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why are guys soo nice in the beginning, then assholes in the end (pg. 3)
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| Abject Silver |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
i believe.
man, i wanna witness the first TA wedding! |
haha, a believer like me.
in siberia they have a saying. 'hope is the last to die.' i try to live by those words. :thepirate |
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| politcs_of_danc |
awww :D thanks you guys!!!!!!!!! this is really sweet, i wasnt going to post this thread coz i thought nobody will respond, but i was wrong :D sigh, this is making me feel better, and great advice all of you :toothless danke schun!!!!!!!! i shall follow everyones advice and kick the to the side, he didnt deserve me anyways.
indy:happy2: |
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| occrider |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
i believe.
man, i wanna witness the first TA wedding! |
That would probably be JohnSmith ... sometime in august or september if memory serves me right. |
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| davinox |
| quote: | Originally posted by politcs_of_danc
ok just want to get some opinions from guys here....i know, i know most answers would be "coz you havent found the right one yet?? but all the guys that i dated are all the same :( its really starting to annoy me.... |
they want |
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| DaveSaenz |
| quote: | Originally posted by politcs_of_danc
awww :D thanks you guys!!!!!!!!! this is really sweet, i wasnt going to post this thread coz i thought nobody will respond, but i was wrong :D sigh, this is making me feel better, and great advice all of you :toothless danke schun!!!!!!!! i shall follow everyones advice and kick the to the side, he didnt deserve me anyways.
indy:happy2: |
Sorry for my non-helpful response...:( |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by JohnSmith
you see, most guys will be nice to you, simply to get in your pants. |
:conf: :conf: You mean "nice" as in lie and BS in order to get what they want right? Because I AM nice, women do not want that. They want the exciting, the mysterious and "not boring" type guy who acts badass (ie confident). The nice guy is apparently "Boring" and has "nothing interesting to say". At least from what I see. Women..:(
| quote: | Originally posted by mndeg
anyone being nice to you is probably just trying to you so ignore them
edit: i thought this was common knowledge |
Case in point. Women ignoring those who are truly nice thinking that they are the . I think? I don't know...I'm tired and going to sleep. Nite.:confused: |
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| JohnSmith |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
that is the sweetest thing i have ever heard...seriously! congrats to both of you for staying together for that long, through it all. you must post pics of your wedding when it occurs!!! see, indy, there are good guys out there! and i have a wonderful man as well :D |
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| USMC_Greg |
| quote: | Originally posted by politcs_of_danc
"coz you havent found the right one yet?? |
Yep, the ladies haven't found me yet. :toocool: |
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| hangover |
| quote: | Originally posted by TiestoFanMatt
I think Johnsmith touched on one important fact. You got to understand one thing about lads. Some lads just want to " around" until they get a little bit older and believed they have "lived".
My advice to you, is the same as before. It seems u let urself be fooled by some lads. Instead of shagging them so quickly, why not just wait to see if u can develop trust. If you just into bed with someone so fast, then you are letting urself be hurt really easily.
Look for someone who u like as a friend and see maybe if u find them attractive. Sometimes the person who is most suited to u is the person right next to you (even a women:D )
Anyway, there are people out there who dont around, you just got to be careful who u fall for.
Good luck:) |
Shushhh.... What are you doing ?! It's hard enough fooling 'em into the sac as it is... :p
Anyway what you are describing is very natural. After a while in a relationship people start to take each other for granted. You are not a challenge anymore and therefore you are less attractive. The guy's instincts tell him he's done his part here and should move on. Problem is some morons actually act on their instincts only... (yeah like animals)
If a guys starts taking you for granted, my suggestion to you is to introduce some competition (or leave him), that should make *him* run after you for a while... |
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| Fundamental |
| quote: | Originally posted by mndeg
anyone being nice to you is probably just trying to you so ignore them
edit: i thought this was common knowledge |
This is so untrue. So what you're saying is that when someone is 'nice' then they are only after one thing?
I should be able to act my normal nice self and not feel like I'm being judged or (as you say) ignored... |
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| icedale |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
:conf: :conf: You mean "nice" as in lie and BS in order to get what they want right? Because I AM nice, women do not want that. They want the exciting, the mysterious and "not boring" type guy who acts badass (ie confident). The nice guy is apparently "Boring" and has "nothing interesting to say". At least from what I see. Women..:(
Case in point. Women ignoring those who are truly nice thinking that they are the . I think? I don't know...I'm tired and going to sleep. Nite.:confused: |
Same case here bud..
LEt's make an alliance:thepirate |
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| beema |
simple answer:
the guy was an to begin with, you just didnt realize it cause you are blinded by your female naiveness. He acted nice in the begging to get into your pants, once he had that accomplished, he saw no reason to be nice anymore cause he knew he had you in the bag...then his mind went on to how to get the next piece of ass.
this is how the brain of s works...why women keep dating them is beyond me
moral of the story: you get what you deserve, if you hate these s so much, then stop dating them, otherwise I could give a about your gripes with them |
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