitch. |
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I was thinking the same thing as I read it... |
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| igottaknow |
| sounds like your in love |
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