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HELP TRANCEADDICTS: IM SAD..I JUST GOT DUMPED on AIM.... (pg. 13)
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
" I thought you were waitin for a small mistake, why havent you dumped him yet?" |
(S)he, whoever wrote the SMS, thought the girl was waiting for a small mistake - that's not necessarily true. Even if the girl did expect a mistake of yours, you could play smoothly and she wouldn't necessarily think the same way: people often get confused in beginning of relationships. It's got nothing to do with you being a nice guy - this "nice guys finish last" excuse is just a lame attempt from the so-called "nice guys" to blame everything but themselves. Can't be arsed to read all the posts but, next time, don't anticipate things by blowing them out of proportion. |
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| Stassi |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
she said because i looked at her phone once..she now thinks i did it everyday behind her back...assumes i stalk her..etc..etc
How sad..she made false assumptions of me..IM DEFINITELY A SCAPEGOAT
1) She expected me to be perfect
she told me, she thought i was flawless...and
she was surprised i wasnt perfect
2) she didnt fall in love in 2months time..she wanted to already start feeling it in 2months like me...
3) she categorized me in the same boat as her ex bfs...she tinks because i searched her phone once...she thought i did it all the time..and all day and snooped around like they did...i did it once...and dats all
SHE IS ASSUMING this based on her past relationships with jealous zealots who paid people to watch over her...
i was drunk, decided to look att he phone and saw that txtmessage from her ex boyfriend |
your letting her nit pick and tear you apart
this dumb bitch, your better than that im sure.
now if you wanna get over, follow these few steps.
1. delete this thread
2. go through your cell phone and find a girl who isnt psychotic.
first off, no woman will ever say your the perfect guy unless you hung 12 inches, girls will say ANYTHING to with your head
so when i come back, i better see this thread gone. |
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| speedracer_mec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
(S)he, whoever wrote the SMS, thought the girl was waiting for a small mistake - that's not necessarily true. Even if the girl did expect a mistake of yours, you could play smoothly and she wouldn't necessarily think the same way: people often get confused in beginning of relationships. It's got nothing to do with you being a nice guy.
Can't be arsed to read all the posts but, next time, don't anticipate things by blowing them out of proportion. |
read her excuses top 3...why she dumped me
pretty lame |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
read her excuses top 3...why she dumped me
pretty lame |
I did. You were reading her SMS, weren't you?
You're still blowing this out of proportion. Chill out a bit and think about the situation: it's just a misfortunate situation. |
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| speedracer_mec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I did. You were reading her SMS, weren't you?
You're still blowing this out of proportion. Chill out a bit and think about the situation: it's just a misfortunate situation. |
I was the scapegoat of her past 8yr jealous relationships
One blunder done out of pure misjudgement and alcohol...and i get zero tolerance... |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
I was the scapegoat of her past 8yr jealous relationships
One blunder done out of pure misjudgement and alcohol...and i get zero tolerance... |
Don't pity yourself.
Besides, if she ditched you because of that reason, she wasn't prepared for a relationship. It happens. It's been just two months, she didn't know you quite well and she had all that bad experience: did you really expect her not to remember/compare? |
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| igottaknow |
| I think he should have sent her more roses :rolleyes: |
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| Stassi |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
I was the scapegoat of her past 8yr jealous relationships
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now your just pointing the finger, that isn't gonna get anything accomplished now is it? I mean after all as long as you believe you werent in the wrong thats all that REALLY matters right? :rolleyes:. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
It's got nothing to do with you being a nice guy - this "nice guys finish last" excuse is just a lame attempt from the so-called "nice guys" to blame everything but themselves. Can't be arsed to read all the posts but, next time, don't anticipate things by blowing them out of proportion. |
Listen to the man, speedracer.
Every man and woman is in control of their own destiny - you are your own person. The only ownership anybody could ever have on you is granted permissible by your submission - but it's always revocable. Thus, you are responsible for yourself and yourself, alone. Children are the only exception to this, and you are sounding more and more like one of those.
Don't change yourself to treat women like - worthwhile women don't like that. If you don't have the integrity to respect future mate(s), then the chances are that you truly don't deserve them. Be your own person - live your life and be a little more careful about who you subject your "love" to from now on - it's all that any of us can do after being hurt simularily like this. Don't let this girl win by changing yourself; have faith that you will find the perfect companion someday - whether that's a woman, a sport, or just a great friend, all are alleviations of our loneliness in this life. Don't become lost in your own emotion - remember why you're putting yourself through this all in the first place, and I think you will have all the guide that you need. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
I think he should have sent her more roses :rolleyes: |
Useless fact: I heard in Korea lovers give one another 100 roses when they celebrate their 100th day together.
(A korean girl said this, don't blame me) |
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| Danny Ocean |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stassi
1. delete this thread
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bad idea, other people can learn from this thread and not make the same mistakes. Ive heard cases like these all the time.
anyways, speedracer, you might want to forget about this but the truth is, you never will. Even if you do, memories will come back every now and then and you'll be stuck wondering "what if". Look at it on the bright side though, it was a good lesson, learn from it. Just because this happened dosent mean you dont have to be nice though. being nice wasnt your problem, your problem was letting your emotions get the best of you. You were letting your heart guide you instead of your brain.
In the end, you got nothing and she got a letter.
let me ask you something though, after all you did for her and all that happened, was it worth it? was she worth it? |
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| speedracer_mec |
I know ...Ill always be a nice guy regardless.
Im a mess right now...sigh* |
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