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men suck (pg. 2)
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| DJ Chrono |
| quote: | Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
my only reason why men sux.. They are tooooo judgemental.. and always like to look instead of listening THATS what makes guys sux. |
Aahhaahha :haha:
its ironic that you say guys are too 'judgmental'
you are judging us with this statement.. |
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| Julie_Spyder |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Chrono
Aahhaahha :haha:
its ironic that you say guys are too 'judgmental'
you are judging us with this statement.. |
When i say judgemental.. i'm talking about.. how guys like to go for looks they alwyas need to have someone who is attractive.. (NOT all guys... but a greater part of the male population does)
Attraction is one thing that gets guys going.. |
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| torontotrance |
| quote: | | what can't men give me what i want? |
question is what do you want?....are your expectations too high?
| quote: | | my only reason why men sux.. They are tooooo judgemental.. and always like to look instead of listening THATS what makes guys sux. but other then that their ok.. |
Yes, from many ups.....i've learned that women like ppl who just sit and listen and then answer questions when asked. Tough to learn but a real helpful skill to your friends. |
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| Vanilla |
Here's a little saying I use when guys I know bitch about girls.
"The reason why you think girls are so damn scandalous is because you are ugly. If you werent ugly, you'd be asking me why girls are so damn slutty."
I dont know how well that translates across genders but I think it's hilarious. |
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| DJ Chrono |
| quote: | Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
When i say judgemental.. i'm talking about.. how guys like to go for looks they alwyas need to have someone who is attractive.. (NOT all guys... but a greater part of the male population does)
Attraction is one thing that gets guys going.. |
I suppose it's part of our instincts. We like girls who are visually attractive. I read somewhere that we subconsiously like girls who have a good body and figure because they are most suitable for child bearing. Other characteristics like weight, proportion, hair, skin, face, all relate to good health. and with these things, they will be a good mate, and be a good mother for our children. This is subconsiously what is ingrained in our heads, since we were born into the human race.
so.. really it's not our fault that we like hot girls. :p |
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| tranceman78 |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
Yes, from many ups.....i've learned that women like ppl who just sit and listen and then answer questions when asked. Tough to learn but a real helpful skill to your friends. |
Now I get it! Women want men to act like women. |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vanilla
Here's a little saying I use when guys I know bitch about girls.
"The reason why you think girls are so damn scandalous is because you are ugly. If you werent ugly, you'd be asking me why girls are so damn slutty."
I dont know how well that translates across genders but I think it's hilarious. |
I don't think that is true at all. Every girl I ever talk to says I'm goodlooking/hot blah blah blah, that means ALL. If it didn't I would have had a g/f by now as it stands I never have. It mostly has to do with women wanting a badass (at least women in a certain agegroup) because most niceguys like me apparently are not "exciting enough" and bore the girl to death. That said there are still women who really do want a nice guy etc who listens to what they have to say and is open to them. Women here are stuck up and annoying. :rolleyes: Hopefully we'll all find what we're looking for... |
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| ProDiGaL |
how ironic, women complain about men so much but they get along better with men then with each other, cause we are much more easy going. bitch bitch bitch, gossip gossip gossip,
yeah we like attractive women, should we like ugly women?? ohh no!! i feel so shallow for looking for someone that i am attracted to and content with, how low of me to look after my best interests, i better do some fat chicks for charity. /sarcasm |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by ProDiGaL
how ironic, women complain about men so much but they get along better with men then with each other, cause we are much more easy going. bitch bitch bitch, gossip gossip gossip,
yeah we like attractive women, should we like ugly women?? ohh no!! i feel so shallow for looking for someone that i am attracted to and content with, how low of me to look after my best interests, i better do some fat chicks for charity. /sarcasm |
This man knows the score. |
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| archie |
well some/(most) suck
but ya haven't talked to me ;-) |
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| nrjizer |
From very personal experience I can tell you nice guys finish last. Its so puzzling to me. I hear girls say often they want a caring guy who will really love them, not to promote myself or anything, but sometimes I just feel like saying "hey, look this way!" I really have no problem talking to anyone and making friends. Maybe im just a and wont ask a girl out, I dont know. I dont really like to get into the whole boyfriend/girlfriend circle with a cool person I kinda sorta like. Id rather be good friends. Ive seen too many times everything go bad and peoples hearts get broken, no matter how great they seemed together before. Just tonight my friend broke up with his girlfriend, at homecoming no less. Its almost like theres a special club or something, like you have to be officially "going out" with someone, like its your new title or something. I dont know if i really believe in all that. When you find the right person, all the falls together, you dont have to declare yourself "going out" or anything like that. You just know, this is the person for me. Theres no dating or anything like your attempting to keep up an image. I think its the companionship that people want the most. They dont want to be the only single person, so they will go out with someone they may or may not be perfect for. Despite some differences and difficulties that would let them have a healthy relationship, they keep trying to hang on, and things can kinda go bad. Personally, I think if you dont love something enough to let it go, then its not worth the time. If I girl I really loved had to move away or something happened that would interfere with our relationship, I would understand if she wanted out. I wouldnt want to be selfish and keep her all to myself. If she was happy, id be happy. I suppose this is why nice guys finish last. But oh well, heh
Anyways, most girls think that all guys just want to jump their bones and sit around and watch football or something. Its an unfortunate stereotype. But really, not all guys are like that, I suppose.
Hey, on a lighter note, I got a phone number @ homecoming from probably the most beautiful girl ive ever seen (serious). This was after she asked me to dance (since she was like the ONLY person dancing, everyone was just standing around, and I was the only other person trying to dance). :D
Unfortunately my recently split up friend was trying to get me to leave with him the very second I worked up the nuts to talk to her, but I got him to stay a little while, and sure enough he hooked up too :D |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by nrjizer
From very personal experience I can tell you nice guys finish last. Its so puzzling to me. I hear girls say often they want a caring guy who will really love them, not to promote myself or anything, but sometimes I just feel like saying "hey, look this way!" I really have no problem talking to anyone and making friends. Maybe im just a and wont ask a girl out, I dont know. I dont really like to get into the whole boyfriend/girlfriend circle with a cool person I kinda like. Id rather be good friends. Ive seen too many times everything go bad and peoples hearts get broken, no matter how great they seemed together before. Just tonight my friend broke up with his girlfriend, at homecoming no less. Its almost like theres a special club or something, like you have to be officially "going out" with someone, like its your new title or something. I dont know if i really believe in all that. When you find the right person, all the falls together, you dont have to declare yourself "going out" or anything like that. You just know, this is the person for me. Theres no dating or anything like your attempting to keep up an image. I think its the companionship that people want the most. They dont want to be the only single person, so they will go out with someone they may or may not be perfect for. Despite some differences and difficulties that would let them have a healthy relationship, they keep trying to hang on, and things can kinda go bad. Personally, I think if you dont love something enough to let it go, then its not worth the time. If I girl I really loved had to move away or something happened that would interfere with our relationship, I would understand if she wanted out. I wouldnt want to be selfish and keep her all to myself. If she was happy, id be happy. I suppose this is why nice guys finish last. But oh well, heh
Anyways, most girls think that all guys just want to jump their bones and sit around and watch football or something. Its an unfortunate stereotype. But really, not all guys are like that, I suppose.
Hey, on a lighter note, I got a phone number @ homecoming from probably the most beautiful girl ive ever seen (serious). This was after she asked me to dance (since she was like the ONLY person dancing, everyone was just standing around, and I was the only other person trying to dance). :D
Unfortunately my recently split up friend was trying to get me to leave with him, but I got him to stay a while, and sure enough he hooked up too :D |
Could not have said it better myself. Nice guys (yes I am one) finish last mainly because of what I said earier. No matter how many times a girl says (at least in the beginning) she wants a nice guy, she really wants an with a badside who then starts to treat her better as the relationship progresses. She falls for the badass persona first and then gets to know the real person behind the facade. |
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