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HELP TRANCEADDICTS: IM SAD..I JUST GOT DUMPED on AIM.... (pg. 20)
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| goonerjack |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
We should just turn this thread into a poetry competition. |
I remember a haiku thread ages ago - we need a new poetry one!
Roses are red... and limericks! |
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| lücid |
i'm surprised no one mentioned this, and i could be way off base here, but...
the fact that you guys never had sex (after dating for 2 months) made me think... at first you said she knew about your "medical condition". then later you said your ex-girlfriend gave you an eternal gift, herpes. if you told the latest girl about this, she may have been all cool about it but deep down it scared the out of her. hence why she didn't think you were "flawless". maybe she didn't feel passionate enough about you or the relationship to really try to make things work. STDs are a scary ing thing, and being in a relationship with someone who admits to having an STD can be a bit of a throwback.
i apologize if i am wrong in any way, i just thought i should mention that, since no one else did.
as for the girl saying she cares for you, and she wants to still talk to you, i HIGHLY advise against this (at least for now). some girls tend to be manipulative psycho bitches (i know - i used to be one), and she might be keeping you around for the wrong reasons; to make herself feel better, to have someone as a "backup" plan, etc... if you want to remain friends with her, give it time. get over your pain, become a stronger person, and then decide what is best. |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i'm surprised no one mentioned this, and i could be way off base here, but...
the fact that you guys never had sex (after dating for 2 months) made me think... at first you said she knew about your "medical condition". then later you said your ex-girlfriend gave you an eternal gift, herpes. if you told the latest girl about this, she may have been all cool about it but deep down it scared the out of her. hence why she didn't think you were "flawless". maybe she didn't feel passionate enough about you or the relationship to really try to make things work. STDs are a scary ing thing, and being in a relationship with someone who admits to having an STD can be a bit of a throwback.
i apologize if i am wrong in any way, i just thought i should mention that, since no one else did.
as for the girl saying she cares for you, and she wants to still talk to you, i HIGHLY advise against this (at least for now). some girls tend to be manipulative psycho bitches (i know - i used to be one), and she might be keeping you around for the wrong reasons; to make herself feel better, to have someone as a "backup" plan, etc... if you want to remain friends with her, give it time. get over your pain, become a stronger person, and then decide what is best. |
I totally agree with everything you said. |
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| Radagast |
Herpes is a wonderful disease!
Makes you want to buckle to your knees!
Girls get it, guys spread it
I'd rather be stung by a swarm of bees!
Herpes makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside!
I had it so bad I broke down and cried!
I shouldn't have hit it, but I still did it
Now we both have herpes side by side!
So i'll tell you now for one last time
That if you happen to find a dime
Think twice, heed my advice
Don't hit that if it smells like lemon-lime |
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| politicsofdancin |
| ru kidding me? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: |
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| speedracer_mec |
| We talked before our about our partners...I told her I had one partner in my entire lifetime and she gave me the disease. She looked past the disease and appreciated my low experience. She told me was looking for a guy with low level of partners as her. Sad because I told her I went to the doctor last month to finish my year therapy and he told me after a year suppression it was like a less than 1percent chance of it ever coming back. She was happy for me...she looked beyond it. Fact is when I told her, we grew closer because I told her in the first week or so. Us both were about to get engage sexually at one point but we decided to slow it down a bit. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Radagast
Herpes is a wonderful disease!
Makes you want to buckle to your knees!
Girls get it, guys spread it
I'd rather be stung by a swarm of bees!
Herpes makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside!
I had it so bad I broke down and cried!
I shouldn't have hit it, but I still did it
Now we both have herpes side by side!
So i'll tell you now for one last time
That if you happen to find a dime
Think twice, heed my advice
Don't hit that if it smells like lemon-lime |
hats off to our TA Poet Laureate :gsmile: |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i'm surprised no one mentioned this, and i could be way off base here, but...
the fact that you guys never had sex (after dating for 2 months) made me think... at first you said she knew about your "medical condition". then later you said your ex-girlfriend gave you an eternal gift, herpes. if you told the latest girl about this, she may have been all cool about it but deep down it scared the out of her. hence why she didn't think you were "flawless". maybe she didn't feel passionate enough about you or the relationship to really try to make things work. STDs are a scary ing thing, and being in a relationship with someone who admits to having an STD can be a bit of a throwback.
i apologize if i am wrong in any way, i just thought i should mention that, since no one else did.
as for the girl saying she cares for you, and she wants to still talk to you, i HIGHLY advise against this (at least for now). some girls tend to be manipulative psycho bitches (i know - i used to be one), and she might be keeping you around for the wrong reasons; to make herself feel better, to have someone as a "backup" plan, etc... if you want to remain friends with her, give it time. get over your pain, become a stronger person, and then decide what is best. |
this is one of the first things i thought of as well....just didn't say it. i'm sure the herpes was a problem...i mean...it would be for me.
other than that...i agree with Theresa in that you were getting too seriuos too fast...i think its a combo of the twoo... |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
this is one of the first things i thought of as well....just didn't say it. i'm sure the herpes was a problem...i mean...it would be for me.
other than that...i agree with Theresa in that you were getting too seriuos too fast...i think its a combo of the twoo... |
i think its a coin toss between whether it was the herpies or his sufficating needyness(spending every waking hour with her and snooping around her private stuff. can u say stalker?) that contributed to her dumping him. |
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| speedracer_mec |
read my post from above....She didnt have any problem with my condition.
| quote: | | We talked before our about our partners...I told her I had one partner in my entire lifetime and she gave me the disease. She looked past the disease and appreciated my low experience. She told me was looking for a guy with low level of partners as her. Sad because I told her I went to the doctor last month to finish my year therapy and he told me after a year suppression it was like a less than 1percent chance of it ever coming back. She was happy for me...she looked beyond it. Fact is when I told her, we grew closer because I told her in the first week or so. Us both were about to get engage sexually at one point but we decided to slow it down a bit. |
In fact when I told her, first thing she did was give me a hug. I explained to her my only partner and how she screwed me over.I talked to her about my doctor and his less than 1percent risk factor. She even cried at one point because she felt I was done wrong, and promised to be with me. In fact she and I already discussed about sexual relations...we were just waiting for the right moment. It was bound to happen. It didnt bother her because she know the type of guy I was....Im not the one who jumps from girl to girl. |
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| speedracer_mec |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i think its a coin toss between whether it was the herpies or his sufficating needyness(spending every waking hour with her and snooping around her private stuff. can u say stalker?) that contributed to her dumping him. |
I agree with the latter, Ummm Sometimes I would be in my dorm and she would suddenly show up and caught me off gaurd...it was like this that gave me a mixed signal as well. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
read my post from above....She didnt have any problem with my condition.
In fact when I told her, first thing she did was give me a hug. I explained to her my only partner and how she screwed me over.I talked to her about my doctor and his less than 1percent risk factor. She even cried at one point because she felt I was done wrong, and promised to be with me. In fact she and I already discussed about sexual relations...we were just waiting for the right moment. It was bound to happen. It didnt bother her because she know the type of guy I was....Im not the one who jumps from girl to girl. |
its nice that you believe that, but given the reality of the situation...i don't think its too far fetched to believe it played a factor man... |
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