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| TiestoFanMatt |
I find that this subject brings out a mixed reaction from people. So here is my opinion. I'm meeting a girl im mad about in february. She lives in america i live in england. Bought the plane ticket yesterday, cost me £237.60....thats a return trip to new york jfk! My mums ok with it because im 18 and she says i should explore new places, see the world, meet new ppl. My dad has a diff view of it. I have extrememly strong feeligns with this girl, she is 16 so younger than me, but i really do like her, my last phone bill was £60 and when my mum told me i didn't care because every moment i talk to her i cherish. It may sounds stupid because there is allot of things wrong about the internet, and ppl who find relationships on them. Anyway, with my family split, mum and sister ok about it, brother and dad ermm well they say ok im an adult so they wont argue but they want me to be careful, whats ur opinion on both my situation and just in general things similar to this?
p.s. Im staying at her house (her mum insisted)
we've been talking for 1 year
I like her more than any other girl iv gone out with
Cheeers, matt |
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| TranceSeeker |
Chatting is evil thrust me!
I've dated three girls on the internet, two times it was completely ed up, almost not saying something to eachother.
The third one was ace, but this time I knew the girl (from school), I never talked top her or anything, but I knew her (I mean I knew how she looked, walked etc..., she knew me too the same way)
One month later I ed her :D
It was fun but it had nothing to do with love, meeting someone for the first time is really different then on the net, I tell you this by experience. How much you love her on the net, if u meet her in real life it can be very dissapointing for u.
I just wanna warn you mate, be careful with it. |
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| a-aplz |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceSeeker
One month later I ed her :D
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| TiestoFanMatt |
tranceseeker.....iv seen pics and she has web cam:) shud have said that really lol... i know it could be difficult etc... but u cant help how u feel.. n it aint about the sex if i get n e :stongue: lol but shes just like, well i can tell her everything :)
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| Endre |
this actually work some times..i found my big love on a chatt, and its serious, we´ve been together for like a year...and it feels like we have been maried all life long. Theres nothing like her, shes the best and i WILL fight untill i die if some one try to take her or any stupid motha fukkin thing like that, but i would not think about that too much :D shes the best, luv ya baby!
and for yall sukkaz, aint worg meeting ppl over the internet aslong its "serious"
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| Anna_De_Cavoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by TiestoFanMatt
I find that this subject brings out a mixed reaction from people. So here is my opinion. I'm meeting a girl im mad about in february. She lives in america i live in england. Bought the plane ticket yesterday, cost me £237.60....thats a return trip to new york jfk! My mums ok with it because im 18 and she says i should explore new places, see the world, meet new ppl. My dad has a diff view of it. I have extrememly strong feeligns with this girl, she is 16 so younger than me, but i really do like her, my last phone bill was £60 and when my mum told me i didn't care because every moment i talk to her i cherish. It may sounds stupid because there is allot of things wrong about the internet, and ppl who find relationships on them. Anyway, with my family split, mum and sister ok about it, brother and dad ermm well they say ok im an adult so they wont argue but they want me to be careful, whats ur opinion on both my situation and just in general things similar to this?
p.s. Im staying at her house (her mum insisted)
we've been talking for 1 year
I like her more than any other girl iv gone out with
Cheeers, matt |
it sounds wonderfull, i think u should go and get her ;) i met a boy on the internet a long time ago and felt the same way as you. after a long time with chatting and phone calls we met, that was the best thing that ever happend to me. i´m serious. i still love him. |
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| High Spirit |
| sure dude, go for it.. you don't need people's oppinion on that.. just listen to yourself. You live only once, and life is pretty short, so you might live it happy as well :toocool: |
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| AlphaStarred |
| quote: | Originally posted by TiestoFanMatt
I'm meeting a girl im mad about in february. She lives in america i live in england. Bought the plane ticket yesterday, cost me £237.60.... |
whoa :eek:
I was gonna meet this asian girl...she lives 2 hours away from me and tried to drive down here once after she got out of work at 1 am. At about 4 am she was like 18 minutes away from my house and started panicking and lost all sense of directions. At that time i already drank some vodka with cranberry juice to get ready for her arrival but at 5 am she still didnt show up so i passed out. Next day i see a missed call on my phone at 5:26 am :toothless |
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| sothis |
this really depends on a lot of factors.
i think internet things can work.. but the relationship has to eventually change.
let me explain.
lets say you talk to someone in another state, or another country... for a long time, and finally meet them. well, thats great, but at some point, if you want the relationship to work, something has to happen. (as in, one of you has to MOVE). you are only 18, she is only 16.. im guessing she wont be moving to england anytime soon... so the question is, are you willing to move to the states for this girl?
if not, to be blunt, i think you are wasting a time in your life right now that you should be growing, meeting new people, and experiencing things. as much as this girl might kick ass, if neither of you has plans to move anytime soon, holding onto something that long distance for a year, two years, however long, will just be holding both of back from some great experiences you could have in your lives.
im not trying to be negative, but especially at such a young age, i think this is a bad idea... like i said, unless you are planning to move. because theres only so long that you can make expensive phone calls, and buy expensive plane tickets to visit once every 6 months, before you really will need more.. and all the while, great people in real life could be passing you by. |
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| evil_bastard |
A lad from Nottingham is on the internet finding women??? :eyes: :eyes: :eyes:
Nottingham is like the capital for fit women! It has a long established reputation for it, many supermodels are from there.
Anyway, good luck mate. Personally I'd find it easier to ask a girl out in person than over the net! If it all fails, at least you're getting a holiday in New York, with free accommodation :p |
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