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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
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yea, he'll need LOTS of luck getting his girlfriend to trust him at out of state sorrority parties with his ex girlfriend getting drunk and not answering his phone. |
that wasnt exactly what i had in mind...that whole incident was just stupid on his part. i was just saying that most relationships that ive been involved in or from friends' relationships is that its hard to be a couple and still be able to go out with just your friends and not have your girlfriend be a little nosey or suspect something. they have an entire show about this on mtv.
...and guys are just as bad as girls when it comes to this too |
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| Slylee |
yea it's true, my bf and i are somewhat struggling with that whole thing. we love each other's company though and we are buddies as well as bf/gf, so to be perfectly honest, we chose to hang out with each other (not alone, but with our group of friends together) because we have more fun together. but we both realize that we need to get our own things going, and it's kinda hard when you're used to a certain way of doing things.
it's not like we both think that we're gonna go out and cheat, but we're both kinda sad/jealous that we'll be having all this fun without the other one there to share it. |
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| maxstradamus |
O the irony. This is the advice u gave to a guy who was feeling down after his g/f broke up with him:
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
this is what you do,
(i gave this advice a few months back)
you go get a gun right,
and you load it
take the safety off
and everytime you go to bed
put the nozzle in your mouth
and keep your finger on the trigger
every mourning you should wake up and realize that you're lucky to be alive and not worry about some insignificant ho that left you, how ing old are you anyway, 15??? i hate these lovesick little bitches who get hooked on one hooker and then just get all depressed and , shut the up, plenty more vag to come in your young fresh little life |
I'm not gonna get into bashing your moronic replies again. If it wasn't for the HDD failure few days ago you would've read it yourself. But let me tell you this: You are a ing idiot. A self centered prick with bigger ego than the 2004 election absurd. I hope you also call your g/f a hooker coz that's what she deserves for ing a twit like yourself. Grow up. |
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| MisterOpus1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
well then, i dunno what to say, maybe i am an , i never suspected myself to be one, her friends always tell me i treat her so well, i dunno now i'm confused about myself now. |
Oh boy, I might get burned for saying this, but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say it anyway-
I'm gonna guess that you are not an .
That may be quite unsupportive and premature, but call it a gut feeling or something - it just doesn't fit you very well.
What DOES fit you, however, is perhaps a nice healthy dosage of cluelessness and a dash of inexperience on understanding women and relationships as a whole.
That can be cured, provided that you be sincere, honest, and open with her. If you show your willingness to trust her and be open with her, chances are pretty good she will reciprocate that and do the same. It won't be pretty, and it sure as hell won't be a cakewalk, but it's a good starting point to a much more healthier relationship. So here's my last piece of small advice all summed up:
1. Figure out what the hell you want and quick - you drag this out it will be misery for you both
2. Ask her to figure out what she wants and to be completely honest about it
3. If, in fact you both want the same, then go forth and be merry, but don't expect it to be a boatride. If either of you, or both of you have insecurity issues involving trust, this just simply takes time to heal. Often times past relationships are unfortunately involved with this insecurity - just be patient.
4. If, in fact you both do NOT want the same, then split forth and be merry
5. Learn to compromise or you'll never learn anything about healthy relationships
6. Learn to listen to the woman better, and try not to find solutions to all her problems. Most of the time women just want someone to listen to them moan about life and NOT try and find a solution to their problems - this is the core difference between male and female thinking.
You know somethin', I have a feelin' you guys will be just fine and dandy. I dunno, maybe I'm being too optimistic today, kinda got that glass half-full feeling..... |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonze234
that wasnt exactly what i had in mind...that whole incident was just stupid on his part. i was just saying that most relationships that ive been involved in or from friends' relationships is that its hard to be a couple and still be able to go out with just your friends and not have your girlfriend be a little nosey or suspect something. they have an entire show about this on mtv.
...and guys are just as bad as girls when it comes to this too |
that is interesting... i dont really experience that. i think it depends on the individual. like me and my bf realyl love being around each other but we also like our space. so sometimes if he wants to go out and party i have no problem staying home while he does his thing and i have gone out and done the same. i guess it is a matter of what your personal needs are and the level of trust in your relationship. |
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| Aristronica |
| quote: | Originally posted by maxstradamus
O the irony. This is the advice u gave to a guy who was feeling down after his g/f broke up with him:
I'm not gonna get into bashing your moronic replies again. If it wasn't for the HDD failure few days ago you would've read it yourself. But let me tell you this: You are a ing idiot. A self centered prick with bigger ego than the 2004 election absurd. I hope you also call your g/f a hooker coz that's what she deserves for ing a twit like yourself. Grow up. |
completely different situation ******, if i knew where you lived i'd come over and kick your skull in for being such a fagget |
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| LoCa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
and i think you're just full of , but hey, that's what COR is for right??? |
Funny, it seems you're one of the only ones who thinks that... and you're the one the post is about. Well you know what they say... truth hurts :)
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
so yah, i totally used the whole guilt trip on her, and trust!!! that just kills me, but now i think she's so stupid for even doing all this crap that i might not even want to be with her, what is it with ing women these days?!?!?!?! |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
she came over that night and we ed like rabbits
the only problem is that this girl is not insignificant to me, she means more than just a piece of ass, don't take me out of context to act like a big boy |
Hmmm... not insignificant to you? are you sure? Because after thinking that she's stupid for believing the whole guilt trip thing, it doesn't sound much like she means 'more than a piece of ass'...
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
i also realize i don't love her, i think it is all about the sex for me which sucks cuz i thought otherwise, i can't find a decent girl but that's fine, one will come up sooner or later |
How about this one? Still sound to you like she's not a piece of ass? Gimme a break :rolleyes: Either that or think before you type. |
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| Aristronica |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoCa
Funny, it seems you're one of the only ones who thinks that... and you're the one the post is about. Well you know what they say... truth hurts :)
Hmmm... not insignificant to you? are you sure? Because after thinking that she's stupid for believing the whole guilt trip thing, it doesn't sound much like she means 'more than a piece of ass'...
How about this one? Still sound to you like she's not a piece of ass? Gimme a break :rolleyes: Either that or think before you type. |
ooooo yay, you got me!!!
wow you are so gay to not understand i'm just going through a reasoning process and you're not helping at all, but you know what flame on, there's others who are helping with constructive criticism |
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| Aristronica |
| since butterfly and jonze left this has been retarded, someone lock this or close it or whatever. |
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| eye_03 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
since butterfly and jonze left this has been retarded, someone lock this or close it or whatever. |
inb4dalock... yeah im ghey:( |
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| butterfly |
i think you can lock threads you started yourself?
also, are you going to show your gf this thread like the last one? |
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| Aristronica |
| i think i should |
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