|
Premarital sex (survey) (pg. 7)
|
View this Thread in Original format
| TOR |
| yeah, i can think of several reasons too, but her post makes it seem as though getting married is the only logical thing to do when you love someone. |
|
|
| Slylee |
no, you don't have to get married at all. i'm pretty mixed about it myself. even though it’s romantic to think about a beautiful wedding, I think that once the big day came around, I would be freaking out thinking, “oh my god, this is it...you’re DONE”! :nervous:
:stongue: |
|
|
| Nite-Mer |
| Going lefty's not nearly as good as righty. I've tried. I know. :happy2: |
|
|
| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
no, you don't have to get married at all. i'm pretty mixed about it myself. even though it’s romantic to think about a beautiful wedding, I think that once the big day came around, I would be freaking out thinking, “oh my god, this is it...you’re DONE”! :nervous: |
Didn't you know weddings were invented for women? It's a guy's job to postpone getting married as long as possible. Weddings are for women to show off in front of their friends and family. Guys have already taking care of this when they show case their chick at the club. |
|
|
| Slylee |
To be honest with you, when my sister was planning her wedding, she drove me up a friggin wall with 40 million samples of colors and crap. If I get married, I will probably have mine planned out in like 1 week. I’ll leave it to the last minute, then impulsively pick what I want that day...depending on my mood, and just stick to it. lol
either that, or I’ll fly off to Hawaii and do it on a private beach with close family members and friends only. that’s the way to do it:) |
|
|
| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
hey not all of us plan on having relationships with our right hands for the rest of our lives... |
I don't plan on it, but it's likely in my case. :mad: |
|
|
| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
To be honest with you, when my sister was planning her wedding, she drove me up a friggin wall with 40 million samples of colors and crap. If I get married, I will probably have mine planned out in like 1 week. I’ll leave it to the last minute, then impulsively pick what I want that day...depending on my mood, and just stick to it. lol
either that, or I’ll fly off to Hawaii and do it on a private beach with close family members and friends only. that’s the way to do it:) |
I like the way you think. :toocool: |
|
|
| Slylee |
| the size of the rock is also a determining factor in how much participation the guy is expected to give in the planning...:stongue: |
|
|
| DJ Intrigue |
| quote: | Originally posted by nekholm
Guess what? Some smart guy invented something called "protection". The most secure "protection" is called "condom", which gives about 97% security. So by using a "condom" when you have sex, the girl is most likely not to get pregnant. You can surely find "condoms" in a shop near you. Give it a try, ok? :) |
I guess I should have added the word "condom" to my original post, so that smart-asses like you won't reply. I know about protection and condoms, but you said 97% security. Although that number is extremely high, there's still a small chance.
Tell me, how old are you and would you want to provide for a child if in that 3%, your girlfriend would get pregnant and you were my age (19)? That was what I was trying to get at. I'm not against pre-martial sex by any means, but that issue would be on my mind. |
|
|
| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nite-Mer
Do you know what the odds of life on Earth are? If you don't believe that something is out there that you cannot understand (A supernatural force or God, you choose), you are foolish. The odds of this all to exist the way it does by chance is infinitesmily small. |
No, I don't know what the "odds of life on Earth are." I'd be happy to hear them, though, given that it would obviously be a major scientific breakthrough if you were able to account for every possible variable to calculate the precise probability that life would exist on Earth. As an aside, there are plenty of determinists who would tell you that the chance is 100%.
No matter what state the universe is in, there is, by your logic, an "infinitesmily small" chance that it would be in that state. So no matter how the universe happens to be configured, such a profound coincidence must occur. Somehow, it doesn't seem so supernatural once you realize that it's logically necessary. |
|
|
| torontotrance |
| and I won't begin to mention the odds of the earth starting by the big bang. |
|
|
| cviper |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Intrigue
I guess I should have added the word "condom" to my original post, so that smart-asses like you won't reply. I know about protection and condoms, but you said 97% security. Although that number is extremely high, there's still a small chance.
Tell me, how old are you and would you want to provide for a child if in that 3%, your girlfriend would get pregnant and you were my age (19)? That was what I was trying to get at. I'm not against pre-martial sex by any means, but that issue would be on my mind. |
I'd hope that the girl would be smart enough to get an abortation (or a day-after pill, or whatever), considering that neither of you (obviously) are ready for a child.
Oh, and please dont tell how evil I am for suggesting killing innocent little soon-to-be cell-clusters. |
|
|
|
|
