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Premarital sex (survey) (pg. 3)
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by 3xx3r7
If you get that pro-life girl pregnant, then you're screwed big time. |
thats why you just say no to them. :wtf: |
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| DJ Intrigue |
I don't think there is anything wrong with it. As long as both parties are into sex and want to have it, then I see nothing wrong. I'm not saving myself for anything, so if the opportunity would come up and my gf at that time would be into it, then I would. However, if she said no to sex, I'd respect that and not force upon it.
The only downside to sex is pregnacy and at 19 years old, that's not something I want to have to deal with and provide for yet. |
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| insecurity |
| quote: | it's like my grandma used to say.....
why buy the cow, when you can get the sex for free? |
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| torontotrance |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
No, premarital sex isn't wrong, at least - not unless there's something else wrong with it other than just being before marriage.
Given that the only condemnation of premarital sex comes from religion, and religion is based on blind faith rather than reason, one could quite accurately say there is no reason to think of premarital sex as "wrong." :)
To be honest, I'm not even sold on the idea that marriage has any utilitarian merits which aren't imposed by society...
So I would say marriage itself is closer to being "wrong" than premarital sex. |
get it right, all beliefs are based on blind faith rather than reason. Who says your reasoning is right? |
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| Nell |
do animals get married?
my point exactly. |
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| torontotrance |
| but we are not animals, we are humans, the highest level of the food chain. |
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| TheVrk |
obviously from a religion point of view, its wrong.
i AM a religious/faithful guy, but i cant follow this rule.
so long as your not hurting anyone its alrite with me |
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| torontotrance |
| but we live in a vacuum, every action we make, affects someone else, we just don't realize it. It's nice to think that as long as it does not affect anyone else but what happens if your future wife is pissed off at all the people you slept with?. See you can argue this till the cows come home but my stance won't change, no matter what the world thinks about it. As usual the world has the if it feels good do it philosphy and I tried that for a while and that never got me anywhere. No matter what someone's rationale and believe me, I've heard it all, my stance won't change and just because 95% of this board does'nt agree with me, does not mean that I'll decide to go get laid. It is just not about not getting laid, the principle is far deeper than anyone realizes. |
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| DJ Intrigue |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
but we live in a vacuum, every action we make, affects someone else, we just don't realize it. It's nice to think that as long as it does not affect anyone else but what happens if your future wife is pissed off at all the people you slept with?. See you can argue this till the cows come home but my stance won't change, no matter what the world thinks about it. As usual the world has the if it feels good do it philosphy and I tried that for a while and that never got me anywhere. No matter what someone's rationale and believe me, I've heard it all, my stance won't change and just because 95% of this board does'nt agree with me, does not mean that I'll decide to go get laid. It is just not about not getting laid, the principle is far deeper than anyone realizes. |
Good for you, but no one is asking you to change your views, are they? I think you seem to get a bit too worked up over topics like this. If sex is meant to happen, it will, if not, it won't. It doesn't matter if you are waiting for a certain time or not. |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nell
do animals get married?
my point exactly. |
I was just about to say that :D
If rabbits get to like... err.. rabbits, so should we! |
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| torontotrance |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Intrigue
Good for you, but no one is asking you to change your views, are they? I think you seem to get a bit too worked up over topics like this. If sex is meant to happen, it will, if not, it won't. It doesn't matter if you are waiting for a certain time or not. |
I'm not worked up about anything, it is a good discussion, which is rare for COR these days :haha: |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
but we live in a vacuum, every action we make, affects someone else, we just don't realize it. It's nice to think that as long as it does not affect anyone else but what happens if your future wife is pissed off at all the people you slept with?. See you can argue this till the cows come home but my stance won't change, no matter what the world thinks about it. As usual the world has the if it feels good do it philosphy and I tried that for a while and that never got me anywhere. No matter what someone's rationale and believe me, I've heard it all, my stance won't change and just because 95% of this board does'nt agree with me, does not mean that I'll decide to go get laid. It is just not about not getting laid, the principle is far deeper than anyone realizes. |
You're going to die a very sad, lonely, virgin - which will affect someone else, you just don't realise it yet :eyespop: |
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