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what do girls go for ..... (pg. 17)
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| tranceaholic |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
The key word is moderation. I’m not a fan of playing games, but certainly a little “hard to get” in the beginning is always necessary. Or even throughout the relationship to spice things up too, but nothing too extreme.
I am a lot like sara and how she described herself as a girlfriend, and to the guy who said that being too perfect is boring, you seriously need to grow up. I’m sure sara knows how to play her cards right, as do I. Just because we don't mind cleaning and taking care of our men, or cooking for them, doesn't mean we are boring. It usually just means we have something special planned for "dessert":p That's called game...now go look it up in the dictionary or take notes....
Mature, confident people (females in particular) do not go for the , game playing high school mentality. That is getting old. People who do that have no idea what they want in life or where they’re going, except maybe the sack to get try and get laid, which I would imagine gets old.
I could go on and on, but like I said, it’s about doing everything in moderation and not being immature about it. |
well i didnt mean boring as *yawn* boring..i meant i like the challenging girls more...the chase is more seductive than the catch ;) |
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| Seventil |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
she totally wanted you man. you should let her know your interested next time you see her. keep it smooth...don't be a complete ass about it, but let her know that you're interested ;)
oh and lol at the maxim article :stongue: |
Any women here to give me advice about this? ;) |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Seventil
Any women here to give me advice about this? ;) |
think about it. why would she even bother talking to you if she wasn't interested? most of these girls just said that they don't approach guys. if this girl approached you and your friend to have a beer with them or play darts with them...then that's a good sign for me. i would've found out what she was doing later... |
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| Orbax |
BTW I can vouch for being an NOT working. hehe. Actually it kind of does. People think im an cuz i treat everyone the same, a friend of 12 years or a newly met person. Ill make fun of them for whatever they do and expect them to do the same. However, they rarely do for fear of offending someone :rolleyes:
Anywho. There is/was a girl i was super interested in. Very active, had that farm girl/tom boy thing going on that I love. She totally loved my mototcycle and demanded that I take her riding. BTW its awesome to have a chick all smooshed up behind you on a bike. Its very cool. Them thighs too lol. I love giving girls rides...digressing.
So things are going well, shes showing some interest, then I realize she has an F-buddy. Not boyfriend, someone she likes to have sex with. I havent talked to her since. Shes asked why and is apparently confused as to why her incredibly low morals and standards (I know the guy shes Fing, total bitch) could do such a thing. Ill admit it wasnt exactly a clear thing to do, but I really dont think I need to sit her down and tell her shes a whore.
And thats my problem. Every girl with the exception of two havent been virgins and lost it to someone totally undeserving. I dont know about you guys, but every time I look at her I seen the ghost penis pounding her. ITs like...I dont want that. I dont need that. Ive waited when I didnt want to, I think I deserve the same.
Yes yes, we are allllll veryyy open minded these days, especially when it comes to things that we want to do. Personally, Im a classically raised Englishman (dont sit until all women are sitting, stand when they leave or enter, hold doors, take and put on coats, push in chairs, etc... a lot of people wonder what Im doing waiting by a door until a girl goes in, and half the time girls think im hitting on them...but whatever) with a revitalized Christian Outlook (which may not seem true on these boards :p). Im all for having fun, but I do believe that there are some boundaries that should be harder to cross.
And again, this is why I end up going for older girls. #1 they arent having their college fest, and #2 they know what and what not to divulge about their sexual history.
Im still pissed that I am going to have to go to the clinic with my GF before we have sex. I now know 3 people who have gotten permanent STDs from even protected sex.
bah. |
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| Floorfiller |
orbax
i know what you mean about the ghost penis hehehe. i don't expect my girlfriends to be virgins, but at the same time i don't wanna hear about every dude she's been with hehehe.
i also know what you mean about chicks on bikes hehehe. my roomate had a bike (not a sport one like you, but more like a harley) and he always had the ladies wanting a ride hehehe. anyway, think about it. they are all close to you that's already breaking the first step in getting to be with someone...breaking the first touches hehehe... |
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| Seventil |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
think about it. why would she even bother talking to you if she wasn't interested? most of these girls just said that they don't approach guys. if this girl approached you and your friend to have a beer with them or play darts with them...then that's a good sign for me. i would've found out what she was doing later... |
What if she just needed 2 guys to play darts with her and a friend? Being nice?
I will have to say that she doesn't normally have a bunch of a guys hanging around her, like 90% of the women here do. So that's one up for her.
Oh, and I did ask her what she was doing later. ;) -- We both work night shift (7Pm - 7AM) - and it was about 10 AM. It was time for sleep, my friend. I'll see her in the morning after work - I'm just not sure if I should take it slow and feel her out - or - really throw some game out there. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Seventil
What if she just needed 2 guys to play darts with her and a friend? Being nice?
I will have to say that she doesn't normally have a bunch of a guys hanging around her, like 90% of the women here do. So that's one up for her.
Oh, and I did ask her what she was doing later. ;) -- We both work night shift (7Pm - 7AM) - and it was about 10 AM. It was time for sleep, my friend. I'll see her in the morning after work - I'm just not sure if I should take it slow and feel her out - or - really throw some game out there. |
i don't think she just asked you and your friends to play darts for no reason. i mean if you looked like a creepy guy or they weren't thinking "hey lets ask those guys...they're here a lot" they wouldn't have asked you. you don't have to get all crazy with the game, but don't be afraid to keep things going with her next time you see her. try to grab some lunch or something i don't know. i'm just saying that girls don't ask men they don't know to play darts with them unless they are somewhat interested in getting to know that person. |
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| Seventil |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
So things are going well, shes showing some interest, then I realize she has an F-buddy. Not boyfriend, someone she likes to have sex with. I havent talked to her since. Shes asked why and is apparently confused as to why her incredibly low morals and standards (I know the guy shes Fing, total bitch) could do such a thing. Ill admit it wasnt exactly a clear thing to do, but I really dont think I need to sit her down and tell her shes a whore.
And thats my problem. Every girl with the exception of two havent been virgins and lost it to someone totally undeserving. I dont know about you guys, but every time I look at her I seen the ghost penis pounding her. ITs like...I dont want that. I dont need that. Ive waited when I didnt want to, I think I deserve the same.
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That's a tough situation. I'll admit I've been with girls that I didn't really care about - some longer than others - *sigh* - but I don't think I've ever found a girl that I liked had someone on the side...
I know what you mean about the "ghost penis" - I actually miss a society where sanctity of marriage and the virtue of a woman were important. I guess that's somewhat hypocritical to say, judging from my past experiences.
Keep your head up man - you'll meet the perfect girl someday - and she won't be banging an on the side. |
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| Floorfiller |
| oh and orbax the last girl that i dated was a 22 yr old virgin and hot so they are still out there hehehe |
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| Orbax |
Yeah, I also took the passenger handles off my bike so my prep is "Ok, I make guys do this too, even though its totally gay. Youre going to get on first and sit on those passenger pegs. Once I get on just give me a big bear hug and keep it TIGHT, if you dont youll flop around and me up on turns and well fall hehe. Other than that just be loose and follow me, dont anticipate what im going to do"
it ends up seeming like alecture, but its me telling you to smash your boobs into my back. Plus its awesome when you get them a little nervous and they start smashing your legs with their thighs. It being a sprort bike her knees are usually touching about 2 inches behind my own :D
mmmMMM!
but thats really how you have to do it hehe, i really do make guys to the same thing. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Yeah, I also took the passenger handles off my bike so my prep is "Ok, I make guys do this too, even though its totally gay. Youre going to get on first and sit on those passenger pegs. Once I get on just give me a big bear hug and keep it TIGHT, if you dont youll flop around and me up on turns and well fall hehe. Other than that just be loose and follow me, dont anticipate what im going to do"
it ends up seeming like alecture, but its me telling you to smash your boobs into my back. Plus its awesome when you get them a little nervous and they start smashing your legs with their thighs. It being a sprort bike her knees are usually touching about 2 inches behind my own :D
mmmMMM!
but thats really how you have to do it hehe, i really do make guys to the same thing. |
yeah i've rode on my friends bike with him and it's a little gay but so what hehehe. he basically told me all the same stuff... |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Seventil
What if she just needed 2 guys to play darts with her and a friend? Being nice?
I will have to say that she doesn't normally have a bunch of a guys hanging around her, like 90% of the women here do. So that's one up for her.
Oh, and I did ask her what she was doing later. ;) -- We both work night shift (7Pm - 7AM) - and it was about 10 AM. It was time for sleep, my friend. I'll see her in the morning after work - I'm just not sure if I should take it slow and feel her out - or - really throw some game out there. |
I agree with FF. I would just hang out with her like you do with guys. Chicks dig being treated like actual real life people. I mean still mess around and be funny and gayer than you would be with guys and all, so shell think youre charming and all. But still dont pick datey things to do. Grab some food, and get your drink on. That always seems to be when the craziest stuff happens haha |
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