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My girlfriend is a whore... (pg. 3)
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| DJ_Ampz |
I found out that my ex (after we split up) had a thing for um.....lots of guys....
So while she was with me she was good, but once we split she would sleep round (and before).
Its rumoured she was in tripple digits with the number of guys she has slept with
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Yeah lets say i got tested after that (and thank god all is good)
Careful if your in Ottawa. lol.
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by wacky
Girls get away with murder...I wish it were so easy for a guy to get action. Girls are harder to trust, ironic how they always emphasize trust issues in the relationship but thats niether here n'or there.
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That is such a bull stereotype.
ANYWAYS, if it's a new relationship, I say bail and just move on. How long have you been seeing her, and how serious is it?
There are instances where I think cheaters should be forgiven. It depends what is at stake - often, an entire family is on the line b/c someone made a mistake. |
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| starsearcher |
| ...I still don't see how she's a whore... :crazy: |
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| wacky |
| quote: | Originally posted by Skipper
That is such a bull stereotype.
ANYWAYS, if it's a new relationship, I say bail and just move on. How long have you been seeing her, and how serious is it?
There are instances where I think cheaters should be forgiven. It depends what is at stake - often, an entire family is on the line b/c someone made a mistake. |
Don't even start with me. I've known way to many girls to use the stupid "ignorance" excuse, or "under the influence" and "how they regret" what ever talk, and these were the girl friends of other people. Girls are too easily "taken advantage of", but they really open them selves up to it. I've known way more worse situations, where the girl s a guy, regrets it, and her boyfriend still doesn't know, and won't because it's no ones business to say anything that does know, and how fair is that to him?
You want to talk about stereotypes, how about all the ing magazines, stupid talk shows, and ing crap guys have to put with from girls about how guys are players...I know way too many guys getting there balls broken over "cheating" when they don't even anything more dirtier than a hand shake with girls.
I'm guessing you're a cheatee instead of cheated on, because if you had someone cheat on you, you don't care about second chances..that's just disrespectful to your self. You always, always should take the huge break apart, if your future with the person should cross pathes again, so be it, but man, staying with someone knowing they cheated on you says a whole lot about you and how you respect your self. |
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| starsearcher |
| lol wacky come on both guys and girls cheat the same it's not that one can be trusted and another can't...we're all idiots :happy2: I can't be trusted....but I'll never cheat either....wait that made no sense...hhmm weird |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
lol wacky come on both guys and girls cheat the same it's not that one can be trusted and another can't...we're all idiots :happy2: I can't be trusted....but I'll never cheat either....wait that made no sense...hhmm weird |
I trust my wife. I don't trust myself.... but she does. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I trust my wife. I don't trust myself.... but she does. |
well as long as one of you does I guess...I don't trust anyone :whip:
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by wacky
I'm guessing you're a cheatee instead of cheated on, because if you had someone cheat on you, you don't care about second chances..that's just disrespectful to your self. You always, always should take the huge break apart, if your future with the person should cross pathes again, so be it, but man, staying with someone knowing they cheated on you says a whole lot about you and how you respect your self. |
lol..."dont even start with me" - or else what?
You strike me as someone who has never had a relationship worth fighting for. People make mistakes - some change, some don't. When there is a family or children at stake, it's worth giving someone another chance.
You paint every woman with the same brush, based on what seems to be a bad experience with a couple - how is that any more fair than men being portrayed as cheaters in the media? You are doing EXACTLY the same stereotyping that you complain about.
Women cheat, yes, but men do too. So quit your yappin about how wretched women are. |
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| wacky |
| quote: | Originally posted by Skipper
lol..."dont even start with me" - or else what?
You strike me as someone who has never had a relationship worth fighting for. People make mistakes - some change, some don't. When there is a family or children at stake, it's worth giving someone another chance.
You paint every woman with the same brush, based on what seems to be a bad experience with a couple - how is that any more fair than men being portrayed as cheaters in the media? You are doing EXACTLY the same stereotyping that you complain about.
Women cheat, yes, but men do too. So quit your yappin about how wretched women are. |
"don't even start with me" because your naive, ignorant and pretty much know next to nothing of where I'm coming from when I say such things. I even took the time to give you a short real example of things I know from first hand from my friends.
I have people here that know me in reality, so please don't bring my relationship into question. We have lots worth fighting for, but a cheater is gum stuck on the floor, sticking to the next shoe to walk ontop of it. Cheaters are not worth fighting for. Having a GF/BF you love so much you resist cheating, that's a fight, and that's worth fighting for. Having to be touched by and kisses and screwing around with others while you're in a relationship...well I see little to fight for for that? That's what I consider a lost cause. My stereo typing was in contrast to your own. This thread is about a guy who's hurtin or was over his promiscuous GF and his uncertaintys...next time some one is hurt by their gf, I'll be sure to comment how he probably deserves it...:rolleyes: |
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| wacky |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
lol wacky come on both guys and girls cheat the same it's not that one can be trusted and another can't...we're all idiots :happy2: I can't be trusted....but I'll never cheat either....wait that made no sense...hhmm weird |
I'm not saying one is over the other..but the differences in how one cheats over the other is a lot more different as well, girls can cheat a lot more easily, and play it off as more regretful as if they didn't know it was wrong in the first place.
This topic always hits close to home because I know situations like this where it affected too many people around me, streamline on here can vouch for me on the things I've known/put up with in a short life time that no one should have to deal with in 2. Any other topic, I wouldn't get so opinionated and "absolute" with my mentality, I just hate this topic in general. |
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| starsearcher |
....hhhhmmm I actually know quite a few girls that cheat on their boyfriends...
But I still don't see how she's a whore :stongue: |
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| moneyman |
| quote: | Originally posted by wacky
Don't even start with me. I've known way to many girls to use the stupid "ignorance" excuse, or "under the influence" and "how they regret" what ever talk, and these were the girl friends of other people. Girls are too easily "taken advantage of", but they really open them selves up to it. I've known way more worse situations, where the girl s a guy, regrets it, and her boyfriend still doesn't know, and won't because it's no ones business to say anything that does know, and how fair is that to him?
You want to talk about stereotypes, how about all the ing magazines, stupid talk shows, and ing crap guys have to put with from girls about how guys are players...I know way too many guys getting there balls broken over "cheating" when they don't even anything more dirtier than a hand shake with girls.
I'm guessing you're a cheatee instead of cheated on, because if you had someone cheat on you, you don't care about second chances..that's just disrespectful to your self. You always, always should take the huge break apart, if your future with the person should cross pathes again, so be it, but man, staying with someone knowing they cheated on you says a whole lot about you and how you respect your self. |
Cheating is horse, something weak minded s do. There is not excuse that warrants it. Drinking is by far the worst, if you are gonna become a cheater cuz you had a few drinks then dont in drink. And if you are drunk and want to nail then go home and do your sigificant other, and if they arent around do it yourself. Randoms and people you dont really know could have STDs. its just stupid for so many reasons. And if your hanging out with someone cuz you think or feel something for them, then break up with who you are with, it will just save you so many problems in the future. There is no reason to hurt people. And as for you people (girls expecially) that continue to run back to your X, may i ask WHAT THE IS THE POINT. It didnt work out before, its not gonna work anytime after. Why keep trying. And as well why even keep the X in the picture you just set yourself up for problems with the person you are with now. If you cant understand that keeping intouch with an X might bother the person you are with alot, you got issues. It all comes to trust and anyone that still deals with a X in anyway needs to get it that the person you are with will start to have trust issues with the relationship that you have with an X, there really is just no need, grow up and move on.
I FEEL LIKE Dr. Phil, I hate him |
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