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why are guys soo nice in the beginning, then assholes in the end (pg. 2)
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| TiestoFanMatt |
I think Johnsmith touched on one important fact. You got to understand one thing about lads. Some lads just want to " around" until they get a little bit older and believed they have "lived".
My advice to you, is the same as before. It seems u let urself be fooled by some lads. Instead of shagging them so quickly, why not just wait to see if u can develop trust. If you just into bed with someone so fast, then you are letting urself be hurt really easily.
Look for someone who u like as a friend and see maybe if u find them attractive. Sometimes the person who is most suited to u is the person right next to you (even a women:D )
Anyway, there are people out there who dont around, you just got to be careful who u fall for.
Good luck:) |
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| Stiffmaster |
the problem is: girls often become boring for boys...so they dont want the girl and then the girl starts annoying him with talking too much and the girl is going on the boys nervers and the he gets angry and is becoming an
solve the problem: when a girl is noticing that the boy doesnt have the time and attention for her like at the beginning of the relatin ship and he doesnt care of u like at the beginning, u should give up the relation ship and stop asking him why and so on :)
sorry for my bad english :( |
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| Orbax |
In America the main reason is that the baby boomers are pretty much the worst parents ever, besides what gen Xers are going to be.
Honor, Tradition, Purity
Three words devoid of meaning to the lost generations of the Baby Boomers. In a society where filth is so readily accessibe, so lusted after, even prized, one cannot hope to have high expectations for the future. Class is a thing to be ridiculed and scorned. Holding one's self to a higher standard earns nothing in the majority of social circles in America and undoubtedly the rest of the world. The wisdom and ideals of one of the greatest generations in America drift aimlessly down the family line like a lazy Autumn leaf to fall on the unyielding foundation of Generation X where soon it rots and disappears, gone from memory and leaving no discernable trace. The foolish, smirking head of this corrupt generation turns slowly, with an oafish blind eye at history.
No lesson has been harder learned by mankind than that of history's inevitable return to horrific events. The downfall of every great society is so easily and obtusely narrated by man hundreds of years later. The corruption and self-indulgence of empires naturally led to their downfall... Yet sitting amidst that tempest, could any one man, let alone a society, see the inevitability of their actions? In the same way that a man can profess disgust at another's lie, especially when that lie has inconvenienced him, and still look inward and see no fault in himself though he thinks lasciviously of women other than his spouse and backstabs co-workers for self-gain can man, and therfore society, love itself over all else. Not itself 10 or 100 years ago, but itself now because that is infinitely more convenient and easier on the (collective) conscience than admitting a degradation in quality.
Oh, a man can quite easily tell a person that back when he was 20 his body was in perfect shape thereby admitting that now his body is less quality than it used to be. Yet this statement is more likely the product of pride than humility. Those human attributes, though opposite, can, and do, produce the same outward signs to an onlooking audience. Yet it is exactly that unforseen difference that separates my generation from those before it. Now, I will digress momentarily to lay to rest many of the arguments that any fool could make. When speaking of a topic this expansive and far reaching it must be understood that arguments have been made by hundreds and thousands against such ideas and that any argument made in this day and age is merely a regurgitation of old ideas, just like the words I am writing now.
bah |
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| mndeg |
yes. because mtv brainwashes all
oh and its cool to be black |
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| mndeg |
| quote: | Originally posted by politcs_of_danc
ok just want to get some opinions from guys here....i know, i know most answers would be "coz you havent found the right one yet?? but all the guys that i dated are all the same :( its really starting to annoy me.... |
anyone being nice to you is probably just trying to you so ignore them
edit: i thought this was common knowledge |
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| hypronix |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Mikey Mike
your standards are to high probably |
I hope it was a joke.
I am aware of my fellow males as being not of the highest intellectual values, and therefore not knowing better than to cause suffering to those which get attached to them. I also know it is not a general rule [unfortunately one I am unable to disprove through an example at this very point, not because one does not exist but because it is not the point now]
As for "keep on looking", that's the whole purpose of dating. Experiencing and 'looking'. After thoroughly examining a specimen, both guys and girls weigh out what they like and not like about their mate. There are ocassionally irreconcilable differences, and sometimes... nothing.
Often enough, it is all just a game for fun. Use your instincts and intuition to reduce chances of getting broken-hearted by some [societally] useless jerk. Hopefully it will not take many more tears. |
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| Abject Silver |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i sometiems wonder if the right one is out there. men continuously let me down. |
hey, welcome to my world. you've got no idea how many girls i've gone through and continually felt disappointed.
*sigh*
and that's precisely what i wonder: is there really such a thing as the perfect girl out there?
i'm beginning to doubt it. |
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| LiquidX |
The answer is easy. I dont really know how things went in your relationship, but this is what I know, or one of the reasons why guys become s.
First because you ddidnt really know the guy when you started going out with him, instead, you should have build a relationship, in which you build trust and confidence. Secondly, dont be too easy on him, in terms of SEX.. leave that for waaaaay later, a guy that gets it in the beginning usually just want to BANG BANG BANG instead of building a love-trust tours the person, trust me.. So at the end, once the guy has let go his anxiety on his animal instinct, he will search for his next pray, so he actually becomes an . I know this, cause I got several friends whom are seemed so IN LOVE with the girl, but once they go to the SEX part, they just change and actually want something different.. why?!?! because they went on too soon. Thats the downside to SEX, it just makes you a horny man, instead of a Love builder.. just screws you.. making love is the thing.;) |
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| trancEyes22 |
| quote: | Originally posted by JohnSmith
your answer is here, by fellow TA trancEyes22
you see, most guys will be nice to you, simply to get in your pants. then once they've gotten their fill they will leave. Why do they leave? why do they not understand that the lifetime of love and fullfillment that you can have in a committed relationship is worth more than any amount of sex could be? I don't know. the reasons can be many. maybe they don't KNOW what it's like cuz they have never had it. maybe they are afraid their friends will call them whipped. or maybe it's because of the simple fact that relationships are hard. the involve a lot of hard work, sacrifice, blood sweat and tears quite often. women play a part in this too, by doing such dumb things as saying nothings wrong when something is. or making men jealous just for the fun of it.
take it from me, i'm a guy who's been with the same girl since i was 16, all through highschool, college, first job, first car, etc. now, i'm 23, and we will be married on our 8th anniversary (115 days). i've been through all the games, the ups and downs, the work and the reward. it's worth it in the end, but sometimes it's hard, and most guys would rather just have a fun time in the sack than a lifelong committment. |
that is the sweetest thing i have ever heard...seriously! congrats to both of you for staying together for that long, through it all. you must post pics of your wedding when it occurs!!! see, indy, there are good guys out there! and i have a wonderful man as well :D |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Abject Silver
and that's precisely what i wonder: is there really such a thing as the perfect girl out there?
i'm beginning to doubt it. |
i believe.
man, i wanna witness the first TA wedding! |
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| TrAnCeAkI |
| heh i never let guys get that close to me so i never been hurt or nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| tranceaholic |
| its like science trial and error..u will eventually find the right person..if scientists gave up early where this world would be..just have hope and patience..good things come to those who wait.. |
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