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Are you still virgin,and if you are how old are you? (pg. 6)
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
Roughly speaking -- and this is the truth, no matter how much you want to deny this, -- the world is divided into two categories: self-confident experienced people, and shy inexperienced ones. I'm sorry but this is social Darwinism. Some people are stronger in confidence than others, and their life's path is charted much differently than the path of those who suffer from low self-esteem, can't walk up to a girl and strike a conversation, lack experience, etc. |
Disagree with you mate. I mean, I'm not shy with girls, because in my opinion, the worse thing that may happen is to listen to the word "no" or something like it.
The reason I'm a virgin is because I've never been much time with someone I was in love with (I've got a very unique story actually) and I don't feel like doing it with many people - I think that's something too deep and meaningful to be shared with few people and it should show how special she (or he) is to you. Let's suppose I start to have sex right now, at the age of 19. I'll meet lots of other girls before I get married and, when it comes to the fact that I'll be with someone I truly love, what will be different from the others? I don't know, maybe I'm overrating it, but I want it to be as special as possible. I know I sound like an arse, but that's the way I think.
By the way, I never thought there could be so many +18 virgins here, I thought it wasn't so common :toothless |
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| Tranzmit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nadi
I'm 16 and still a virgin. I don't have philisopcial reasons to stay/not stay one. It has more to do with the fact that I get pretty nervous once I reach second base :P |
The best thing to do is aim to make a total fool of yourself since you're going to do that anyways. The next time you'll have learned from some of your mistakes and you relax a bit and actually enjoy it lol :o |
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| Tranzmit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xer
Thanx for your honesty guys.To be honest I thought I was the oldest virgin.19 and 3 months old,and still virgin.
Yep.like Eugene here,I also had a 1-time chance to lose my virginity to a slut,it's the only slut I've ever seen in my life,my friend invited her to his house and did the thing with her,while I was guarding at the window,if in any case his parents gonna show up.
This slut is the only girl so far,that I've seen totally naked standing 1 cm away from me,and damn I had to restrain myself from ing her.It was hard but my common sense won,as I didn't want to make it with a slut for the first time,although she was so damn hot.
It's just that I'm a very shy guy,some girls say that I look nice,but I'm afraid to start up a relationship with girl,because I'm so shy.
I don't know till what age I'm gonna stay that way,but I do know,that the first one will be someone I really care about and love,and not some bimbo.
It's what I like about forums,that people are so open with each other,and can talk about anything.So thanks for your moral support,to all the virgings out there,especially to those who are older than me,hold on there,your time will come,nd if you didn't do the deed yet,so I guess I can wait some more.till I overcome my shyness and go at it and make a move and ask a girl to go out with me.
I still haven't had a girlfriend yet,or actually talk to a girl about going out on a date,the things I do talk with girls about,are usually business related,or out of need to do\ask something,not anything to do with date,or you look nice\cute\would you go out with me.
How do you cope with it for so long? I believe it won't happen soon,as I have a huge lack of self confidence.
Anyway thanx again for your honesty,it's nice to know that out there there are people in exactly the same condition as me.
Till then,I can only say that my hand isn't a virgin anymore:D ;) :whip: :disbelief :tongue2 :happy2: :p |
I too was the same about my first time. I really wanted it to be with someone i cared about and i eventually did at 19. But this girl didn't like me as much as i liked her and it was pretty sorry sex. In fact neither of us came because i was nervous and i liked this girl a lot :nervous: :haha:
So looking back i wish i'd just found some girl i wasn't worried about her feelings so much and just got it over and done with and taken my experience gained and found the girl i liked later
Oh well such is life ;) |
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| dj phu |
| Why dont you guys make a thread. What was the longest sex you ever had. |
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| USMC_Greg |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
NO!
I disagree completely!
If you're an old virgin, you deal with MORE emotional crap. You realize your worthlessness, the fact that you're a loser.
Yes, there is something wrong with being a virgin -- and I admit that I am (recently turned 22). You lack experience, you're too timid around girls, you have little social confidence. These things are usually related.
And I'll be the first to admit that I have these issues. But you want to know the truth? I just haven't met the right girl yet -- and I've never had a real girlfriend. I had a chance to lose my virginity to a slut -- yes, I had it, but I didn't. Who would respect himself after this? This would have been a terrible "first time." If I were to look back on this as my first time, that would make me feel even more worthless than I feel now.
So, what's better: The feeling that you're a loser because you're still a virgin at 22, or the feeling that you're a loser because you had your first time with a dirty slut?
Not that there's anything wrong with sluts or "easy" girls... I feel they're an important part of society (and plus, there are girls who simply love and enjoy sex, and this is great -- but for some reason society labels them as sluts; the one I was talking about, though, was a real slut). |
Well said. I'm on the exact same boat - having a chance with the slut, timid around girls, everything. The only difference is that I'm 21.
In the mean time, use this;
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| Seventh City |
| Happily a virgin will be 16 in 10 days! I have lots of friends that are girls, but I won't even date until I have a car heh... |
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| eurotrash_pd |
| 18 here and I'm totally fine with it. |
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| Shoes |
Me - 34 year old virgin who still lives with his parents.
Not really. I'm 17, and I am. Bitter. I'm not waiting for the right moment, either - I'd do it with anyone or anything. |
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| jploveparade |
Finally a thread in which people open up a little. Respect to that.
Lost virginity at 17
Had several sex-relationships, and 3 girls who I really really loved.
When I reached 27, I decided to NOT have sex with girls anymore unless I love them (the girls you are proud to bring home)
So not much action lately. I don't care, I'll wait for that special girl (maybe Trancegirl79... ;) ) |
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| Dj_ExOn |
18 & No! I need my sex!  |
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| Maaz |
| Heh, here we have the belief that people in Europe/North America lose their virginity before turning 15... I guess we're a bit wrong then, aren't we? :p |
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| AlphaStarred |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
Heh, here we have the belief that people in Europe/North America lose their virginity before turning 15... I guess we're a bit wrong then, aren't we? :p |
yep...almost 18 :( :) |
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