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That girl i LOVED is now GONE....personal vent., (pg. 9)
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tiesto14
Would it be a stupid thing to call her???????????????...


i MISS her so ing much....and right now it is like 2am and i wanna call her and beg her not to do this....i KNOW i am weak...but it hurts...ya know....
Nadi
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Originally posted by tiesto14 Would it be a stupid thing to call her???????????????...


i MISS her so ing much....and right now it is like 2am and i wanna call her and beg her not to do this....i KNOW i am weak...but it hurts...ya know....


Very.
djchamps
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Originally posted by Maaz
Sorry to hear it, mate :(

Sometimes, we like someone so much that we think she's perfect, when she's not (nobody is). The only thing I can tell is: take your time.


she is prefect in his eyes :)

one is prefect if one is prefect in your eyes :)
djchamps
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Originally posted by ferrycorstenfan
Kai Tracid say it best

Too Many Times you've woken up depressed
too many times u put ur life to the test
too many times u've taken this trip
too many times you have slipped

well it works for me neway

hehe

nice one :)
discitelli
i dont know if anyone has asked this already mate, but is your x-girlfreind the girl who is in your sig. cause if she is, then that will make ME sad! what a stunner!
Taz
Dr. Taz has arrived to rubberneck *ahem!!* assess the situation.
Gives the following unsolicited and probably redundant advice to mr. 14:

STOP MILKING YOUR DEVASTATION FOR ALL IT'S WORTH.

Prescription...You're on a DIET now:

No more Fade To Black
No Tom Waits
No Aerosmith ballads
No T.S. Eliot!
No depressing movies, particularly with Jodie Foster between 1979-1981 (ecch!)
No more repeating images of her smiling face in your mind over and over
No more rehearsing sad songs in your head while imagining the two of you together in the hazy gold sunlight
No sitting around making a feedback loop out of sentiments like "It's over, there's nothing left, what good is life now, what's the meaning of it all..." and my personal favorite "She'll understand once it's too late. She'll find the bleached bones of my abandoned carcass somewhere in the middle of some deserted plain *sniff* maybe then she'll know what she's done to me! *sniff* *BAWWWWW*"

FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT'S GOOD AND DECENT, WAKE UP AND LOOK WHAT'S GOING ON!

Have you noticed how addictive it is to indulge in pity? To wallow in nostalgia and send yourself spiralling into total misery? I think this cycle-of-depression habit comes from TV drama culture and such.
Yes, grieving is necessary, but to do it all like this just to "get it out of your system" is like downing one drink after another really quickly so you'll be sober in time for work tommorrow. Doesn't work.

Let's set the record straight:
- "It's all over! I'm finished!" NO YOU'RE NOT. And it's all not over, it just won't involve Tania (is that her name?), but someone else. Soon enough. There are more chapters coming, with different characters.
- "How will I ever be happy again?" By choice, that's how. A friend of mine, poor guy, had to get some surgery down south and he'll probably never again as long as he lives (and he's young). Is he miserable? No, he's happier than I am 'cause he deliberately chose to be happier.

Stock up on comedy tapes, get together with friends, keep yourself busy,

and don't EVER keep me up until 2:41 am with this nonsense again!

Good night.
discitelli
lol, fatastic post m8!;) :D
DJ Fundamental
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Originally posted by tranzMental
I know exactly how you feel


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Originally posted by Rhythm
Hey man... very sorry to hear that


quote:
Originally posted by Triumph
Shut the up and get over it



:haha: :haha:
DarkLiquid
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Originally posted by sothis
thats because girls are attracted to confidence (just like guys are.. you cant tell me you arent), and the typical cocky guy, is confident.


Agreed, i was trying to emote that.
Az
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Originally posted by tiesto14
Would it be a stupid thing to call her???????????????...


i MISS her so ing much....and right now it is like 2am and i wanna call her and beg her not to do this....i KNOW i am weak...but it hurts...ya know....

yes it ing would, get some damn balls man!
i'll be cruel later by the way, i'm at college at the moment :stongue:

TranceEuphoria
I am sorry to hear that, mate...

but:

If she treats you like that, she doesn't deserve to get YOUR love!

Talk a lot with your friends now, you will feel better and better the more you talk with them. Don't stay alone at home.
Two friends of mine where in the same situation, they both overcame it. All the best for you!

bb
Slylee
just for the record guys, girls DO eventually grow out of that whole attraction to s. if you are between the ages of 15-23 then yes, treat them like crap and they will come running back. but the only kind of girls you are going to end up with by doing this will most likely be the shallow insecure type. a real woman wants an honest and caring man who will treat her like a princess but at the same time won't smother her. you just have to know your lady and what she likes and get to know her moods so you can act accordingly;) same thing goes for females...
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