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HELP TRANCEADDICTS: IM SAD..I JUST GOT DUMPED on AIM.... (pg. 18)
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| speedracer_mec |
| quote: | Originally posted by ierxium
Is it the constant nonsense of other posters like me? Be honest man. |
nah its more like the stress overall...
I cant handle it.
Im checking into counseling soon.
2breaksup in 6months is sickening.
no job
I didnt get any internships after all my interviews...
My GPR has slipped from a 3.9 to a 3.6
I dropped my first class this semester |
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| Swamper |
Dude, you will always come across people in life who (for whatever reason) do/say/act in ways that result in you feeling like - this will never change. All you can do is learn from whatever major mistakes you may have made (if any), accept what happened, and move on. That's it. You can't dwell on how someone feels or doesn't feel - what you do or say, no matter how poetic, will have little effect on the big picture.
Ok, think about the person you were prior to that first relationship that ed you up, now ask yourself - is that who you are today? Is that who you were when you met this last girl? Likely not - you were still recovering from that first one. So, the next while is gonna be a living hell, but, once your state of mind is back to the way it was BEFORE that first girl you'll know you're ready for the next one.. It may take 6 months, it may take longer.. who knows.. but:
Don't go making stupid moves now or turning into an towards girls who have nothing to do with your current drama solely so you can feel better because you feel you got 'back' at a girl. Maintain your dignity and self-respect, don't go sobbing to this girl on AIM, maintain minimal contact (if any).
A few pages back u said you were gonna be lonely throughout the holidays.. dude.. you can't look at it like that. It is better to be alone than to be 'together' in an unhealthy relationship - that is toxic. Get away and clear your head. |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
Dude, you will always come across people in life who (for whatever reason) do/say/act in ways that result in you feeling like - this will never change. All you can do is learn from whatever major mistakes you may have made (if any), accept what happened, and move on. That's it. You can't dwell on how someone feels or doesn't feel - what you do or say, no matter how poetic, will have little effect on the big picture.
Ok, think about the person you were prior to that first relationship that ed you up, now ask yourself - is that who you are today? Is that who you were when you met this last girl? Likely not - you were still recovering from that one. So, the next while is gonna be a living hell, but, once your state of mind is back to the way it was BEFORE that first girl you'll know you're ready for the next one.. It may take 6 months, it may take longer.. who knows.. but:
Don't go making stupid moves now or turning into an towards girls who have nothing to do with your current drama solely so you can feel better because you feel got 'back' at a girl. Maintain your dignity and self-respect, don't go sobbing to this girl on AIM, maintain minimal contact (if any).
A few pages back u said you were gonna be lonely throughout the holidays.. dude.. you can't look at it like that. It is better to be alone than to be 'together' in an unhealthy relationship - that is toxic. Get away and clear your head. |
applaudible reply.
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| speedracer_mec |
thanks man.
Appreciate it...I remember you posted last year in my other drama thread. Kind words I take to my heart.
Sorry folks for annoying you all once again with my droopiness |
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| Spacey Orange |
Its karma.;)
Suck it up, cry like a baby, do something to get it out of your system and move on, never looking back. It happens to EVERYONE and people get through it. |
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| D-res |
| quote: | Originally posted by {b.s.e.}
applaudible reply.
:) |
agreed |
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| Stassi |
| quote: | | Originally posted by Swamper |
words of wisdom from the master himself
can this thread die now its like im watching an episode of dawsons creek, i cant look away! :whip: :whip: :haha: :eyespop: :eyespop:
the creek sucks ass |
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| ierxium |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
nah its more like the stress overall...
I cant handle it.
Im checking into counseling soon.
2breaksup in 6months is sickening.
no job
I didnt get any internships after all my interviews...
My GPR has slipped from a 3.9 to a 3.6
I dropped my first class this semester |
Good luck with that man. I know sometimes it just seems like everything is happening the way it shouldn't. Try to break it all down or maybe try to balance it with the good things you have done this semester/year. We do good and bad. There's always a balance. Don't pay so much attention to the negative stuff. If you do, try and looking at the negative stuff so you can learn from it and maybe use it as inspiration.
As for what other people do to you, don't let it get to you. We men are lucky because there are tons of women out there. Each one is different, well, except for those with a ton of surgeries and implants. Anyway, there are women out there that do like a guy who takes the time to write down a poem to express a feeling. But then you have those who are afraid of having a man by their side that actually cares for them and puts all the possible effort to make the relationship work. All you need to do, for the good of your being, turn around and look somewhere else.
You can always try for internships man. Just gotta keep trying. Your GPA isn't that bad. The majojority of the people can't even keep a GPA above 3.0.
Dropping a class isn't bad at all. It should be looked at as a good move. You didn't fail it and you weren't ready for it. It's jsut that. You'll take it next semester. You won't stay behind. You're going forward.
Extra note: Swamper > Dr. Phil |
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| speedracer_mec |
thanks...
tomorrow im listening to a 2hr mix By SHILOH on my trip back to houston.
1. Formal - Twilight - Late Night Intro Mix [CDR]
2. Jacob Todd - The Metaphysics of Paper [3Beat Breaks]
3. Ozgur Can & Rouzbeh Delavari - Eternity [3Beat Breaks]
4. Micah - Epidemic [Unsigned]
5. Powerplant Feat. Trout - Turn It Into Gold (Nick K's Athens Remix) [Deep]
6. DJ Fox - I Believe [Tribo]
7. Spin 33 - Believe [CDR]
8. Steve Lawler - Out At Night (Nathan Fake's Night Lu Remix) [Subversive]
9. Mr. Acid - Mr. Acid [CDR]
10. Micali, Ajami, Wasley - Set You Free (Brancaccio & Aisher Suicide Sports Dub) [CDR]
11. Plastique Vision - Toyz In Panic [CDR]
12. C-Jay - Sundayzer [CDR]
13. Ozgur Can & Rouzbeh Delavari - I Know You [CDR]
14. Kasey Taylor & Chris Meehan - Biotics (Mix 1 [Vapour]
15. Shmuel Flash - For A Long Time (Fretwell Remix) [Nascent]
16. Starkid - Crayons (Habersham & Numinous Remix) [Release]
17. ??? -
18. Steve Lawler - Out At Night [Subversive]
19. Furry Nipples - Surroundings [CDR]
20. ??? -
21. Andy Moor vs Mic Burns - Control Me [Pangea]
22. Baunder - Replica [CDR]
23. Infish vs Martin H - Eye Am (David West Remix) [CDR]
24. Shy Row - ???
25. DCD - ???
26. Blue Room Project - Tuned Exposure [CDR]
the healing shall begin:( |
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| Danny Ocean |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
the healing shall begin:( |
healings dont begin with a sad smiley though..cheer up :D |
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