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Wait a TIC!!! I'm single again, OOHHH BEHAVE! (pg. 4)
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| *~*Angelblue*~* |
| how old is your now ex? she sounds 15 with the repeat calling and texting. anyways you'll find another girl.. |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
oooohohhhhh i called her, who's interested in the convo???
i'll post it if i get 5 or more replies. |
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| Aristronica |
She's 20, that's not the point, alright well here goes anyway -
I took goodgrief's advice and called her, it was like 1 am and gotta admit I was pretty wasted.
So she's like are you drunk?? I'm like yeah, so what, i want to call you, so she says I don't want to talk to you while you're drunk. I'm like, thought you didn't want to talk at all??? So she's like, don't be snappy (she actually used that word) with me, you're on very thin ice right now. I'm like, I thought we were done and you gave up on me. Her - that, if you're gonna be a i'm not gonna talk to you... hangs UP!!!!
20 minutes later (text) - call me, i want to talk.
I'm like, WTF MATE?!?!?!?, but i call -
(after greetings)
her - well you want to explain yourself this weekend.
me - look, i take out a weekend for myself and you get all pissed off and jealous and you prove that you don't trust me, what am I supposed to explain.
her - i know your relationship with her, before we met you said you guys ed around once in a while.
me - yes, but i also told you i'd never cheat on you, listen baby (i actually called her baby) you know my passion about music so I went to a rave, you said yourself you didn't want to come with...
her (cutting me off) - that's cuz i wanted you to come home with me, my parents wanted to see you (her parents love me)
me - yes but you know how much i love my music, and i didn't get on my ex, all that happened we went out to the sorority thing and then i came back and passed out on her futon, nothing happened end of story, we're just friends, i don't around when i love someone as much as you, then you get all jealous and make me feel like all this time i've been trying to earn your trust has gone down the drain.
her - well what are we gonna do about this
me - baby, i'm not gonna do anything, listen i totally love you and want to be with you, but if you're not gonna trust me, it's not gonna work out, do you trust me or not...
(insert a 2 min convo about trust)
then - her - yes baby i trust you and want to be with you
she came over that night and we ed like rabbits
so yah, i totally used the whole guilt trip on her, and trust!!! that just kills me, but now i think she's so stupid for even doing all this crap that i might not even want to be with her, what is it with ing women these days?!?!?!?! |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
She's 20, that's not the point, alright well here goes anyway -
I took goodgrief's advice and called her, it was like 1 am and gotta admit I was pretty wasted.
So she's like are you drunk?? I'm like yeah, so what, i want to call you, so she says I don't want to talk to you while you're drunk. I'm like, thought you didn't want to talk at all??? So she's like, don't be snappy (she actually used that word) with me, you're on very thin ice right now. I'm like, I thought we were done and you gave up on me. Her - that, if you're gonna be a i'm not gonna talk to you... hangs UP!!!!
20 minutes later (text) - call me, i want to talk.
I'm like, WTF MATE?!?!?!?, but i call -
(after greetings)
her - well you want to explain yourself this weekend.
me - look, i take out a weekend for myself and you get all pissed off and jealous and you prove that you don't trust me, what am I supposed to explain.
her - i know your relationship with her, before we met you said you guys ed around once in a while.
me - yes, but i also told you i'd never cheat on you, listen baby (i actually called her baby) you know my passion about music so I went to a rave, you said yourself you didn't want to come with...
her (cutting me off) - that's cuz i wanted you to come home with me, my parents wanted to see you (her parents love me)
me - yes but you know how much i love my music, and i didn't get on my ex, all that happened we went out to the sorority thing and then i came back and passed out on her futon, nothing happened end of story, we're just friends, i don't around when i love someone as much as you, then you get all jealous and make me feel like all this time i've been trying to earn your trust has gone down the drain.
her - well what are we gonna do about this
me - baby, i'm not gonna do anything, listen i totally love you and want to be with you, but if you're not gonna trust me, it's not gonna work out, do you trust me or not...
(insert a 2 min convo about trust)
then - her - yes baby i trust you and want to be with you
she came over that night and we ed like rabbits
so yah, i totally used the whole guilt trip on her, and trust!!! that just kills me, but now i think she's so stupid for even doing all this crap that i might not even want to be with her, what is it with ing women these days?!?!?!?! |
Maybe you're just a bad boyfriend, plain and simple.
Either that, or you are trying to act like Mr. Bigman on here to boost you machoness or some like that.
If I were her, I would have made sure it stayed done at the three month break-up. |
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| Aristronica |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Maybe you're just a bad boyfriend, plain and simple.
Either that, or you are trying to act like Mr. Bigman on here to boost you machoness or some like that.
If I were her, I would have made sure it stayed done at the three month break-up. |
maybe, or maybe she just wants me too bad and totally tried to be a bitch and use this as a way to control me and get me to be her bitch... in fact i think the whole snowball incident was to get a reaction out of me and later on make me her bitch too, but you know what bad or terrible i'm still a SMART boyfriend and don't let that ho control me, girls can flame all you want but you know you want a guy wrapped around your finger, and if he isn't you get all pissed off and look for ways to whip his ass, but it doesn't work with me, because i've been through it before and now know better
i also realize i don't love her, i think it is all about the sex for me which sucks cuz i thought otherwise, i can't find a decent girl but that's fine, one will come up sooner or later
furthermore - i might break up with her tonight since i am in such a clear and resolved state of mind right now. |
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| *~*Angelblue*~* |
| good luck to whatever to decide |
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| LoCa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
maybe, or maybe she just wants me too bad and totally tried to be a bitch and use this as a way to control me and get me to be her bitch... in fact i think the whole snowball incident was to get a reaction out of me and later on make me her bitch too, but you know what bad or terrible i'm still a SMART boyfriend and don't let that ho control me, girls can flame all you want but you know you want a guy wrapped around your finger, and if he isn't you get all pissed off and look for ways to whip his ass, but it doesn't work with me, because i've been through it before and now know better
i also realize i don't love her, i think it is all about the sex for me which sucks cuz i thought otherwise, i can't find a decent girl but that's fine, one will come up sooner or later
furthermore - i might break up with her tonight since i am in such a clear and resolved state of mind right now. |
well since we can flame all we want, here goes:
a) i think you're an who can't make up his mind about what he wants. first you say you're probably going to get hit hard by the breakup (in your first post) and now all of a sudden you don't want her anymore just because, like a moron, she gave up the fight just to stay with you. If she had kept up the whole break up thing would you have tried to get her back anyways? what a hypocrite.
b) not all girls want a guy wrapped around their finger. Some of us actually enjoy guys who give us a challenge, and i guarantee you that most girls i know _hate_ it when a guy becomes like a little slobbering puppy dog that follows you around everyday.
c) you actually told her you love her? you know nothing about love and that makes you even more of an for saying that to her when you don't really mean it. on top of it all you went and got shagged when you really weren't feeling anything much for her.
d) you're a complete dick, and i hope every girl you meet from now on has more sense than to hook up with a brainless twat like you.
amen :D |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoCa
well since we can flame all we want, here goes:
a) i think you're an who can't make up his mind about what he wants. first you say you're probably going to get hit hard by the breakup (in your first post) and now all of a sudden you don't want her anymore just because, like a moron, she gave up the fight just to stay with you. If she had kept up the whole break up thing would you have tried to get her back anyways? what a hypocrite.
b) not all girls want a guy wrapped around their finger. Some of us actually enjoy guys who give us a challenge, and i guarantee you that most girls i know _hate_ it when a guy becomes like a little slobbering puppy dog that follows you around everyday.
c) you actually told her you love her? you know nothing about love and that makes you even more of an for saying that to her when you don't really mean it. on top of it all you went and got shagged when you really weren't feeling anything much for her.
d) you're a complete dick, and i hope every girl you meet from now on has more sense than to hook up with a brainless twat like you.
amen :D |
+1!!!!!! |
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| Aristronica |
i dunno, we'll talk it over with her, basically she can't go on doing this crap
i might love her, i might not, but this whole situation put it into perspective for me - that i need to reconsider my position on this relationship, maybe i do love her but i'm pretty ing confused right now |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
She's 20, that's not the point, alright well here goes anyway -
I took goodgrief's advice and called her, it was like 1 am and gotta admit I was pretty wasted.
So she's like are you drunk?? I'm like yeah, so what, i want to call you, so she says I don't want to talk to you while you're drunk. I'm like, thought you didn't want to talk at all??? So she's like, don't be snappy (she actually used that word) with me, you're on very thin ice right now. I'm like, I thought we were done and you gave up on me. Her - that, if you're gonna be a i'm not gonna talk to you... hangs UP!!!!
20 minutes later (text) - call me, i want to talk.
I'm like, WTF MATE?!?!?!?, but i call -
(after greetings)
her - well you want to explain yourself this weekend.
me - look, i take out a weekend for myself and you get all pissed off and jealous and you prove that you don't trust me, what am I supposed to explain.
her - i know your relationship with her, before we met you said you guys ed around once in a while.
me - yes, but i also told you i'd never cheat on you, listen baby (i actually called her baby) you know my passion about music so I went to a rave, you said yourself you didn't want to come with...
her (cutting me off) - that's cuz i wanted you to come home with me, my parents wanted to see you (her parents love me)
me - yes but you know how much i love my music, and i didn't get on my ex, all that happened we went out to the sorority thing and then i came back and passed out on her futon, nothing happened end of story, we're just friends, i don't around when i love someone as much as you, then you get all jealous and make me feel like all this time i've been trying to earn your trust has gone down the drain.
her - well what are we gonna do about this
me - baby, i'm not gonna do anything, listen i totally love you and want to be with you, but if you're not gonna trust me, it's not gonna work out, do you trust me or not...
(insert a 2 min convo about trust)
then - her - yes baby i trust you and want to be with you
she came over that night and we ed like rabbits
so yah, i totally used the whole guilt trip on her, and trust!!! that just kills me, but now i think she's so stupid for even doing all this crap that i might not even want to be with her, what is it with ing women these days?!?!?!?! |
Sounds like she has low self-esteem. |
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| Aristronica |
| quote: | Originally posted by ShadoWolf
Sounds like she has low self-esteem. |
that's what i'm thinking too, and i don't want to be used as just some booster until she gets all straight and then dumps me
i really don't know what to do about this one |
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| kid nyce |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoCa
well since we can flame all we want, here goes:
a) i think you're an who can't make up his mind about what he wants. first you say you're probably going to get hit hard by the breakup (in your first post) and now all of a sudden you don't want her anymore just because, like a moron, she gave up the fight just to stay with you. If she had kept up the whole break up thing would you have tried to get her back anyways? what a hypocrite.
b) not all girls want a guy wrapped around their finger. Some of us actually enjoy guys who give us a challenge, and i guarantee you that most girls i know _hate_ it when a guy becomes like a little slobbering puppy dog that follows you around everyday.
c) you actually told her you love her? you know nothing about love and that makes you even more of an for saying that to her when you don't really mean it. on top of it all you went and got shagged when you really weren't feeling anything much for her.
d) you're a complete dick, and i hope every girl you meet from now on has more sense than to hook up with a brainless twat like you.
amen :D |
uhoh TA Females comin out...time to run!!!
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lastly
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