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Things you would never EVER do (pg. 5)
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| prolikewhoa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
Oi, if I manage to convince you that anal sex between a heterossexual couple is "honourable", will you give me a nickel too? :toothless |
sure thing. but i have to be convinced. |
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| Orbax |
btw that 50% stat...is becaue people who divorce tend to remarry stupidly and then go through 4-5 bad marriages. There are still a lot of people who stick together, and i think that statistic is the liberals/anti-churchies trying to rub peoples face in a secular view point. Its very negative. Why not at least say 50% of all marriages are healthy and working :)
plus my 2c is weird that its weird...i think its crazy that people dont consider oral sex "sex" its shoving your into a human orifice... i mean thats not the only reason i consider sex, i think intent has a lot to do with it too.
it links with marriage in my mind by having that intent there. it isnt the "marriage" that is so important, its the formalization of your intent to cherish and love and to be one...and I think that is what sexually pleasuring someone is. it SHOULD be the physical act of the purest form of love (man and woman).
Lots of people think im a little odd these days cuz i was raised under old english forms of honor and chivalry and then I became a Christian to boot. then again, i think everyone these days is a little odd ;D |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
sure thing. but i have to be convinced. |
I'm still in the same passionate mood from my last post (by the way, I still would like to know what your opinion about my words is), so here it comes:
When you're together with a person, you two need to feel your relationship as something special and constructive. You two have to grow and know each other better in order to find out new things about yourself. Anal sex is just another way you can choose to feel pleasure with a person, stimulating different parts of your body and feeling confident enough to take it not as an act of submission, but as something that will enhance your experience as a couple. This is why it's honourable: it's something done in order to strengthen the relationship and your inner self despite of your previous values :)
So, am i getting my nickel? :D |
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| Orbax |
a random thought on relationships (Maaz's selfishness thing he said made me think of it)
a relationship shouldnt be thought of as 50% each side. I think it should be 100% from both, think of what that would be like... |
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| Jackson |
I'd never go and see Scooter unless i was planning to assinate him.
I'd never smoke cigs.
I'd never eat a plate of Mushy Peas :nervous: |
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| Shepless |
I'd never give less than 100% in a sports game, i just have to give it my all, all the time for some reason! And i'd never want to die feeling i havent lived a fulfilled life!
Shep |
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| prolikewhoa |
| quote: | | There's also the "sex is just a penis in a vagina" point of view: but I really can't live being so rational and ignoring feelings. I just can't live that way, and I've got nothing against people who do. |
i'm not saying that sex is emotionless. i'm not saying that at all. i think there are different kinds of sex. for example, i would say you '' someone you (1)don't know very well (i.g. 1 night stand), (2)don't really care about, (3)hook up with when you're drunk or in an otherwise-altered state. i would say you 'have sex with' someone you really care about, but don't necessarily love. and then 'make love' seems kind of overly flowery and mushy to me, but that would be when you are truly in love with someone.
love isn't required, necessarily, for a wonderful first time.
as long as you respect and really care about the person you do it with, it'll turn out to be a great experience. it was for me
anyway thanks Maaz for sharing your point of view with me. i still consider marriage more of an unecessary formality, but i respect the people the consider it to be more important. and i'm not against marriage by any means, i plan to do it too, someday. it's just i don't think it's necessary for sex, that's all. |
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| Dumbum |
| quote: | Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
Yikes! i guess i better explain myself... When i was a kid, i had 2 goals in life... go to europe, and not have sex before i was married. I am not sure why these were my goals, but at least i found 2. So i haven't been to europe yet which is really dissapointing, but i have managed to maintain abstinance. So prolikewhoa... you are right, i have done everything under the sun but the actual intercourse itself... but i am still holding out for the big day. I also believe you can love someone without marrying them, and i am in love and not married! But the reason I chose to carry out my goal was because i still believe in marriage and the sacredness of it. My parents are still happliy married and i am not going to assume that whoever i marry is going to turn into a complete and do awful things and we will split up. So since im still a believer of marriage, and my religion, in which i follow, ties into it too... i am stuck a horny virgin until my wedding day. Im not knocking anyone elses way of going about marrige or sex, i just thought maybe i needed to back my "things i would never EVER do" statement up.
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ok, sorry for the temporary hijack...
What would you never EVER do??? |
well no offence but you are uninformed, naieve and probably a really really boring person :) its all about having fun! put aside insecurities and stupid religion stuff. not having sex is like not opening your eyes, plus its unhealthy :rolleyes:
I wouldnt do something that would injure me in a way that i could never recover. |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
i'm not saying that sex is emotionless. i'm not saying that at all. |
Sorry, I didn't mean to say that was your opinion :p It's just because I've once read this opinion here in some other thread (from a person I truly respect), and it's a very different way to deal with this issue (compared to mine, that is).
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
as long as you respect and really care about the person you do it with, it'll turn out to be a great experience. it was for me |
In the end, this is what matters ;) To enjoy these moments in life :)
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
anyway thanks Maaz for sharing your point of view with me. i still consider marriage more of an unecessary formality, but i respect the people the consider it to be more important. and i'm not against marriage by any means, i plan to do it too, someday. it's just i don't think it's necessary for sex, that's all. |
Hey, it's my plasure: it's always nice to compare diferent point of view :) And don't worry, I understood what you meant :cool:
| quote: | Originally posted by Dumbum
well no offence but you are uninformed, naieve and probably a really really boring person :) its all about having fun! |
Well no offence but you are uninformed, naive and probably a really really boring person too :) its all about letting people be the way they are!
Really, how can you judge someone just because of one post you don't agree with? Also, if you read her other posts, you'll find out that wienerschnitzel is not boring at all (reason why I'm standing for her) so if I were you, I would bite my tongue before saying something about her ;)
| quote: | Originally posted by Dumbum
I wouldnt do something that would injure me in a way that i could never recover. |
How can someone never recover from virginity? :conf: |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
Sorry, I didn't mean to say that was your opinion :p It's just because I've once read this opinion here in some other thread (from a person I truly respect), and it's a very different way to deal with this issue (compared to mine, that is). |
I can only assume you're referring to me. :)
I wouldn't say that sex is totally emotionless. I just don't think a deep emotional bond is necessary for two individuals to enjoy it.
By the way, Maaz, I thought your post about anal sex was great. The general philosophy I have towards human sexuality is that people put up way too many barriers, and end up missing out on a lot of great experiences because of it - and I think that's a shame. |
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| shadis |
| I would never pierce my ass cheeks together like on Jackass... |
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| N|te-L|fe |
| I'd never have sex with a guy |
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