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| speedracer_mec |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Didn't I just explain that? She's taking control of your entire life. I'll bet you any money that she's not pregnant and that she's just pulling this stunt as a game to see how far she can make you go.
She gives you herpes, she tells you she's still in love with her ex, she makes you drive out 90 miles to work things out, she's emotionally unstable, she tells you she's pregnant with no evidence, she wants you quit your job, move in with her, etc. etc. etc.
And why do you put up with it?
Because you don't have the GUTS to break it off. That's why you posted that numbnut thread about "just not calling her anymore" and hoping that she makes a mistake or breaks up with you. it man, just tell her it's over! |
thanks for ur insight..
i have alot to think about..regarding abortion..alot..she is gettin tested tomorrow instead of monday...since she wants to get it over with already |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Didn't I just explain that? She's taking control of your entire life. I'll bet you any money that she's not pregnant and that she's just pulling this stunt as a game to see how far she can make you go.
She gives you herpes, she tells you she's still in love with her ex, she makes you drive out 90 miles to work things out, she's emotionally unstable, she tells you she's pregnant with no evidence, she wants you quit your job, move in with her, etc. etc. etc.
And why do you put up with it?
Because you don't have the GUTS to break it off. That's why you posted that numbnut thread about "just not calling her anymore" and hoping that she makes a mistake or breaks up with you. it man, just tell her it's over! |
Diginut, mark this down, because I probably won't say this often.
Yuo are teh geniUs! |
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| Orbax |
Ok here is the end-all post, you guys can thank me later.
Speed you ed up, a lot of times, hopefully you learned something.
Your girlfriend is ed up too, and your learning should start with estranging (look that up its a good word and I love the fact that I used it) her. If you ignore it long enough itll go away. Or shell kill you. Either way its over.
If you wanted sympathy you came to the wrong place. If you wanted advice, i think youre getting some good stuff.
meh too much work to think now. Im gonna put a sweater on. Let the sweater putting be a lesson to ye all. Dress for the weather in a metephorical sense. |
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| occrider |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
thanks for ur insight..
i have alot to think about..regarding abortion..alot..she is gettin tested tomorrow instead of monday...since she wants to get it over with already |
EPT ... $10, at every grocery store, and you can view the results as well. |
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| speedracer_mec |
| things are gonna get more and more interesting....i feel like im goin into a downward spiral...i just wanna land already...fuk tha pain |
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| MrSquirrel |
| quote: | Originally posted by occrider
EPT ... $10, at every grocery store, and you can view the results as well. |
I think you need to buy it and deliver it..that way you can get your $1.88 back by force if necessary.
MrS |
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| DaveSaenz |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
After aplz online suicide, I'm very skeptical about what I read here. Speedy, I'm calling you out. I don't believe you have herpes or a girl friend, or that you got her pregnant. Whether your story is true or not it doesn't make a difference. You're f*ucked up either way. Btw, if anyone wants to know why he didn't use a condom, because God says its wrong to use contraception its the same as abortion. But why am I getting worked up this is all a fake story to get some attention. |
Yeah, remember all those Catholic priests who are telling the poor and ignorant that condoms were infected with AIDS?
If I had a picture of the Pope I'd rip it up too (go Sinead lol).
I'm sure he (pope) knew about all those sexually abusive priests as well.
Anyways, just abort it when it's a zygote or something hehe.
My cousin went through the same thing actually when he was 18/19, and he married the girl and they have 2 kids now. I think they just barely manage to scrape by, so then all my relatives etc told us all to keep it covered lol. |
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| Smeagol |
If youre not both ready to take care of a child, then go for the abortion, really.
If things work out well for you two you can have a baby later when youre mentaly and financialy ready and the child will probably be a lot happier.
If thing doesnt work out, well, good thing you didnt keep the baby.
An abortion is better done as soon as possible.
Provided she is pregnant of course. |
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| Dj_Psygnosis |
If you keep the baby at your age, then your life is f***ed, literelly.
Do the abortion...now!!!
obviously everyone will take the situation differently towards a baby at your age, BUT a friends mate killed himself cause his life went downhill after having a baby, surely killing himself was pretty stupid cause the situation could have been resolved, BUT as i said everyone is going to take this situation differently.
If you can't make a decision, maybe flip a coin?:tongue2 |
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| Delay Llama |
Abortion? Abortion?! Whadda heck is wrong with you people!? It includes you, Speedie! :mad:
Please, let's review the situation. Just because this person, whose herpes seem to be in such advanced state that he's got mushrooms down there with smurfs living in it and whose head now musta been affected by some sort of trangenic virus because he can barely give any clear thought on the situation and realise the obvious absurd in which he managed to get himself into, is with a paranoid emotionally unstable manipulative partner who probably, instead of loving herself, expects others to do it for her by controlling their attitude, is now saying that she's expecting a child (which worries me because she seems not to have emotional stability to have breakfast, how can she have a child!?)... I mean... think of the child: the poor human being is already coming to this world in the worst possible way, and you want to kill it already. Give this thing a chance to be adopted and have a good life.
... luckily, this child in the future may grow up, be your friend and teach you something (let's face it: considering his situation he'll be mature a lot earlier than you two! Mentally, obviously :p)...
And Speedy Mec, stop feeling pitty for yourself, waiting for God to save your soul from this everlasting torture and do something for a change. If there's a child you're to blame (and killing him is stupid because it's YOUR fault, not his): despair will get you nowhere. Sit down and think: if it happened to someone else, what would I say? If it sounds difficult, pretend it's Diginut/Yoda/God talking to you by telepathy/cordless phone/hypnosis! Then do it! |
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| Misty Kitty |
Not to say that your lady is not nice or that you two do not have a potentially good relationship but; if shes crying in the shower this girlies got issues and I mean ones that are only in her control (or out of) not yours.
You need to think how much of your life and where u want it to go you are willing to sacrifice or comprimise (or mebbe it is where u want to go) for this lady as she is asking for it.
From what i've read from your posts your mind is all over the place. You’ve had the doubts already i think that warrents questioning the relationship in its entirety.
From the not calling her apart from being cowardly (and mebbe shows your lack of thought/maturity for the situation in general), it is obvious indication that you want out.
Really one of the hardest things to do is to be honest to yourself, and then act upon this honesty. I don't feel you are being fair on her nor yourself.
Atm though take it step by step,
Is she pregnant? Then take it from there and explore all options not just the black and white ones. |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
yea she wants me to quit school and move bak to houston...indefinitely and be with her....not because of the money..but for me. |
Dude, wtf? she's using her unborn baby as a hostage... that's pretty low. Especially considering how she was in with you before. I haven't heard both sides of the story but she sounds like a real bitch. If this pregnancy thing turns out to be another head she's pulling on you (and chances are it will) then cut of ALL contact with her. She's obviously no good for you. |
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