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Edition to the relationship problem...pretty sure its over :(
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| Vaedyn |
Well it...I'm just so frustrated right now I think I hit the lowest of the low. I just went snooping...I guess her email password and found this email to her younger sister...
"And [the other guy in the army] is comming home for a weekend and i really want to see him. Liz(the sister), i am begining to like [the other guy] more and more and its really bad, b/c i like [Vaedyn - me] less and less. I feel so bad for him i have no idea what i am doing. And alaina(her best friend) is yelling at me not to ruin my realtionship with [Vaedyn] over [The other guy], but [the other guy] is the one that i think about! soo much stress. I thought this was over with but i guess not."
The thing I dont understand is he was a complete to her. They havent seen each other since november of 2003 and havent really had much contact since he is in the army. I just dont understand this at all.
I think im ed? all agree?
Should I just end it? If so...what do you think the best way would be?
Thanks fellas |
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| Spacey Orange |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vaedyn
Should I just end it? If so...what do you think the best way would be?
Thanks fellas |
sounds like its over. have some self dignity and hook up with someone else. |
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| Dirk W. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vaedyn
Well it...I'm just so frustrated right now I think I hit the lowest of the low. I just went snooping...I guess her email password and found this email to her younger sister...
"And [the other guy in the army] is comming home for a weekend and i really want to see him. Liz(the sister), i am begining to like [the other guy] more and more and its really bad, b/c i like [Vaedyn - me] less and less. I feel so bad for him i have no idea what i am doing. And alaina(her best friend) is yelling at me not to ruin my realtionship with [Vaedyn] over [The other guy], but [the other guy] is the one that i think about! soo much stress. I thought this was over with but i guess not."
The thing I dont understand is he was a complete to her. They havent seen each other since november of 2003 and havent really had much contact since he is in the army. I just dont understand this at all.
I think im ed? all agree?
Should I just end it? If so...what do you think the best way would be?
Thanks fellas |
Personally I have always been the one to end things first. It's always better to be the Dumper not the Dumpee. You have the inside information....
If you think everything is okay, stay with it. I think I would toss her. |
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| OurManFlint |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vaedyn
The thing I dont understand is he was a complete to her. |
I think this is the theme of the relationship threads.
Sux being nice. |
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| goonerjack |
Yep, unfortunately just another one to add to the evidence that girls like guys who treat them like
Feel for you... |
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| töbias |
It sounds like she deserves a little revenge.
I'd start having sex with her best friend and sisters. |
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| smokeape |
Same as my reply in the last thread:
Bang her for all she's worth and go back to trolling for a real prospect. Unfaithfulness is normally not a good trait in a relationship. Just use her as a ragdoll and drop her at your convenience. She's going to do it to you eventually anyhow.
:D
[[[smoke]]]
Sunscreem - Cover Me (Trouser Enthusiasts Mix) |
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| butterfly |
ok first, you couldnt have put this in the same thread?
and second, it is totally unacceptable to go into someone's email like that. i would totally break up with you if it were me and i found out about that.
so what i think you should do is talk to her about it. you obviously are losing your chances to stay with her the way you are doing things now. you need to find out from her what you need to do different to get another chance. of course, you cant ask her what you are doing wrong cause she wont know and it will put her on the spot and make her feel more uncomfortable with you.
i would suggest confronting her about the other guy and suggesting she try and hook up with him to see what her feelings are. i know in my experience i think of guys from the past a lot but then when i get another chance with them i usually lose interest pretty quickly. (of course if the other guy is a better than you, you're out of luck) if she sees that her image of him has been fabricated inside her head maybe she will value how nice you are again (aside from the snooping in her personal stuff thing) |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vaedyn
Well it...I'm just so frustrated right now I think I hit the lowest of the low. I just went snooping...I guess her email password and found this email to her younger sister...
"And [the other guy in the army] is comming home for a weekend and i really want to see him. Liz(the sister), i am begining to like [the other guy] more and more and its really bad, b/c i like [Vaedyn - me] less and less. I feel so bad for him i have no idea what i am doing. And alaina(her best friend) is yelling at me not to ruin my realtionship with [Vaedyn] over [The other guy], but [the other guy] is the one that i think about! soo much stress. I thought this was over with but i guess not."
The thing I dont understand is he was a complete to her. They havent seen each other since november of 2003 and havent really had much contact since he is in the army. I just dont understand this at all.
I think im ed? all agree?
Should I just end it? If so...what do you think the best way would be?
Thanks fellas |
End it, your pretty much a runner up in her decision. Second place is only a first place loser. |
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| _Nut_ |
| Let her mess around with the other guy. If it is meant to be with you and her, she will realize that all the army bloke is, is an infatuation. Ive seen it happen before, and it sucks. |
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| TweeK |
Like i said in the last thread Slash her cars tires:disbelief
Or bang her mom.......make sure she knows about it too:D |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by TweeK
Like i said in the last thread Slash her cars tires:disbelief
Or bang her mom.......make sure she knows about it too:D |
how old are you? 12? |
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