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| TheatreBaby |
I'm having a Deja Vu....I missed my period for 3 f*cking months...scary as for me and the guy. But I wasn't pregnant. There wasn't even anything wrong with me, just my body was like F U imma gonna scare the out of you. I was stupid and didn't use anything during sex. I was lucky and nothing bad happened...but never again, Im always gonna use something now...No matter what! I doubt she is pregnant, girls for some reason love to hold the whole "I haven't gotten my period, just thought you should know" thing over a guys head as a last ditch effort to hold up the relationship. If she isn't pregnant, dump her, she is not worth it. And it sounds like you need some time to get straitened out and grow up before you can get into a relationship again!
Now.....if she is pregnant, its not the end of the world. Kids have babies all the time, and its not neccisarily so bad for the baby. You had just better not be that kinda daddy who leaves or freaks out, cause thats what my dad did, and my parents got divorced. But then when he saw me, he only wanted to be there for me, but I can still never forget he wanted to kill me (i.e. abortion) and he didnt' want anything to do with me. I live with him now, and not my mom. But I'll never forgive him for that, and he has spent the last 18 years trying to make up for his poor choice before i was born. Nothing he'll ever do will make up for that. 3 of my cousins were born at times when my aunts weren't ready to have a baby, and they are fine. So don't feel like you need to go for abortion just because everyone says you'll be hurting the baby by keeping it. You just can't be a f*ck off dad. There are plenty of means for gov. support for the baby and your gf. Money will be tight, but babies don't care how much money you have, as long as you take care of their needs and love them. My mom had me and she had nothing. My Mom-Mom helped us out till she got back on her feet, and I feel like i've had more support in my life then a kid with a two parent home. I've got alot of adults who love me and would do anything for me, all because my mommma wasn't prepared to have a kid when she did.
After all that ...i know it runs on forever....but im just saying, I don't think she is pregnant, but if she is, its not the end of the world either. You could abort and be done with it if thats your choice (and its not a bad choice, just a choice), you could have the baby and go through lots of bumps in your road of life and still be okay, maybe even a better person for it. Or you could give it up for adoption ( i really have no comment on this choice, I have no experience here, i just know i would never be able to do it myself)
I am not condoning you for getting into this situation, but im not offering up congrats either, just putting my two cents in! |
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| occrider |
| I agree with everyone else ... abort the girlfriend, then perform self castration. No more gf, no more baby, no more vd worries, and no more -ups on your part. |
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| trancEyes22 |
| quote: | Originally posted by TheatreBaby
Now.....if she is pregnant, its not the end of the world. Kids have babies all the time, and its not neccisarily so bad for the baby.
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i beg to differ |
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| TheatreBaby |
I'm not saying "Ohhh....your 19...have a baby, It will be the best thing in the world for the baby" No way am I advocating that. But I'm just pointing out that children born to 18-20 year olds do not always live a terrible life. My cousin is 35, with 3 kids, and my aunt was 18 when she had him, and he always said that he didn't have a bad life. He didn't get all the newest toys or the best clothes, but his mom loved him, and he never knew his dad. And he is okay with that, in lue of a dad he got really close to my dad, and my aunts and uncles, my grand-daddy, and my grand mom. And now he is raising an 8 yr old, a 7 yr old and a 2 yr old. And he is the best dad i know. Showing that if you love your kids, they'll be okay.
But if any parent (young or old) neglects their kid or doesn't show them love, thats when you have problems. When you find out you are to become a parent you simply need to ask your self seriously if you are gonna commit the rest of your life to loving this child and concerning yourself with their wellfare over yours. This applys to any parent at any age! |
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| anuneventrade |
Okay, first off-
| quote: | | pretend it's Diginut/Yoda/God talking to you by telepathy/cordless phone/hypnosis! |
:stongue: :haha: :stongue: :haha:
Now *cracks knuckles* I have a few things to say.
| quote: | | things are gonna get more and more interesting....i feel like im goin into a downward spiral...i just wanna land already...fuk tha pain |
Get the over yourself. Seriously. Even if she's pregnant, its not the end of the world. From reading your other threads, now along with this one, I have deducted (along with many other fellow TA's) that this "relationship" (put in quotation marks because it's really just a joke) was ed from the beginning.
If she is pregnant (which, is highly doubtful that she is, two days or three days late, is nothing) there are a few things you should keep in mind. First off, I would be getting a blood test if I were you. From what you say, since you live 90 miles away, and she's chummy with her ex, and you've given us all the impression that she's been around town three times, it's highly likely it's not even you. That may sound a bit mean, but come on people, it's the facts.
Also, if she is pregnant, I wouldn't abort it, but give it to a family who can love it and take care of it properly. God knows what will happen to the kid if he/she grows up with two mentally instable parents. It was your responsibility, and you have to deal with the consequences. If you weren't prepared to face the harsh reality of the decisions you made, you should not have been having sex.
Since she is most likely not, I say drop the B.S. and drop the girl. I lost all sympathy for you as well on this matter, because it is your fault that you choose to stay with a psycho who wants you to quit school and go live with her. If she really loved you, she'd tell you to continue on with your education. It sounds like a half assed way of trying to get you to stick around. Maybe the ex that buys her Ice Cream bought her sorbet instead and she doesn't like it as much, hell if I know. |
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| speedracer_mec |
ok..for those of yall wondering if she is pregnant..and it is my baby...yes it is my baby if she is.
the reason being is...that her ex...doesnt have herpes.
She has it and he knows she has it...
i trust my gf enough to understand and believe in her that she wont sleep with any one else.Weve been through alot but in that aspect im sure and i cant explain it to yall why....is a trust thing..
i was upset when she was still chitterchattering with her ex....but she completely cut off communications with him...for the sake of us.
as far as this being my kid if she is...i trust her.
maybe i can get points with yall for this.
i talked to her today...she hasnt brought up the issue....tonite most likely.
either way im headin to houston tomorrow...long week |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
ok..for those of yall wondering if she is pregnant..and it is my baby...yes it is my baby if she is.
the reason being is...that her ex...doesnt have herpes.
She has it and he knows she has it... |
Did it ever occur to you that maybe she just isn't telling you he has it? ffs!
| quote: | | i trust my gf enough to understand and believe in her that she wont sleep with any one else.Weve been through alot but in that aspect im sure and i cant explain it to yall why....is a trust thing.. |
Since when have you actually decided to trust her? We've been through a lot in that aspect? That right there states clear as day that you guys have some serious issues.
| quote: | | i was upset when she was still chitterchattering with her ex....but she completely cut off communications with him...for the sake of us. |
As far as you know.
| quote: | as far as this being my kid if she is...i trust her.
maybe i can get points with yall for this. |
Points for what? Clearly showing that you still don't know what the hell you're talking about?
| quote: | i talked to her today...she hasnt brought up the issue....tonite most likely.
either way im headin to houston tomorrow...long week |
She hasn't brought up the issue? *sigh* I seriously am at a loss for words? What can you say to someone so ignorant?
I'm going to bet on she claim she's pregnant, he drops out of school, then she "miscarries" the baby she never was pregnant with in the first place. :o |
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| LoCa |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
I'm going to bet on she claim she's pregnant, he drops out of school, then she "miscarries" the baby she never was pregnant with in the first place. :o |
I'll second that!
Mec -- your girlfriend is seriously ed up! DONT drop out of college for her sake!!! If she's too stupid to understand that you being in college might give her a better life later (if u choose to stay with her, which i hope you don't), them dump her ass!
I've never seen anyone so whipped in my life! You talk about how you trust her... WHY oh WHY?! The woman gave you herpes FFS and was messing around with her ex! And to second anuneventrade's wise words, she's probably not telling you the truth about him anyways. What is it about her that makes you want to stay with her after all she's done to you?!
In all honesty, and like many people have said before me, i'm willing to bet she's not pregnant and just doing this to try and keep you from leaving her. Obviously that plan is working since you just don't seem to comprehend that she's just messing around with your head!! It's pure games she's pulling on you now!
But if you're willing to suffer through that then it's your tragedy mate. Just stop feeling sorry for yourself and posting it on here because EVERYONE has given you pretty much the same advice (i.e. DUMP HER) but you haven't done it yet. I don't even feel remotely bad for you. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
I thought it took like 20 minutes to find out if you're pregnant or not. Why are we still waiting?
DRAMA?
Why don't you just start a new thread when you find out Mec? You know, title it "She is" or "She isn't."
My question
If she isn't pregnant. Do you intend to do anything different in the future? |
lol... what have we learned from this? |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
lol... what have we learned from this? |
Wise men don't need advice. Fool wont't take it.
-Benjamin Franklin
Wisdom is the quality that keeps you from getting into situations where you need it.
-Dough Larson |
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| UWM |
| This will go down in history as the greatest TA hoax of all time. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
This will go down in history as the greatest TA hoax of all time. |
really? i had thought TA is more creative and convincing than this. |
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